However, growth comes at a price. I still remember talking back to my parents at home and threatening to run away from home to get married. At that time, my father said, if you dare to leave this house for half a step, you will sever the father-daughter relationship with me. But in the end, it was the mother who compromised first and then persuaded her father. In this way, with the reluctant blessing of parents. I was so self-righteous that I finally got rid of my old life. Opened the "beautiful" family life in my heart!
After leaving home, I really lived a very rich life. My husband is very kind to me, and my in-laws have a strong family background! I live a carefree life. I open my eyes every day, that is, where to play today, where to spend money, where to do beauty, and where to travel next week. This cycle of life. At that time, money meant nothing to me. It is just a piece of paper that can make me happy. My husband's family has been doing business, so I feel very nourishing. I got married directly after graduating from college. I have never experienced society or worked. It seems that I skipped the pain of my peers looking for a job and watched my friends and classmates graduate together. They rushed to the job fair, and my life as a full-time wife was envied by everyone.
Slowly, my parents saw my life. Don't blame me so much. On the contrary, they found themselves extremely uncomfortable in the days without their daughters. My father went on working and no longer had to worry about my tuition and living expenses. My mother often gives herself a fitness card and goes swimming. Everyone's life is quietly changing. My in-laws are also very kind to me, and my husband is also very obedient to me! He always felt that I was desperate for him and came to his life circle. I am very grateful! It is also good for my parents, and I will visit them every holiday. Now, everyone has adapted to their own lives. How quiet it is!
I don't regret marrying far away. However, I regret that my parents' opposition to marriage was hurt by my handling. In retrospect, we should discuss it with our parents slowly, let them accept it slowly and not be too radical. This is the pain that stays in my heart forever. Maybe I am lucky, from falling in love to getting married in one go. But I'm really lucky. I never thought about it. My husband's family followed me like this.
Therefore, I think it is lucky to marry far away. Mainly depends on the husband! Choose the right person, every day is Valentine's Day, and there will be some friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The key depends on how the husband coordinates the relationship. One more thing, the economic base determines the superstructure. But unlike people who have been poor together, life is just rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea. Therefore, far marriage is not the standard of permanent marriage happiness at all.