A 40-year-old woman marries a 25-year-old man. In our life, what we know more is that men usually marry people younger than themselves or similar in age. Although there are not many older women, women under 40 marry men aged 25.

A 40-year-old woman married a 25-year-old man. There are many examples of "old cows eat young grass" in real life. Most of what we know is that an uncle married a little wife, but next I want to tell the story of a 40-year-old woman marrying a 25-year-old man.

Their married life can be said to be colorful and full of passion, but more helpless. Why do you say that?

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My name is Sisi. I am 40 years old. I can't say that I am a rich woman, but now I run a beauty shop and still earn a lot every month. I went through an unfortunate marriage and finally came out.

Until two years ago, I met a man who made me move again. I'm not afraid of jokes. This man is my husband now, but he is only 25 years old. When I met him, he didn't have a regular job, and now he manages my beauty salon for me.

1. At first, I was full of passion every day.

We got married soon after we met. Because they hit it off, I didn't think so much. Many people say that he took a fancy to my property, so he is willing to marry me, an old woman. But who made me like him? Let's "get what we need"!

Although I am 40 years old, I still need the nourishment of love! And he is young and energetic, and can give me the needs of life. With him, I feel like a girlhood again, not only getting younger and younger, but also full of energy every day.

I am afraid that I am not good enough for him.

It is said that the older a woman gets, the more she will think. This sentence is correct. Now I see my husband is worried, and I feel that I am still in high spirits even when I am 40 years old, not to mention that he is not even 30 now. When he is 40 years old, I will be 55 years old. Will he still love me as he does now?

Will you dislike my being old? I use the most expensive skin care products. Even if I do maintenance every day, the fine lines and spots on my face clearly tell me that I have to face the reality. Although he said he would love me for life, I was still scared and worried.

I want to have a baby with him.

I tried to get pregnant six months ago and I told him about it. At first, he didn't think I was joking. Later, he came to see me so seriously that he didn't eat Chili or drink cold drinks, only to find that I was not joking. He said to me, "Don't be silly, you are 40 now, and you are an older woman!"! A close call. I won't let you take the risk. Forget it. "

But I won't. I always wanted to get pregnant, but my stomach was disappointed. I just can't get pregnant. Now I'm over it. Let it be! Although I really want to have children, I can't force it. I really want my husband to be with my children. I hope that when I get old, he won't leave me for the children. But I don't know why he won't have children with me.

Advice for women

Won't such a marriage be taken seriously? Is it doomed to be unhappy to find a husband much younger than himself? Don't! Smart woman, look, I will teach you three tricks here.

1, have confidence in yourself.

Bernard Shaw said, "A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic".

If you are always thinking and feel that you are not worthy of the man in front of you, then you will make yourself feel inferior more and more. If you always have confidence in yourself, you will shine every day. You have money and capital. As long as you are young, you can have the same topic with your husband.

On the contrary, if you always show your worries and troubles, then your man just wants to stay away from you, and he will feel that he has lost his original feelings with you and will be depressed. Women should not plan ahead for things that have not happened. It is better to live in the present than anything else.

Try to catch up with her husband.

Men are psychologically younger than women, and men mature later than women. If you are many years older than your husband, you should try to catch up with him. You may have a certain gap and a generation gap, but this is not a problem.

As long as you are willing to walk into his heart, approach him and wait for him to mature, there will be endless topics between you. You should know your husband's preferences, try to create surprises and be more coquettish, and then you will find that there are only two of you in love.

Tasso said, "At any time, everything you pay for love will not be wasted."

So women should learn to take some practical actions.

3. Don't try to relax.

If you are an elderly woman, then don't insist on having children, and don't try to let your husband take care of them. You have this idea that you are not confident in love, distrust your husband and despise yourself more.

Although children are the crystallization of your love, they can't make you fall in love again. If you have the ability to make love last forever, it's no use having no children.

Tang Wei said, "Life is not your choice. I prefer to let nature take its course, which has a purpose. Let nature take its course, wherever you go, it is often not your decision. " .

So relax! What should come will always come.

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The quality of love management is in your own hands, even if the age difference is very wide, it is not a problem. Don't care about outside gossip, and don't regret your original choice. Love what you love, do what you do and think what you think!

A 40-year-old woman married a 25-year-old man, both of whom said they were newly married. At first, they are likely to be very happy. At that time, they were full of freshness, excitement and passion, and young men were full of vitality and charm, which would make women feel young and bring more sexual happiness. But after a long time together, many differences will follow.

Their ages are ten years apart, and their daily routine, living habits and ways of making friends are different, and their thoughts are also very different. It is inevitable that there will be differences and contradictions in views and concepts on many things. At this time, one person must make sacrifices and accommodate another person.

Ms. Lan is 40 years old and has been divorced for more than ten years. She thinks she won't move her heart easily again. It never occurred to her that she would remarry with a 25-year-old boy at the age of 40. She married her ex-husband at the age of 24, who was six years older than her.

Originally, I thought that her ex-husband was so much older than her, and she would be really happy after marriage, and she could monopolize her husband's attention and care like a little girl. Unexpectedly, there are many women outside her husband. He is not a good husband in her mind at all. This loveless marriage ended completely after only two years. Because she and her husband have been at odds, she didn't have children, and now she is alone.

Her ex-husband is a very wealthy businessman. Although their married life was not happy, she shared half of her ex-husband's assets after the divorce because she personally caught the handle of her ex-husband's infidelity. After the divorce, Ms. Lan was very rich. She doesn't have to work.

She has just started to improve herself. Her personal hobby is fitness and shaping, so she goes to a fitness club every week to participate in fitness. Over time, the movements became more and more standardized, and many difficult movements were learned. Being single is really free. Occasionally, about three or five friends get together, shopping, drinking tea and chatting. A person's life is really moist and delicious.

Over the years, she has followed the fashion trend and become more and more fashionable. Although he is over forty years old, he looks no different from a girl in her twenties. There are countless boys who pursue perfection, but most of them are for her looks and wealth. For so many years, a man who really loves her has never seen her. Married life can't make do. She would rather have nothing than nothing, so she has been single proudly for more than ten years.

The appearance of teacher Liu completely shattered Ms. Lan's previous prejudice against boys. Let her suddenly have the privilege of being respected by men. Mr. Liu is the youngest son of Ms. Lan's best friend. He is the coach of a fitness club. In order to take care of her best friend's son's business, Ms. Lan paid for Mr. Liu's personal coaching course.

Men and women who are ten years apart are unlikely to have feelings. However, as the personal coaching course went on day by day, they developed a good impression on each other. Ms. Lan learned that Mr. Liu is a person who is very responsible for his feelings. Although I have feelings for him, he will not show it easily, and the age gap is always great.

Mr. Liu also fell in love with this elder sister who likes to maintain. Because I have been strengthening my exercise for so many years, my appearance is very well maintained. She looks younger than herself and doesn't feel any age difference. After that, Mr. Liu couldn't help but confess to Ms. Lan. Although Ms. Lan also had a good impression on Mr. Liu, she refused at first.

Because he knows that to accept this feeling, he must cross many secular obstacles and human barriers. But in the end, Mr. Liu's true feelings touched him. After that, they did get married, and the relationship between Ms. Lan and her best friend was completely broken. They started their married life against the wishes of their families.

Before getting married, Ms. Lan often asked Mr. Liu: "I am a brother and sister relationship. The standard old cow has eaten tender grass. Do you really have no regrets? " Mr. Liu's response is: I will not regret how happy I am with you. But these two people have only been married for a week, and Ms. Lan began to regret it. She feels that her husband dotes on her even if she is old and has few wives, and her married life should be very happy. But just one week after marriage, many contradictions began to follow.

First of all, Mr. Liu likes to stay up late to play games. When he committed the crime, it was always three or four in the morning. The next day, he basked in the sun and didn't get up. But Ms. Lan is used to going to bed early and getting up early. The difference between the two people's schedules is really too big for Ms. Lan to adapt. Secondly, Mr. Liu especially likes to get together with friends and always likes to bring friends home for a party and drink. Ms. Lan doesn't like this noisy party very much. Later, Mr. Liu always took his friends out to play. From then on, staying out at night is a very common thing.

Moreover, Mr. Liu never does housework, and often makes things at home messy, but never cleans up by himself. In this respect, Ms. Lan feels very tired and feels like his old lady. When her husband was young, he often felt immature. Although Ms. Li has not suffered any hardships in life for more than ten years, she is much more mature than her husband now. Ms. Lan, who has been married for a week, is miserable. He said the tender grass was not delicious.

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In fact, everything has two sides, both good and bad. If a woman marries a man ten years younger than herself, although you enjoy the youth of this man, you have to pay a lot for it. Ms. Lan's choice to marry Mr. Liu, who is ten years younger than herself, requires a lot of energy to tolerate her. When Mr. Liu matures, you can get through it slowly.

A 40-year-old woman marries a 25-year-old man. What's it like to marry an older woman? The 30-year-old man told the truth.

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My surname is He. I am 30 years old. My wife is older than me 1 1 year. Many people don't understand why I found a wife so much older than me. But I don't care what others think of me, because my wife and I are in love and happy together. Why did I meet my wife? This started a long time ago.

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Because I am a single-parent family, my parents divorced when I was 15 years old, and then I lived with my father. I know they have to divorce, because this is an adult matter, and I can't ask. My father is busy doing business all day and has little time to take care of me. Besides, I was also in a rebellious period of youth, and fighting and making trouble at school was common.

For this reason, I am often criticized by teachers and often invite my parents to school, probably because my mother is not around! Sometimes I really miss my mother, but my mother has found a new family and rarely comes back to see me. This is how I spent my adolescence.

Because of the lack of maternal love, I feel inferior and not confident enough in front of beautiful young girls. Although I am handsome, some girls chase me. But I'm not good at chatting with girls, so they think I'm bored, like a Woodenhead, and say goodbye to me before I formally fall in love.

Later, when I came out to work in society, I was still so shy. I dare not speak loudly in front of strangers, let alone talk to others, and I don't want to make friends with others. I became a lonely person. Actually, it's not like this in my heart. It's just that after my mom divorced my dad, I became like this. I am rich in heart, eager for someone to understand me, but I don't know how to express it.

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So people don't take the initiative to talk to me, and I won't take the initiative to communicate with others. This is also because I am not confident enough to say something that others don't like to hear. As long as someone replies to me a little, I will blush and can't wait to find a place to get up at once. It's really hard for a boy with my personality to find a girlfriend. So people my age, I basically don't communicate with him, but I don't seem to have any obstacles to communicate with people older than me, because my ideas are mature, so I have many topics with them.

At the age of 25, I met the most important person in my life, that is my wife. When I first saw her, she caught my attention. She dresses beautifully and talks extraordinary. I don't know why I can't find a topic with others. And I always have something to say to her. After contacting her, I realized that she was a divorced woman, and her husband betrayed her, if she hadn't said it herself.

I never guessed that she would have such a bumpy experience, because at ordinary times, she doesn't look like an eventful person at all, but rather like a carefree little girl. After listening to her story, I feel that I am in the same boat with her, so I especially like to tell her what I think. I am willing to share anything happy or unhappy with her. In this way, we had a good chat.

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After a year together, we decided to fall in love. In fact, many people around me advised me to think about it and whether to fall in love with her. Because she is so much older than me, to be honest, I don't think about age, I just think about whether I like you or not. Moreover, he also bears the criticism of others, and his thoughts are the same as mine. Age is not an issue. The most important thing is to meet a bosom friend to talk to. The most important thing is a confidante.

Later, I told my father that I wanted to marry her, and my father didn't object or support it. Anyway, he asked me to think about it. He said, life is your own, you choose, but please don't regret it. My position is firm, and I won't regret it, because in my wife, I saw my past self, and at the same time I felt sorry for her, and I liked her very much, so I married her, even though we finished the wedding under everyone's criticism.

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After marriage, we work in the same city, go out to work together every day and do housework together after work. We talked and laughed. With her, I can forget all my troubles. Maybe he has this magic, which is why I love it so much. I think I like each other because there is something that attracts you, and love is to attract and appreciate each other. This feeling is what I want.

Although my wife is older than me 1 1 years old, she usually loves sports and is well maintained. I can't see it at all. I am similar to her. So we walked in the street, no one would talk about us, but we envied our love more. After so many years of marriage, we have basically never been separated, and there are few contradictions, because we know how to tolerate each other, understand each other and discuss things together when something goes wrong.

Besides, we have our own lovely baby. Being able to marry such a wife is really the greatest blessing in my life, so I don't think there is any obstacle for a man to marry a woman older than him. But the premise is that you two really love each other, so I am very grateful to my wife for giving me a warm home. He loves me, and she loves me very much, which is enough. The road is your own, and life is your choice, so happiness is the most important thing, and you don't have to care about other people's ideas.