Nowadays, many housewives are keen on square dancing. I often see the city square under the building. Many old people get together to follow the rhythm of music, and everyone is filled with happy smiles.
Square dance is a good exercise and fitness method for middle-aged and elderly people, and its benefits are self-evident: square dance can lose weight. In general, dancing for two hours will consume too many calories and unnecessary body fat.
Make the quality of sleep better, get more rest, make people more attractive, more energetic, more eye-catching, more efficient in study, training and work, help to relax the nervous system and eliminate the psychological pressure generated in study or work.
It is helpful to promote persistence, exercise and hone will, dare to meet challenges, enhance confidence and shape a healthy brand image. Show the opportunity to enjoy happiness with basin friends and promote everyone's emotions; Show opportunities to meet new friends, learn and cultivate the spirit of cooperation in crowd-themed activities.
Recreation and killing time will make you feel happy, interesting, fun and exciting, and let you learn and train many professional skills, which are more likely to be used for a lifetime.
However, the 62-year-old sister complained: Don't indulge in square dance, because everyone's experience is miserable. Let's see why this big sister said never to indulge in square dance.
Aunt Chen, 62: Although many people dance square dance now, I don't dance square dance anymore. It's not that I don't have time, nor that I don't like it very much. I just don't dare to dance anymore. Why do you say that? One by one, listen to me. I liked square dance very much last year. But I lost a little grandson because I danced square dance. I'm really scared. My son almost broke up with me. There has been a lot of discussion about this. If I hadn't cried and begged my son, if the child hadn't been indecisive, it would be hard for my son to forgive me now and call me this mother.
At that time, I was so obsessed with square dance that my little grandson waited for me in the city square after school. I said to go home together after the square dance. I have told my little grandson not to run around, but where will the children listen?
There are so many interesting things in the city square that it is not easy for children to listen. Once no adults see them, they will string them together. On the other hand, because I am still dancing in the square dance, I don't know if my little grandson is still standing waiting for me. When we went home to find him after the square dance, I found that my little grandson had disappeared.
Then I called the police. My grandson's disappearance is really my problem. None of this would have happened if I hadn't been obsessed with square dance and brought him home directly. But there is no if in this world, because I am obsessed with square dance and indirectly lost my grandson. Although I begged my son to forgive me, I will never get over it.
I will feel guilty for the rest of my life. I lost my grandson. It's been half a year now and I haven't found it yet. This is my fault. I want to cry every time I think about it. Therefore, I advise you not to indulge in square dance, otherwise you will lose more things, and all the things you lose are things you care about. Once lost, some things will cease to exist, and you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Why do many people advise middle-aged women not to be obsessed with square dance for fear of being gossiped by neighbors?
Many middle-aged women like to dance square dance with a male partner, not just sisters. Most middle-aged women will have a male partner. If they have too much contact with male partners, they will let their neighbors gossip.
Have no intention of doing housework.
Some women are really obsessed with square dance, thinking about how to dance better every day, learning dance at home, so obsessed that they have no mind to do housework.
Cause extramarital affairs
Why do many people don't like middle-aged women dancing square dance? Most families were separated by the square dance because of the extramarital affairs caused by the square dance. Some women have male companions, are obsessed with square dancing, and often go dancing, and they feel it when dancing. Having an affair has affected your original family.
Square dancing is good in itself. You can exercise and make friends, but it takes a certain degree to dance square dance. Whether you are dancing square dance or other hobbies, you must have a degree. Within this degree, once a good thing exceeds this degree, it is a bad thing, just like the square dance danced by the three aunts above. If they master this level of square dance, it is really a good thing. Can they exercise, make friends and be bored?
But it was because they lost control that so many bad things happened. Who can blame this? I can only blame myself for not controlling this degree well. Therefore, we must grasp this degree, whether it is square dancing or other hobbies, otherwise good things will turn into bad things. We must grasp this degree well and never regret it for a long time. I came to talk about feelings, read other people's stories and reflect on my life. Don't go other people's way.