However, many places have different marriage traditions, especially in rural areas. There are many national traditions in China, and the customs handed down from different places are different.
With the change of the times, many young people who pursue novelty will hold more creative weddings, but in the village, it is inevitable that the customs left over by the older generation will not be completed, which will lead to gossip.
Many old people also want to follow the tradition, generally to show their filial piety, and many young people will choose to go back to the village to hold traditional weddings.
Tradition should not be abandoned, but we should take its essence and discard its dross.
With the development of society, more and more customs are gradually improved. Nowadays, many relatives and friends attending the wedding often take appropriate measures to make the wedding go smoothly and try to leave the best memories for the bride and groom.
Talking about marriage has always been a common phenomenon in rural weddings, and there are still many bad habits in some places; After local transformation, many places have become more and more civilized in this respect, but wedding habits are still emerging one after another.
An embarrassing thing happened to the bride when she got married. According to local customs, the bride and groom should toast the guests in turn at dinner, so that relatives and friends can know the bride, which means that the daughter-in-law has been determined.
On this day, the bride puts on a proper red toasting suit, smiles and toasts the guests coming and going, and the guests coming and going also like to tease the bride.
Today, Xi's father-in-law is also very happy. He reciprocated the guests and friends from all over the world, showing off that his son had married a daughter-in-law. After a few drinks, his father-in-law was in high spirits and looked very happy. The smile on his face never stopped.
On this big day, it doesn't hurt to play a little joke. The guests nearby joked that the bride and her father-in-law would have a drink, and then someone booed them to drink. Obviously, this joke is not suitable for the identity of daughter-in-law and father-in-law.
At first, my father-in-law thought it was inappropriate. The bride is thin-skinned, so it is difficult to refute the guests' teasing. I saw one of the guests directly push the bride's glass and ask for a toast.
Seeing that the atmosphere was quite warm, Xi's father-in-law turned against him. Finally, under the booing of everyone, he pushed Mulberry for several rounds. Xi's father-in-law took the wedding banquet and raised a glass with the bride. Everyone cheered and the atmosphere reached a climax in an instant.
Who knows, my father-in-law drank a few glasses of wine, perhaps because of his great strength, and put his arm around his daughter-in-law's shoulder. The bride was obviously unhappy, but she couldn't say anything but smiled politely.
While talking and laughing with the guests, my father-in-law filled the wine from time to time and urged my daughter-in-law to return the gift to the guests. After a round, my father-in-law turned red and became more and more excited. Obviously, he went a little too far, and the hand that fell on the bride's shoulder never came back.
Most of the guests present only care about eating and drinking, perhaps especially the local wedding customs. Everyone has long been used to it, and no one thinks it is inappropriate except the bride.
The groom not far away may have seen the displeasure on the bride's face and leaned over quickly, but Xi's father-in-law didn't notice the bride's mood at all, and the groom even directly interrupted his father to propose a toast. After all, this is his father, and losing face is also his own loss.
I saw the groom standing beside the bride, looking solemn, because the guest did not directly take off his father's hand.
I like my father-in-law talking and laughing, and the atmosphere is warm. His face was flushed and he took his daughter-in-law everywhere to introduce him.
I think the bride is also very cultured. Although she felt unreasonable, she didn't embarrass her father-in-law on the spot. I saw her generous and decent, greeting guests one by one and toasting. Although her face was full of embarrassment, she managed to squeeze out a smile and insisted on the wedding.