What should I say to end a relationship? The relationship between lovers is actually a game between adults. Since it's a game, I have to let go. The following is the information I want to share with you about how to end the relationship between lovers. I hope it helps you.
What should I say to end a relationship? 1 Just tell him to cut the gordian knot.
Lovers can't escape these three endings in the end.
1. After the freshness period, I feel bored and go back to my family.
Love is like injecting a stimulant into your otherwise dull life. In the process of excitement, you feel fresh and exciting, but this feeling cannot last long. After the excitement and passion, two people will have such contradictions, and then find that the lover who makes her (him) feel fresh and exciting doesn't really love himself. After a long time, she will get tired of the original fresh excitement and start to be boring.
There are many such scenes on TV, which eventually end the relationship between lovers and return to the family, but if the original match knows, it will be irreparable harm whether it is torn up or endured.
2. Although it was successful, it was costly and there were hidden dangers.
There are really two people who are anxious at 13 o'clock, let love be the master, as if they love to the extreme, and are unwilling to be a pair of lovers who are just sneaking around. The third wanted to be superior, the second wanted to be enthroned, and finally all the difficulties were overcome. Only then did I find that, before long, the new married life was still a trivial matter, full of contradictions, but they blamed and blamed each other and shirked their responsibilities. Plus the ex-wife and parenting problems of remarried families. As well as small friction problems in life, will aggravate the so-called love between two people. This kind of love has original sin. When you really quarrel, you will find that in the end, you are all skin and bones, sweeping the floor gently, and neither of you is a good thing.
3, the relationship is exposed, and people and money are empty.
A man lingered between his wife and lover for many years, hiding it from his wife for many years. He thought he was enjoying other people's happiness. In fact, when he came back from vacation with his lover, he found that there was no one at home, only a divorce agreement was lying quietly on the coffee table, and there were mountains of hard evidence of his derailment.
When he found his lover, he found that his lover had found a new ATM machine, but he was obviously not as rich as a new couple. Once the relationship is exposed, don't think that his wife will cry for you to come back. Now that women are self-reliant, it is possible to earn money by themselves. It is not negotiable to divide your property in minutes. She forbeared only because she didn't meet a good opportunity.
What should I say to end a relationship? The best way to end an extramarital affair.
Although ending extramarital affairs is to lead an honest and clean life, we can't ignore the consideration of expression. Sometimes too direct or too vicious ways will often make the other person's emotions out of control, overreact, and be too gentle to achieve immediate results. Therefore, this requires you to understand your lover's personality and take appropriate measures. It is best to combine rigidity with softness, at least not to embarrass both sides on the surface and hurt each other's self-esteem. This is the most taboo.
What kind of extramarital affairs do men hate to break?
1, San Xiao is beautiful. Men are all visual animals. Many times, they say they don't care, and their wives are the most beautiful, but they still think of other women from time to time. That casual look back can always evoke his sensitive nerves.
When a man falls in love with a woman's pomegranate skirt, the first step is beauty, especially when a middle-aged woman looks at her wife in a sloppy and vivid way. They are not feminine at all, but form a strong contrast, and eventually they don't like their first wife and turn to infatuation with extramarital affairs.
2. San Xiao is considerate and agrees with men. Many men are not recognized in marriage, and their wives can't understand it, especially in middle age. As long as they open their eyes, they are surrounded by people who rely on them, and there is nothing he can rely on. Every day is particularly tiring, and most of the women he relies on are considerate, and it is not easy to understand a man and agree with him. When men are with her, they are always particularly relaxed, so they are particularly infatuated and can't break this.
3. The lover worships himself very much, and can find dignity with her. Men can't live without a sense of accomplishment. It will be a man's greatest pain to keep looking up at other people's snorts. Men want to have such a woman, not because of looks, money, career aura, nor because of eloquence, but because of willingness and perseverance. Once such a woman appears, it is difficult to break up this relationship.
Lovers can bring endless satisfaction and fun to their sexual behavior. Such a woman is not necessarily beautiful, but she is colorful, sexy and easy to satisfy, which makes men feel that they are the most manly. In fact, it is difficult for men to find a lover for sex. She needs charm and experience, but she can't give people a feeling of being forced. Men really want to have such a person, who is 100% in tune in sex, so it is really difficult for him to break up with mistress.
Why is there an affair?
Because most men like the new and hate the old, which is the so-called "red flag at home, colorful flags fluttering outside." When a woman has an extramarital affair, she often likes the new and hates the old, and her body and mind will involuntarily reject her existing husband. So women's extramarital affairs have a greater impact on marriage. Extramarital affairs in today's society are no strangers to us. Many people will be surrounded by such people, who are married, have children, live a carefree life and have extramarital affairs.
How to end a relationship? How to deal with the relationship with an old lover?
Leave a gap
Distance and time are enough to make you forget your ex as soon as possible. If you are in the same company, it is inevitable to bow your head and not look up. If you really see it, say a few polite words and avoid going to the places you used to go. If TA is ill, don't show any concern, lest the other party think you have the meaning of getting back together. If not, you can apply to change to another department or workplace.
Will express their feelings.
Whether it is a man or a woman, whether it is breaking up or being dumped, lovelorn will always bring a blow to yourself. If you are an introverted or strong-willed person, forcing yourself to suppress your emotions at this time will only make yourself more and more uncomfortable. You can go out to exercise, take a hot bath after sweating, and then write a diary to express your feelings, which can at least make you feel better.
Don't make excuses for yourself
Emotion is the most difficult to control. When emotions are out of control, there is often no reason, and even a contradictory situation of love and hate may appear. In fact, I know what I should do, but I will keep making mistakes and then make excuses for myself again and again. Don't deceive yourself after falling out of love. Love is love, and not love is not love. If you always hint that you can still be friends, it will only rekindle the feelings that have died, but it will not last long after rekindling.
Balance your mind.
It's no big deal to be lovelorn, so don't always hint at how hard it is to be alone, especially on a holiday like Valentine's Day. Adjust your mentality, don't envy others, let alone envy others. A person's life is very comfortable and wonderful. Go back to your life without emotional ties. You don't need to make unnecessary changes for others You will find that the true self is the best.
In fact, I think the easiest way to deal with the relationship with an old lover is to make it clear to your lover that you have nothing to say and nothing to hide. In this way, even if you keep close practice with your ex-lover, your lover is mentally prepared. As long as you don't cheat and do anything excessive, then your lover will certainly not be angry.
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