In fact, most girls, including M department, are not rich and beautiful, have no rich second generation couples, even have low academic qualifications, and are occasionally a little lazy and stupid, but we have a heart to pursue the most exquisite life.
1/ Why do you want to be a delicate woman?
Why do you want to be a delicate woman? There is such an answer on Zhihu that it is very accurate:
I flew on a business trip and made a girl next to me. Silk stockings, skirts, high heels, pink cheeks, bright red lips, flying for more than 7/8 hours, I can't wait to put on pajamas. I feel uncomfortable when I encounter such a long flight with makeup.
When the plane entered the stratosphere, she changed her cotton slippers and took out a big cosmetic bag with makeup remover, mask, eye mask and travel toothpaste and toothbrush lined up. No one went to the toilet just after flying. She went in to remove makeup, returned to her seat in time, applied a hydrating mask after dinner, and then finished washing. Finally, she put on a lavender-flavored disposable eye mask, asked the stewardess for a glass of water, and swallowed a large piece of melanin-removed stuff to sleep.
I don't know whether it's fatigue or drugs. The plane hit the baby and the baby cried. She slept soundly all the way (yes, I woke up) and got up to go to the toilet. When she came back, her makeup was finished again. Her eyelashes are upright and her eyeliner is angular. After this trip, her hair was not messy, and her makeup was not spent. She was radiant and radiant.
With this skillful craft and exquisite details, I guess she is a working girl, and she has already gone on a business trip, or she is a lover of thousands of miles.
For girls, no matter when they dress up, they should dress up beautifully and make themselves look radiant. This is not to please others, but to make yourself more confident and courageous to face problems; Or in the face of unknown difficulties, can have enough energy to deal with.
2/ What kind of life is exquisite?
In the classic film Breakfast at Tiffany's starring Hepburn, Holly, dressed in a little black dress and jewelry, sat in front of Tiffany's window, drinking coffee gracefully and slowly eating praise, like an isolated fairy, turning an ordinary breakfast into a grand banquet.
In the movie The Devil of Prada, the devil's marriage failed, and she hid in the hotel and cried. When everyone thought she was crushed, she wasn't. Going out the next day, she was still the woman with exquisite makeup and confident pace.
If strength is a man's armor, then exquisiteness is a woman's best weapon. For a girl, a delicate makeup, a gorgeous skirt and a pair of high heels that suit her are really important. A girl must arm herself from head to toe in order to live a confident life.
3/ Be a delicate woman who only pleases herself.
Many girls ask me, how do you think you can become attractive, attractive and a delicate woman to be liked by more people?
I used to think that being a delicate girl and making myself more beautiful can please men better. Later, I understood a seemingly simple but difficult truth, that is, never try to please anyone and never change yourself for others.
I often hear people say, "You have to be good enough for others to like you." In everyone's subconscious, only good people can please others.
For example, before 18 years old, he could do nothing but study. You can go all out to be admitted to a famous university, go back to your hometown after graduation, take an examination of a civil servant, find a civil servant, marry your husband and have children, and live a stable life.
Most of M's classmates come here like this, so M always asks "What are you doing in a girl's house?" In fact, as long as most people see that you are different from them, they will use all kinds of cruel words to question why you are different from others.
But these standards are not as important as your inner feelings. Do what you want, not what you call pandering to the public. I hope every woman can remember that no matter how busy she is, she must please herself.