After reading You Just Look Hard, my best friend is a hard worker. That's what I've said about her since college. She was in the study room when we went to Ditan Book Fair. She was in the study room when we organized a group to watch the exhibition; She was still in the study room when the dormitory boss and the sixth grade joined hands with students from other departments to hold a small photo exhibition. However, my best friend is often depressed. She doesn't understand why her efforts are inversely proportional to her academic performance, when she is clearly the person who goes to the study room most attentively.
To tell the truth, I just sympathize with her IQ. I still remember that there was a stalk in the dormitory that was "so-and-so intelligent and amiable". But if my best friend could have watched Li Shanglong's "You just look hard", she wouldn't always drag me to accompany her to do intelligence tests, but put her mind more on practice.
In fact, people who "look busy and work hard" are not uncommon around us. Maybe that's what we are. Don't be embarrassed to admit that everyone has had a period of "seemingly hard work, but actually inefficient". However, some people wake up early, so they turn back; However, some people have exhausted their time and energy and are still circling in the predicament of life. When it comes to hard work, I'm afraid only we can understand what we are doing-of course, some people don't even understand themselves, which is even more terrible.
There is never a shortage of chicken soup to persuade people to make progress, but most inspirational books feel fake to read. To put it bluntly, it is "not taking heart." A truly heartfelt inspirational book does not just shout slogans without giving readers effective and practical recommendations, nor does it blindly preach, but does not touch people's feelings at all. A truly thoughtful self-help book can always inspire readers in a word-by-word way, while the short stories shared by the author are intimate and grounded. The book "You just seem to be working hard" is just the kind of inspirational book I like: it has both the philosophy of life shared by the author and sincere and simple feelings. If you are in a confused period of life, then some recommendations in this book may really wake you up like a blow.
Li Shanglong's writing is wise and sharp, but he only wants to share his life experience with readers. Most people will encounter these life experiences he shared. There is no tragic struggle history of a celebrity tycoon in his works, and there is no mysterious but incomprehensible profound truth. For example, in the article "You think you are gregarious and you are wasting your youth", most people who have read it will sigh: "Oh, it's me! I thought I did this to unite my classmates. In fact, I wasted my youth! " By extension, in society and at work, we often have the idea of "getting along with others, not being too different, so as not to be gossiped". But people who really care know that it is one thing to fit in, and it is another to stick to their original intentions and ideals. This doesn't conflict at all, what's more, if we have to cater to others and sacrifice ourselves again and again in order to fit in, isn't that pushing ourselves to mediocrity? If you can understand that people have only one life, there should be no reason to go with the flow and waste time.
In this world, nothing is more boring than people who talk about their efforts and regret it afterwards. In the author's words, "it is not worth living blindly." Therefore, when we say the word "hard work" again, we'd better find out whether we are really working hard or just looking at it. After all, the two are not in the same dimension at all.
After watching "You just look hard" 2. You seem to be working hard. A book that causes * * * at the sight of its title is naturally picked up. The book is neither thick nor big, and the writing is very simple and very easy to read. So, driven by curiosity, I checked the author's background. When I learned that the author was born in the 1990s, I realized that the author had such meticulous observation and understanding of people and things around him. It's really amazing. The deeper you read, the more you are attracted by the story, and it is difficult to extricate yourself.
When I saw it, I thought it was a book about chicken soup for the soul, but it wasn't. More is to tell the story of the author or the author's friend, which makes me think deeply. From these stories, I seem to be able to see my own figure, and there may be some reflection while feeling!
The book tells the story of the author's constant tossing from being a military school student to participating in the national English competition, to being an English teacher, and then to being a director, thus constantly sublimating. Reflect on yourself, why I am not what I think, I have obviously tried. But have you really tried? However, this is not the case. The reason why I didn't really work hard is also mentioned in this book, because we didn't "work hard". There is no real intention. I only care about the form of learning, not the result of learning. Only input and process, no output, or the quality of output is not very ideal. Because there is no intention in the process. There are many things I want to learn. In order to learn all kinds of new things and new knowledge, I have collected all kinds of useful learning materials so far, but I really haven't studied hard and insisted on everything.
Looking at the words in the book, I am not as excited as a successful scholar, nor as comfortable and warm as chicken soup for the soul. On the contrary, I feel a cold sweat on my vest. Books seem to be full of other people's stories and lives, but they can see too many reflections of themselves. I always thought I was working hard. I don't know. It just touched me. I can feel the needles that wake me up in the book and slap me in the face.
The so-called learning method has no fixed rhythm. What suits you is the best, and what is effective is the best. At the beginning of learning, don't forget what the purpose is. What you need to focus on is the result. Sometimes I struggle with how to go, and I don't even take the first step. Learning without purpose is a face project, and there is no substantive result. Ineffective efforts are just a waste of time. Find the right way, and the rest is to work hard. Don't be afraid to take detours. It is best to adjust after taking a detour. Instead of standing at the starting point, it is better to spend so much time thinking about how to strengthen.
Therefore, all efforts are not for others to see. When you work hard, you can really reach your heart and even become a sublimation. Hard work is useful-to borrow a sentence from the book: "Don't complain about the injustice of life. What you need to do is, in the so-called hard work process, whether you really have the wind and rain, have a mind and a clear conscience. " Or just look hard? "This is a book worth reading. I hope everyone can read and feel, and really take substantive actions with a clear conscience!
After reading "You just watch hard", I recently read a book, which is of great benefit to my education and makes me reflect on my thoughts. The name of this book is "You just look hard". There are no flowery words. Just the name can tell what the message and central idea of this book are.
The author of this book is Li Shanglong. To be honest, I had never heard of him before this book. Before reading this book, I used to read the author's brief introduction. This is a very pragmatic person. With his own efforts, he realized his value step by step and achieved his goal. The author did not list all kinds of celebrities in the article, nor did he quote a lot of famous sayings to persuade and educate. The whole book is a series of daily stories, all from ordinary life. Closer to reality, easier to understand and reflect. It's also my favorite point. After all, maybe people are more inclined to talk than to educate.
There are many books about chicken soup for the soul on the market. I chose this book because it has a straightforward title. When I saw the name "You just look hard", I was hit in an instant. This seems to describe me, describe the reason why I can't really succeed in everything for so long, and point out my shortcomings to the point.
This story of the same name is placed in the first chapter of the whole book, which is also the most beneficial chapter for me. The girl who took the CET-4 exam in the article, her problem set is full of notes, and the test paper is very thick, but she will fail every time. She couldn't find her own reasons and finally fell into deep distress. From the bystander's point of view, most of her energy was devoted to the work of the student union and the activities of the community, and she only did a set of English exercises without careful examination and error detection. What's left in my mind is that I have tried to do a set of questions, which is not good for her.
"It seems that I stay up late every day, but I just clicked countless praises with my mobile phone; It seems that I went to class so early, but I made up for last night's sleep in class; It seems that I have been sitting in the library for a day, but I really just sat for a day; It seems that I went to the gym, but I was just talking about handsome guys and beautiful women. " Do you feel familiar with this passage? Many people who have tried but failed generally live like this. My time is probably wasted like this. In my past study experience, I have always been such a hard-working person. Before every exam, I will choose a lot of reference books or test papers and put them on my desk. The number looks spectacular, but it's just spectacular. I haven't read many books yet, but I still keep them as they are. When doing exercises, I usually only concentrate for an hour or so, and then I will habitually take out my mobile phone and indulge in the online world. In the eyes of others, I bought a lot of books and sat at my desk for several hours, but the final result is often just reaching the passing line. Others will comfort me: "You have worked hard, and we can all see it." I'm just very upset. I'm not as serious as they say, but I just seem to be working hard.
I have always felt that this kind of behavior is very unprofitable, but I have never been able to grasp the key point of the problem. It was not until I read this book that I found that the symptoms described in the book were the same as those I had. A person who has never really worked hard, even if his schedule is full, even if his room is full of books, is only deceiving himself. I tried to paralyze and deceive myself in this way: I worked so hard, even if my grades were not good, it was an objective factor, not my fault. Fortunately, I am a shameful person, and I will change because of this.
Recently, I often reflect. Is it fake? Many times, people just see the results. No matter how the process looks, different results will be presented according to the degree of effort, and the advantages and disadvantages will be clear at a glance.
I don't just write a complete schedule, and then let it stick on the wall and slowly turn yellow. I also start to finish them one by one, so that the red "finish" can reflect their value. Trying to make your efforts real has practical benefits. Everything is for your dreams, not just empty fantasies. If my dream comes true one day, then my life will really live.
After reading "You just look hard" and "You just look hard", I am very touched.
As the book says, only you can understand whether you have really tried. "It's easy to deceive others, it's easier to deceive yourself, but it's a bit difficult to deceive the world." The truly efficient time is the time when you are not in the circle of friends and don't show off to others. In fact, no matter how many friends and dazzling relatives you have, you always have to deal with yourself.
Efforts are not only efforts, but also finding the right direction. Don't stick to the wrong things. Shen Jiake said: There are two paths in life. Choose the door to take the dangerous road, and take the wide road through the narrow door. It means that if you choose the shortest path, you will find all kinds of steep struggles behind it. You have chosen a seemingly more difficult road, which may not be bad or even wider.
Some people say that selling eggs and filling cakes is tens of thousands a month. Why didn't you go? Because you want to do what you want. Some people think that success is to earn a lot of money, while others think that success is to gain inner peace and tranquility. So we still go our own way, not all of us sing as actors, not all of us go to drug trafficking and hospitals to resell high-priced numbers. We are not only limited by our own vision, but also guided by our own hearts to move forward in the direction we yearn for.
If you want to be outstanding, don't want to become famous overnight. Don't think that a business tycoon can see business opportunities at a glance. That's because he has been groping in the shopping mall, which gives him enough experience and foresight. Maybe you just didn't see his failure. So, when you succeed, don't take it out of context, and don't just look at what he wrote. What he didn't write may be crucial.
This book is about a girl who wants to pass CET-4. Her notes are so dense that she tore up her textbooks, but she still failed several times in the exam, much like me when I just started preparing English. I can't settle down and learn. I just look at the approaching exam date and my anxiety is getting deeper and deeper. But fortunately, I finally learned to deal with it. Looking at some unfamiliar English grammar and few words, I simply feel that I can't love life. But in the end, this is a point that can't be crossed when getting a degree certificate. So I began to think of ways to make plans for myself. Do real questions before going to bed every night, study one question at a time, and read grammar books if you don't understand. Copy 80 words in advance during the day, write them on the front and back of a piece of paper and recite them when you take the bus. On the day of the exam, my emotional personality was simple, and as expected, the first semester ended perfectly. Strangely, it makes me more confident in the following courses. It is common to do problems and recite materials at night, and I really feel the enrichment of my brain. Think about who to pretend to be at this time. So two years after graduation, someone is still looking for review materials to make up the exam. I know what happened in the middle.
Some people envy others when they are very young, but they have nothing but a small dream and are embarrassed to tell others. In fact, dreams are big and small, just let yourself move in the right direction.
Because you don't live for other people's goals, if you do nothing, you can only stand still or even go backwards. So, don't care how others laugh at you.
Maybe we are inferior to others in many external conditions, but we can't give up our efforts because of this, as long as we are better than yesterday.
After reading You Just Look Hard, I recently read Li Shanglong's You Just Look Hard, which was borrowed from my best friend. Generally speaking, it is chicken soup for the soul. Tell us all kinds of feelings and reasons in work and emotion through different stories. On the whole, this book is worth recommending. Although there are really too many chicken soups for the soul in this era, it is still worth recommending books that write down their own opinions and then tell readers some reasons. Just reading the title of the book, I think it is a boring book that analyzes the mentality of urbanites at the moment and then tells me all kinds of reasons. Only after reading it did I know that it was a story that happened to the author himself and his friends around him. It's not boring to read, it's worth seeing. Until now, I still believe that as long as you can learn knowledge or understand some truth from a book after reading it, then the book will not be read in vain, and the harvest is the wealth we get.
For this book, I want to talk about my feelings after reading it. I remember writing it through four aspects: dreams, feelings, affection and reading. As for dreams, my feeling is that when we were young, whatever we experienced was our wealth. Without wasting a road, time will eventually give us a satisfactory answer. Just like the old saying goes, every day at this moment determines our future life. What we can grasp is every day of this moment.
For feelings, as mentioned in many stories in the book, the right person in feelings, the person who makes you feel comfortable to get along with, is the partner we should look for, and the last person who comes together is often not the one we like best, but the one who is most comfortable to get along with. I have been thinking before, with the passage of time, will I just go on a blind date and find someone similar to me to get married and have children? But whether in the book or in the real world, I am constantly reminded that I must find the right person. At this moment, I also feel that being alone is actually quite good. If I really want to have feelings, it should be able to make each other progress and get along comfortably. This is what I want. If not, why not be alone? It's not that I can't support myself.
For affection, the article that impressed me most should be about parents. We always take our parents' efforts for granted, but the kindness that strangers occasionally give us is commendable. A runaway child is grateful for a loaf of bread given by a stranger. What can we get in return for his parents' constant care for decades?
The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. Reading is really a personal habit. It mainly depends on everyone's interest, but books are really everyone's spiritual food and can't be abandoned at any time.
Generally speaking, in the process of reading this book, I am still very touched, and I like this unpretentious style of writing.
After watching "You just look hard" 6. I came across a book called "You seem to be working hard" on the shelf of the library. It has no flowery rhetoric, but it has a thought-provoking power in the plain life. Strong curiosity prompted me to open it.
The author of this book is Li Shanglong. To be honest, I had never heard of him before I saw this book. Before I started reading, I used to read the author's brief introduction. This is a very pragmatic person. With his own efforts, he realized his value step by step and achieved his goals. Although they are all young people, I think his experience may be richer than most young people. He went to a military school and worked as a teacher, and now he is engaged in directing and writing. He made his youth colorful.
Reading this book is different from reading some useless chicken soup for the soul, a lot of chicken soup, just making excuses for your decadent state and your confusion. Many so-called chicken soups for the soul are poisonous. If you read too much, you will learn to deceive yourself and others, only content with the status quo and not seek innovation and change. This book is like a clear stream, interspersed with popular chicken soup articles Reading is like listening to a person with a story telling you his personal feelings on the road of chasing dreams.
The story of the same name was placed in the first chapter of the book, which is also the most meaningful chapter for me. The girl who took the CET-4 exam in the article, her problem set is full of notes, and the test paper is very thick, but she will fail every time. She couldn't find her own reasons and finally fell into deep distress. From the bystander's point of view, most of her energy was devoted to the work of the student union and the activities of the community, and she only did a set of English exercises without careful examination and error detection.
What's left in my mind is that I have tried to do a set of questions, which is not good for her. Her story also made me start to reflect on whether I have the same problems as her, and made me more aware of the importance of reasonable allocation of time in universities. As the author said, "any unplanned study is just a show;" Any effort that doesn't leave your heart just seems to be trying. "If we all understand this truth and don't touch ourselves when we pay a little, will we be one step closer to the goal?
The story of Xiaomei in the book left a deep impression on me. In this society of fame and fortune, it is really rare to see people who can persist in their dreams and persist. I like Xiaomei in the book. She has been through so many ups and downs, but in her words, it is so bleak. When the author has an attitude that she can't go on, she says, "Climb! If you care too much about the finish line, you will lose the meaning of climbing the mountain. " She has courage. She doesn't listen to others. When she finds that the road of life is irreversible, she can only grit her teeth and go forward bravely.
She said that all successful studies are fake, so success is forced out. Efforts may not be successful, but it is a truth that you will not succeed without efforts. Perhaps we have all been as passionate as Xiaomei, dreaming of the life we want countless times, but few people really put "thinking" into practice where we want to go, so our youth passed away in a long fantasy. In this world, there are people who really live the life you want, and you can live such a life. All you need is a little determination, a little courage, a little hope and a little faith.
"You just look hard" Comment 7 "You just look hard" is written by Li Shanglong. In 2008, Li Shanglong was admitted to the Academy of Armored Forces Engineering, a key military school, with excellent results. 20 10 won the national third place in the CCTV English speech style competition. In the same year, he won the second class of the whole army. 20 1 1 After resolutely dropping out of school, I joined New Oriental as a teacher.
It is mentioned in the book that he is the first person to wear a military uniform in CCTV's "Hope English" competition. In fact, it is not how great he is, but that he has a clear goal and has made practical efforts for it. It has been written many times in the book that when others envy him, he only remembers the words on the back wall in the classroom. Author 20 1 1 resolutely dropped out of school and chose to join "New Oriental"; It is not easy to enter the military school, but it takes courage to quit. If you didn't have a full understanding of yourself, you wouldn't make such a firm decision. If it weren't for my persistence in my dream, I wouldn't have achieved so much after I dropped out of school. It's easy to drop out of school, but few people know what to do after dropping out.
The main body of this book is divided into three parts: 47 stories, covering dreams and struggles, love and commitment, affection and friendship. The author tells a series of short stories with his unique perspective, distinctive language, vivid examples and thorough analysis. Tell us that hard work requires action. In Li Shanglong's writing, there is a humble remark that he recited words in the military school classroom in a lonely and unsociable situation, which led to the turning point of fate and today. We can really feel the pride of reading him, and he shows people his extraordinary side.
This book is not a sermon or an inspiration. The whole book is tied together by many short stories, which is close to life, easy to accept and of practical significance. The problems reflected have existed or have existed in us to some extent, and even will exist in the future.
It is mentioned in the book that one of his students failed the CET-4 four times. After getting to know the student better, he found that the student just seemed to be working hard. For example, the student will take part in self-study every day and bring many books into the classroom, including mobile phones. Students' study in one night is actually to brush friends circle and brush Weibo. This so-called effort actually just seems to be very hard.
Find the right direction and do things with your heart. Everything is simple. Any study without a plan is just a show. Any effort that is not absent-minded just looks hard. If there is no goal, it is futile to try hard and suffer again.
It seems that I stay up late every day, but I just clicked countless praises with my mobile phone; It seems that I went to class so early, but I made up for last night's sleep in class; It seems that I have been sitting in the library for a day, but I really just sat for a day; It seems that he went to the gym, but he was just chatting up handsome guys and beautiful women.
We have a great dream, which is a very good thing, but to realize it, we must rely on the connection of short-term goals. However, we often hide our retreat when setting goals, and then drag our feet and give up casually. Even give yourself countless high-sounding excuses, but never admit that you are just lazy.
If you are dissatisfied with your life and don't face up to your life failure, the most critical factor will always be yourself. Others struggle hard, but they crave pleasure. People who really work hard actually don't expect huge returns from short-term efforts. But chose the right direction, full of enthusiasm and perseverance. They enjoy their present life, and all their efforts are not for others to see, but for their real pursuit. And these valuable efforts, bit by bit, really go deep into the heart and then become real abilities.
Hard work may not succeed, but you will never succeed without hard work. Although most of us understand that when it comes to hard work, we can't get down. Although busy, there is no substantive content. In the end, I can only watch others succeed step by step.
Because there is no real intention, there is no real effort. I didn't insist on everything. I only care about some forms.
This book has both the philosophy of life shared by the author and sincere and simple feelings. Li Shanglong's words are wise and sharp, and these life experiences he shared have no profound truths that ordinary people will encounter all their lives. Li Shanglong sincerely told us all about his experiences and gains in life. Comparing these ideas, let's work harder and harder.