Some people envy her beauty. At that time, Cecilia Cheung, who surprised the entertainment circle as soon as she debuted, said: In this world, I only admit that Gigi Lai is more beautiful than me.
Some people lamented her misery, others regretted that she quit the entertainment circle at a young age, but there was one sentence that touched me the most:
"In her eyes, there is only love without desire, but she can also be tough and powerful with the attitude of a strong woman, and her shining brilliance is even more fascinating."
Yes, no matter how hard she was hit, her face never seemed to be hurt by life.
Gigi Lai can retire at the peak of his career, or he can sacrifice himself again and again to clean up the mess for his family.
Others call her stupid. Why did she become a real version of "Fan Mei Sheng"? However, she feels that nothing is more important than the safety and happiness of her family.
As she herself said, "I have sung songs, played plays and experienced a lot, and I have no regrets." In fact, life doesn't have to struggle for fame and fortune. Plain is also a blessing. Many things in life can also be happy. "
It can be said that Gigi Lai's life is miserable. She was mercilessly teased by fate, and the closest people had accidents one after another, but she accepted everything calmly and lived a more wonderful life.
From rich girl to Cinderella
Gigi Lai's background is the envy of countless people. A serious rich girl is an acting family.
Grandfather is Li Minwei, known as "the father of Hong Kong movies". He not only shot the first short story film in the history of Hong Kong movies, but also shot one of the masterpieces of the famous Hong Kong movie star Ruan.
My grandmother is Lin Chuchu, a first-generation Hong Kong actress, and my aunt is Li Xuan, a famous TVB actress.
Gigi Lai, who could have had a good life, was knocked down at the age of 9.
Grandma Lin Chuchu died, and all the aunts were fighting for property, and the six relatives denied it and fought.
Gigi Lai's father has meningitis and can't fight. A family of four was driven out of the house and moved to a shabby and narrow 10 square meter rental house.
For the Gigi Lai family, they went from heaven to hell overnight.
Because of this small house, it is not only the body and soul that trap them, but also the fate of everyone.
We not only have to endure the embarrassment of being driven out of our homes, but also resist the poverty that strangles our lives.
For example, mom drives a truck for a living, and dad can only go to the gym to do odd jobs.
For example, Gigi Lai and his younger brother are often bullied and even afraid to go to public toilets.
For another example, dad built a simple toilet at home, but he could smell the toilet when eating.
Bo Huang once said, "When you are weak, the worst people are there."
"We have endured a lot of major events, but many small things in life are not willing to let us go."
It may be cruel, but this is the reality.
Fortunately, at the age of 14, Gigi Lai was discovered by scouts and starred in a comedy movie Happy Summer Vacation for the first time.
Gigi Lai's mood, like the movie name, is happy and happy.
Because acting in a movie means you can get paid, which means you can supplement your family.
Home is her only support and her belief in living.
Where there is love, there is home; Where there is home, there is love.
She just wants her family to live a better life.
Maybe fate is unfair, but at an early age, she learned to accept all this.
My brother had an accident and became disabled.
Growth is a gratifying process, but it is also accompanied by many difficulties.
Family conditions were not enough for her and her brother to go to school at the same time, so Gigi Lai gave in without hesitation.
In order to support his younger brother to go to school and support his family, Gigi Lai gave up his studies and signed into the entertainment industry.
She has always been like this, looking soft and weak, but when she encounters difficulties, she is always the first to rush up, even at the expense of herself.
At that time, she was not very famous and her salary was still relatively tight. When her brother was ready to go abroad for further study, she gritted her teeth and sent all her money to her brother.
She took a lot of bad plays, but it was all for her family.
Of course, my brother is not a vampire. He loves his sister very much and thanks her for everything she has done for him. I worked hard and finally lived up to expectations. I went all the way from a bachelor of medicine to a master of dermatology, and later returned to China to open a beauty shop.
He didn't want his sister to be so tired and advised her not to work. "You used to protect me, but now I can support you." I also bought a car for my sister and gave her a bank card.
Everything seems to be getting better.
Gigi Lai is gradually being seen by more audiences. With the beauty of war, he won his favorite heroine, and his younger brother's career is booming and his family is happy.
But just then, a big bad news came.
My brother had a car accident, bleeding all over his face and unconscious, which was very serious.
At that time, Gigi Lai was filming Jewellery. She sat on the set crying and wanted to quit filming, but the studio owner said she could accommodate her time and even delete some scenes just to let her stay.
Therefore, when filming, she took care of her brother, gave him a massage and scrubbed his body. A few months later, my brother woke up. Due to the serious injury, my brother was paraplegic and became disabled.
I don't know why God is so cruel that Gigi Lai has been hit again and again.
My brother's beauty salon heard that the president had an accident, and customers clamored for a refund. The company's situation fell into a cliff-like crisis.
The following year, Gigi Lai's "Jewellery" was released. When the publicity work drew to a close, Gigi Lai made a surprising decision: he announced his retirement from the entertainment circle and took over his brother's beauty salon.
She said that two unfortunate things could not happen to her brother at the same time.
This is another compromise of hers.
In fact, she doesn't fully support her brother.
She chose to enter the entertainment circle, one is to subsidize her family, and the other is a responsibility in her heart.
"Grandpa is the father of movies, I am his descendant, and I will continue to carry forward this responsibility for his film career.
But for more than 20 years, what I want to do has really been tried, done and satisfied. Basically, I have no regrets. I never thought about giving a concert or going to Hollywood. Everything I have is satisfactory. "
She always does. No matter how many knives are thrown at her, she will catch them with cotton.
It seems that all the misfortunes, in her body, can gradually melt away.
Of course, it is not easy to do this.
Quit the entertainment circle and take over my brother's company.
Gigi Lai quit the entertainment circle and took over his brother's beauty salon instead of just sitting in the president's office drinking tea and directing others.
At that time, many people refunded money, and the customers were basically reduced to a minimum. She is also depressed, but she must not give up.
Gigi Lai said: "I want to stand up and let everyone know that his sister has taken over everything, and his sister has assumed all the responsibilities. Ask me if you have any questions. "
This is a guarantee of customer confidence.
She admits that popularity is good for business, but many things have to be started from scratch. The biggest problem is that I can't read the ledger. I don't know what to think. Where should I start? What's the point? How to calculate?
Gigi Lai spent nine months studying books and learning management, and the company's business was slowly on the right track.
In the past, my brother's beauty salon had only 10 people. The commuting time can be adjusted by yourself, and you can ask for leave by saying a few words casually.
However, it is not enough for the company to do it for a long time. If it doesn't want to die, it must take the enterprise company and standardize the system.
Four words, "If you don't advance, you will retreat."
Under her leadership, the company has grown bigger and bigger, paying full attention to the safety and hygiene of beauty, providing more training for employees and letting customers enjoy services with peace of mind.
Finally, in 2007, the company went public and she fulfilled her brother's dream. At that moment, I was more happy than realizing my dream.
You see, she succeeded again.
When she was interviewed, the host asked her what was the secret of success from her favorite heroine to the CEO of a listed company?
Gigi Lai said, "I think this is from the heart. If you have the enthusiasm to do one thing, you will be kind to others and will be rewarded one day. "
Maybe there are many disappointments in life, but as long as you take it seriously, it will always pay off.
This is Gigi Lai's answer to life.
This is why Gigi Lai suffered from hemorrhoids, but his face was not angry at all.
She is like water, soft and calm, but she can always turn Gan Kun around at a critical moment.
The career is full of twists and turns, and love is also bumpy.
Gigi Lai's acting skills have always been questioned. Netizens said that she always took bad dramas, her career was ups and downs, and her love was bumpy.
She tried three relationships, but in the end they all broke up because of disagreement.
In fact, there is no personality disagreement, just fate, not enough love.
That year, Gigi Lai 16 years old. Under the introduction of friends, she fell in love with Huang Yulang, who is 2 1 year older than her. The names Yu Lang and Yu Lang sound very kind, but unfortunately, they are not Gigi Lai's lovers. Huang Yulang remarried his ex-wife for money, and later even went to prison for fraud.
Later, I met Zhong Shaofu, a dentist, and Pang Weixin, chairman of Ren 'aitang. The most famous is the relationship with Michelle monique Rice's husband Xu Jinheng.
At that time, Mr. Xu spent a lot of money to win the heart of a beautiful woman. According to Hong Kong media reports, in 1989, he and his father Li jointly bought a house with a market price of1850,000 Hong Kong dollars, and then this mansion was owned.
It should be time for Xu Jinheng and Carina Lau to break up.
Later, Xu Jinheng married He Chaoqiong, the daughter of the gambling king, and Carina Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai were together.
Soon after, Gigi Lai also met Ma Tingqiang, a wealthy businessman.
At that time, Ma Tingqiang chased her for six years, but Li Damei was not tempted. Until Gigi Lai's brother had an accident, he tried his best to help, not only in material support, but also in spiritual companionship.
Time is the best answer to feelings. For true love, it depends on whether you can give your most precious things for each other.
Ma Tingqiang has both these things, and these two things are exactly what Gigi Lai needs most.
When people are most vulnerable, they often want someone to rely on. No woman can stand such love bombing.
So, in 2009, the two announced their marriage.
Many netizens think that Gigi Lai is not worth it. They think Gigi Lai can marry someone better. Why do you want to marry a disabled rich man 15 years older than her? Is it for the money? But Gigi Lai is not short of money.
Many people even say that this is a reward. After all, Ma Tingqiang paid the medical expenses for Gigi Lai's younger brother at that time, which was tantamount to saving her family.
But emotional things have always been as clear as drinking water.
For Gigi Lai, the most important thing is love and friendship.
After marriage, they often go shopping hand in hand in public, and the happiness on Gigi Lai's face can't be hidden. Even if you cover your mouth, it will flow out of your eyes. No matter how many years have passed, no matter how many ups and downs she has experienced, she is still the same, simple, clean and charming.
Maybe it has something to do with her mentality.
Someone once asked her, is there any secret to happiness?
Gigi Lai said: "As long as you know how to be grateful for everything every day, you can be happy."
It turns out that happiness is so simple. She accepted the trick of fate and was indifferent to the impermanence of life.
If you want to ask me which actress I like best, it must be Gigi Lai.
She is a strong woman among gentle women, but she is also the gentlest one among strong women.
I didn't understand before that she was so beautiful that she could reach out and touch the sun, but she had to go back to the dark corner and become a beam of light there.
I saw her family photo and finally found the answer.
In the photo, although father, brother and husband are all disabled, the smiles on their faces look happier than anyone else.
What is more important than family in this world?
Although Gigi Lai has suffered a lot, she always knows what she wants, when to give up and when to throw it away. She lives a very transparent life.
Some people say she is stupid. I think that man is stupid. Gigi Lai has become the winner of her life step by step.