Caroline:
When I was a child, I was poor and determined to realize the American dream (big house, car, exquisite garden, high-end party).
For occupations:
I believe that success can solve all problems, study hard, practice success, often use psychological hints, don't allow yourself to be sad when you are lost and miserable, slap yourself and repeatedly say "I refuse to be a weak person!" " "
She will get breast cancer sooner or later if she keeps suppressing her emotions like this. Shouting after the extramarital affair is discovered is the only emotional catharsis.
What the sales champion said was unconditionally absorbed: "If you want to succeed, you must always look successful."
Selectively ignore the problems under each other's perfect appearance: pressure accumulation, unhappy marriage.
Strong in wood, bullying the weak and afraid of hard work, friendly to gay neighbors in high-income occupations, and sharing their experience in growing flowers; Neighbors who used to feed stray cats were rude and cut down all the trees in other people's yards.
For families:
Compared with her exquisiteness, both her husband and children are out of control.
With a gun and a stick in his mouth, he said to his daughter, "Do you mean to be ugly?" "You didn't make any mistakes just now!" As for her husband, she kept urging him to go out, hinting at how incompetent he was and how much he had paid for his family. She thought that as the main source of income for the family, she had the capital to treat her husband and daughter rudely and teach and manage them as her own employees.
For feelings:
I once loved her simply, but her husband couldn't give her the upper-class life she wanted, so they drifted away.
Her infidelity is to fill the emotional emptiness and enjoy the excitement of high-class life brought by successful people. Even the decompression method is shooting, so advanced.
To life:
It requires a high quality of life and must meet the standards of "upper class".
The house should be big, the food should listen to light music, and the sofa should be imported, but there is no emotion. Both her daughter and husband disdained her affected taste.
The heart needs to be recognized. The husband slapped the sofa angrily and said, "This is just a sofa!" " "She was very wronged, saying that this is not just a sofa, it is an imported sofa made of Italian leather, worth $4,000.
In fact, what she wants to say is: "This is the dream sofa that I worked hard to climb up and earn money, and finally bought. It means that I will never be poor again. It is my sense of security. "
She has a strong ability to work, but she is not a heartless person who is completely desperate for her career. She needs emotional support very much. If she can care about her family like a customer, she will be much happier and work harder.
She really needs such a lesson: how to speak comfortably.
Lester:
No ambition for work, no passion for life, no planning for life and family. I am a big boy.
Because of Angela, she rekindled her passion for life, exercised, resigned, made friends, bought her dream car and resisted her wife's verbal humiliation.
Finally, he found that his love for Angela is the love of adults for children, and what he really wants is the passion for life.
He took the initiative to try to repair the family relationship, wanted to be a happy person again, wanted to be a good partner with Jenny again, and wanted to wake up his smiling wife.
Dramatically, just when he found a glimmer of hope, he was killed with a smile on his mouth.
His speed of change is admirable. After all, middle-aged people who can honestly say, "I want to look naked." It is rare to get down to work and practice eight-pack abdominal muscles from uncle belly in a few months.
However, his yearning for a better life is still in the hormone-driven stage. If he had money, he would buy a dream car and smoke marijuana. He just wants to vent his anger and has no long-term plans. If he doesn't die, he will find that these things can't really satisfy him. He needs to find "what kind of lifestyle do I want."
Angela:
A beautiful and sexy girl will make good use of her beauty and sexy.
She really wants to be a precocious person, so that she can look better than her peers.
She lied that she had many boyfriends and rich sexual experience, and thought that others called her a slut because she was jealous of her beauty.
But in fact, her heart is a simple and insecure little girl. Jenny is the only friend. When Jenny wanted to elope with her boyfriend, she was very flustered and tried her best to stop it. She is afraid that her only friend Jenny will leave her.
A girl who has no talent and believes that her beauty can open the door to convenience may suffer a lot, especially in the modeling circle she wants to join.
Jenny:
Fortunately, orphans in the perfect family.
The family conditions are very good, the family is over, and both parents have decent jobs. It is a "normal and happy" family in the eyes of outsiders. Therefore, no one understands that she lives like an orphan, let alone her hatred for her father.
The unhappiness of the family is not necessarily manifested in quarrels and poverty, but in alienation and indifference, just like the long distance between three people at the dinner table and the dead music, which also breeds resentment.
Ricky:
This is my favorite character, and he has the best hope of happiness.
What I admire about him is that he didn't try to change anyone, nor did he try to change any rules. He explored a set of survival strategies to maximize his own interests.
To my father:
By fighting wits and giving each other what they want, we can see the weakness of the strong.
When necessary, lie, open your mouth, and be calm and steady.
He inherited his father's restraint and discipline as a soldier, but his emotional intelligence was higher than his father's.
When he saw his father commenting on his gay neighbors, he said, "Please forgive my rude words." Then he cursed homosexuality with vicious language, which not only showed that "I am an enterprising young man, and I am not easy to swear", but also showed my loyalty to my father, "I hate homosexuality". I stood firm, gave full emotional value and had a high emotional intelligence.
Hearing this, my father looked at him with a little surprise. In fact, he knows his son's speech strategy, but he can't find anything wrong.
To mother:
I am nostalgic and distressed, but I won't try to save it.
He knew that people should save themselves first, so when the opportunity to run away from home came, he said goodbye to his mother resolutely, hoping that she would take good care of herself and her father and pursue his own life.
For love:
Since he is an alien, he doesn't force himself to integrate into the mainstream, so he is keenly aware of Jenny, a lonely person who is as insecure as he is.
His pursuit way is to clearly tell each other "I have been paying attention to you".
He brazenly pointed his camera at Jenny and wrote her name downstairs. She is not a teenager, and she knows what Jenny wants, which is attention and understanding.
He will help Jenny say what she wants to say but is afraid to say. For example, Angela said, "You are not Jenny's friend. You make friends with her just to show your superiority. " "You are ugly and boring, and you know it."
When Jenny complained that her father was a failure, she said, "I hope someone can end his sorrow." He said, "Do you want me to kill him?"
He is too sensible to do such a thing that will cause him great trouble. By saying this, he is saying, "I understand your pain and stand firmly on your side."
Jenny asked, "Would you like to?" He said, "I have an idea."
In fact, what Jenny needs is someone who can understand her, even if it is such an extreme idea. The boyfriend understood and said, "I'm not serious."
For money:
He is very business-minded. The dealer's business is doing well. He used his part-time job as a waiter to observe and attract potential customers, and used discounts to let customers help him in various ways. He knows a lot about win-win strategy.
He has always had the intention of running away from home, and has made full plans and preparations for this; When his father kicked him out of the house, he took the money and left immediately. The destination is very clear. I went to new york to meet my friends.
When he asked Jenny if she would like to go with him, her tone was very clear and firm. He had planned this day long ago.
His life principle is: if the resistance is ineffective, be familiar with the rules, try to avoid punishment, and at the same time develop in a wretched way and accumulate capital to leave the system. He is a precocious person.
Banker is a dangerous pit, which is likely to lead to disaster.
If he can clearly see that this matter is only a temporary means to strive for a normal life for himself, it should not be a problem to achieve his career with his talent, intelligence and emotional intelligence.
Judging from his high-pressure family, it is rare for him to live so sober. I hope his future is bright and beautiful.