By the way, I really watched the program "Dad is Back". Different from the roles of dads in Where is Dad? In the first season of Mango Taiwan, dads in this reality show are quite special. Jerry (mainland idol actor), * * * (former gymnastics champion), Wang Zhonglei (film and television boss) and Chun Wu (Taiwan Province idol actor). I didn't know much about these dads before watching the show, which was the kind of familiarity that grabbed the headlines. Jerry and Li XiaoLu, the star parents, have been on the show since they gave birth to their baby. * * * was the gymnastics elder brother who was mentioned the most after Li Ning in Prince of gymnastics. I didn't expect to be a father when I returned to the public eye. Hao Zun caused an uproar because of the incident of "getting married and having a daughter". "It's good to keep it from everyone for so long, mulberry heart", and then it occupied the entertainment headlines for several days. Public relations seems to be doing well. Not long after being accused, the wind reversed. There are many families and children in his speech, and then everyone's caliber becomes "Wow ~ my daughter is so cute and beautiful". It's amazing that Wang Zhonglei should appear in such a reality show. Besides, he has such a small boy and a handsome boy.
The entertainment circle is really thirty years east and thirty years west. Thinking of Jackie Chan's wife not getting married, he declared that "fans can't accept wow" and "idols can't do wow". It took several decades to become a reality, and all his sons worked hard in the entertainment circle, then silently admitted that Feng-Chiao Lin was indeed the first wife. Huazai is also secretive, and she began to enjoy her family happiness in her early 50 s and had a daughter. But now the female star and the male star are almost the same, and they are starting to have babies. They are shown all the way from pregnancy photos and continue to have babies. Their popularity has risen instead of falling, and with the aura of their own babies, they have become the secret weapon of preservation.
Let's go back to dad's back.
At first, I could hardly stand it because it was a bit "weird". * * * isn't it from the mainland? Why are my wife and I full of English? Even the lovely two-year-old Ollie is mixed and confused. Why does Chun Wu live in Brunei? What kind of hybrid is he? Princess Faner's internal Chinese is very weak, and English has become her mother tongue. Lenovo: What is this father-son combination? I've watched it too much, but I've really seen it, and I found that "Dad's Back" has the posture of "a model of a new good father". Among the four dads, Chun Wu and * * * are "good dads" who are honest, don't pretend and don't play with cameras.
However, in "Father's Back", although both of them are live performances, we can still see the two things of birth and upbringing. Looking at Chun Wu, I think it's true that the family is not the family of local tyrants (there are many of them in Chinese mainland). After ferrying his information, his family background is really good (my father is a Brunei national basketball player, studied basketball since childhood and was a member of the national team. As a teenager, he played for Brunei against the China Youth Team and learned from Yao Ming. /kloc-went to Australia to study at the age of 0/6 and obtained a bachelor's degree in business administration. After returning to China, he opened a gym. ) This background enters the entertainment circle purely because the image is too good, right? Therefore, the way he treats his daughter internally has completely opened our eyes to students who have seen too many mainland models, subverting your arrogant imagination of raising children by celebrities: we must take care of her, we must be crowding round, and we must do it ourselves ... No, classmate Chun Wu is a big man, holding a baby in one hand and a pink equipment bag in the other, which is fully equipped. From brushing your teeth and eating sugar to bad teeth, habits to small details, you know that you take good care of them. If it's just for a TV series, it's too dramatic. The relationship with Nene is also very close. Colleagues read the comments in the second episode and said, "She is just a spoiled little princess", but Nene is not spoiled, with good reason. Nene is a child who listens to reason and behaves "very educated".
It is estimated that in the future, when Nene looks for a husband, she will follow the style of her father Chun Wu, because this father is too good, right? Young, handsome, tough and good-natured, she is a close friend of her uncle. In one episode, Chun Wu asked Nene to chew vegetables hard and talked about the truth that "poop will be hard and hard", which made everyone laugh. Very emotional: Chinese men outside the mainland are so good-tempered and so careful?
As we all know, how are China's star athletes trained? It is absolutely necessary to suffer hardships from childhood and not to grow up with ordinary labor. For example, Deng Yaping's sister's face simply says, "How many times have you suffered and how many times have you hardened your heart?" There are even people who can grow up like this, calm, sunny and cheerful. I have heard many reports about the tragic situation of award-winning athletes after retirement, so I am not optimistic about their special physical growth. It can only be said that different people will have different situations. The right time, the right place and the right people should also be harmonious. If people are angry, even the best opportunity will be ruined.
In the interaction between * * * and my daughter Ollie, I saw a father image full of positive energy, not spoiled, and rarely at a loss. Even when I try to do something for the first time, I can calmly find a solution, such as cooking. I think it has something to do with his hard training since he was very young. It seems that parents talk more now, such as "Will strict training cause psychological harm to children?" Such a topic is really multifaceted. If handled properly, children can have good behavior quality and excellent psychology and endurance. Just like being too lenient, children will become lack of discipline and restraint.
In the image of mainland fathers, they always give people the impression that their personal careers are busier than the sky. Taking care of children is really an extra gift, and everyone can understand it. Therefore, fathers who can't take care of their children think it's natural and have nothing to be ashamed of. Therefore, the first father-son reality show in Xiu Xiu was very anxious, and a bunch of female fans chased and shouted. As long as it is cute enough and sincere enough, it will not be criticized. Jerry is the youngest sales version of this group. Wang Zhonglei is a middle-aged uncle version, and Mr. Wang, whose career is too successful and domineering, doesn't need to be cute at all. Every time I recall the scene of Jia Sheng taking care of the children, I can't bear to watch it. It's not easy to be his child. My parents stole my thunder, and I have to put up with their narcissism and self-righteousness Looking to the future, it is simply "survival in adversity" to have a chance, which is too difficult to do. The little boy in Wang Zhonglei, although his father is not here, may be given by his mother. The little boy is both clever and cultured. His father said he was "too calm and restrained", which is true. However, selling cute Xiong Haizi paper the day after tomorrow makes people like it more and enjoy it more. In this contrast, "Dad is back" is much more natural than "Where did Dad go?".
What kind of family you were born in and what kind of father you met are really a bit like luck ~ watching other people's reality shows, you can't help but think so. Can a child grow up under the influence of family?
It makes sense to suddenly think of such a tall old saying as "cultivate one's morality, govern the country and level the world". I put it here to remind us ordinary people, ordinary parents.
"Book of Rites University": "The ancient desire is obviously superior to the world, governing the country first; If you want to govern your country, you should first get your family together; If you want to reunite with your family, you should first repair your body; If you want to cultivate yourself, you should be upright first; If you want to be correct, be sincere first; To be sincere, you must know first, and you must know the style. If you know things, you will be honest, sincere, correct, repair, repair, rule the country, and rule the world. "
"Distinguish things clearly" means to clear one's mind and distinguish right from wrong by reducing desire and greed. After understanding mindfulness, we should strive to be sincere in all aspects of dealing with people, and strive to break evil and cultivate good, so that we can have long-term cultivation and wisdom. At this time, you can manage your family well. People who manage their families can certainly manage the country. A person who can govern his country well will surely make the world full of harmony and make the world peaceful.