1. Not sensitive

As long as you don't pay attention to anyone's dynamics, don't speculate on anyone's thoughts, and don't imagine things that haven't happened, be simple, straightforward and slow, you will find you very comfortable! For example, if you close the entrance to your circle of friends, you can click on your avatar and post what you want. It will be much easier if you don't take the initiative to see what others have sent. The feeling of closing your circle of friends for a year = anxiety -80%= focusing on your own ability +80%.

2. Work hard silently and make a blockbuster.

Don't tell others about your plan, just show them the results. Many psychological tests show that telling others about your goals and thinking patterns will make you feel satisfied that your goals have been achieved, and you will not be so active in making the efforts needed to achieve your goals! Because in an ideal situation, you will only be satisfied if you do one thing, but after telling others, others will recognize your goal and you will feel some satisfaction in advance! The wisest thing to do is to work hard silently and surprise everyone.

3. Empty cup mentality, open mind.

I don't know if you have heard the saying that an empty cup mentality is the greatest acceptance! An empty cup can hold the most water, just like an empty heart can hold the most water: I once did an experiment with the same teacher with the same content. At first, I felt that the teacher was a little arrogant and exaggerated, so I subconsciously studied with a questioning attitude. Even if I spent money, I did it, but I went with a "verification" attitude, and the result can be imagined.

Later, I tried to change my mind. Since so many people come to this teacher and say that she is good, I will listen devoutly. I haven't changed anything else, but I have made achievements that I didn't believe I would have before. Only by clearing your mind can you absorb it to the greatest extent.

4. From 0 to 1 is self-discipline, and after 1 is inertia.

The premise of freedom is self-discipline, and the top of self-discipline is enjoyment. May you see the big with the small, and see the small with the big: what you do may not be fruitful for the time being, but don't worry, you are not growing, you are taking root! It's easier said than done, and it's not hard to do. It's hard the first time, but not after that. It is difficult to go from 0 to 1, and it is not difficult after 1, but many people can't do 1, so the road to success is not crowded, because not many people can persist.

5. Cognitive height will be backward compatible.

After more people have higher cognition, higher acceptance, stronger compatibility and fewer contradictions and disputes, I have to admit that those who have a sense of stability and order are the most attractive to me. The chaotic world has nothing to do with them. Their daily life is stable, their hobbies are stable, their studies are stable and their values are stable. They have endogenous anchors and have nothing to do with the outside world.

I came across a passage: "Whether it's a friend, a job or a relationship, if you feel particularly compatible with each other, the communication will be pleasant and even make you suddenly enlightened. Do you know what this means?"

There is a 1% chance to meet your soul mate; There is a 99% chance that you will meet someone whose experience, IQ and EQ are above you, while the other person is only backward compatible. As long as he is willing, he can reach this empathy with everyone at your level.

6. The heart can be broken, but the hand can't stop.

When you are so stressed that you are about to collapse, don't tell others and don't feel wronged. Talent and mind are wronged. In the dead of night, I took out my heart, sewed it myself, and then woke up safely.

Nobody cares, or you are not as good as others. Try to be quiet and do what you should do. Don't let fidgety and anxiety ruin your little enthusiasm and concentration. Your heart can be broken, but your hand can't stop. This is what you should look like!

7. Don't be influenced by anyone.

If you send a circle of friends to share your life, don't care about the praises and comments that others give you. If you wear makeup to please yourself, don't look anxious. Worrying is the same as not caring too much about others. Eyes, while ignoring their own feelings, their current happiness is the most important! Occasionally pessimistic self-doubt, but sincerity and kindness will always be my background!