Although the breakup time is very short, I am deeply moved by trying not to contact each other.
When I was in love in college, my boyfriend and I often quarreled. I always contacted him on my own initiative. For him, he won't answer my phone anyway, so when we quarrel, he just plays by himself and can't remember me at all. Anyway, after a while, I couldn't stand it myself, so I went to see him.
I know it's terrible. I am always obviously angry. As a result, I convinced myself not to be so angry and went to him like a fart, feeling particularly humiliated. And because of this, I have never enjoyed the apologies and apologies that some girlfriends should enjoy.
In order to be feminine and superior as a girlfriend, I began to endure not contacting him every time I quarreled.
That feeling is really hard, because the first thing I do when I open my eyes in the morning is to miss him. Before going to bed, I always look at my mobile phone to see if he has sent a message. Feeling is a feeling of expectation and then disappointment, which is very unhappy.
And because I have been in love for a long time, I am used to calling him at noon and chatting with him at night. Now I suddenly don't contact, so I'm not used to it. Sometimes I instinctively pick up my cell phone and want to call him, but I can't put it down after thinking about it. I felt particularly lonely at that time.
Of course, I've also called directly many times. Habit and sensibility go further than reason, and then my behavior of not contacting him for so long was broken. I'm sorry, but I'm glad we're back to normal.
I think it should be the most painful to try not to contact each other after breaking up. I had a roommate who couldn't help it, so I contacted her. As a result, she found that her ex-boyfriend had hacked everything about him. At that time, she was really miserable and lonely. But gradually, after a long time, she came out.
Breaking up is not the same as quarreling. You don't have to contact each other after breaking up, but quarreling is not anger. Therefore, after breaking up, you should resist the feeling of sadness and don't contact each other. Very sad, very gloomy, feeling that my heart has been hollowed out.