In fact, falling in love can be said to be a life stage that every boy and girl has to go through, and the process of falling in love is very beautiful and sweet. However, who is not suitable for college students to fall in love for the first time? In fact, when falling in love is between two people, there is no clear choice for the first time. After all, the object is that two people meet and talk together, and getting along with each other has a lot to do.

Let's briefly talk about the object that is not suitable for first love from several aspects.

First, the veteran of love

Don't talk about your first love with an old hand. Old hands in love are generally deep. Everything you hear together may be only 1% true. There are many sweet words and means that can give you all kinds of unexpected surprises and will be considered more comprehensively. After playing, they will never be nice to you again. A short break-up can't hurt.

Second, it is not suitable.

For example, the gap between the rich and the poor is relatively large, and the life circle and living level are far apart. After all, two people need to have a certain economic foundation to fall in love. This is not to say that you can't fall in love without an economic foundation, but it takes a lot of money to fall in love. Let one party always pay at a time, even if they can come together, it will make people look down and make irresponsible remarks. At the same time, there is a certain sense of inferiority, which will make it difficult to maintain feelings over time.

Third, the opposite personality

After all, when two people fall in love, they often need to have common topics. Without the same language communication, it is difficult to support their feelings. At the same time, when two people are in conflict, it is difficult to resolve each other's shortcomings and find someone with similar personality to talk about first love.

Fourth, I can't stand loneliness, and love is bigger than the sky.

One is to rely too much on others, and it is the easiest to lose your mind and your ability to distinguish in love. Especially those who are unwilling to be lonely. I know the other side is not good, but I just can't live without it, so I finally have to compromise. Think about whether you really can't leave that person. Sometimes it is the feeling of love that is inseparable. If you want to get happiness, you must learn to lead and influence love. Don't be led by love and be its slave.

V. Intolerance

Two people together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions. If there is no tolerance between the parties concerned, it is wrong to blame each other blindly, and neither of them can give in. After the contradiction occurs, it is not easy to solve it. In the process of getting along with contradictions and quarrels, you should know how to tolerate your lover. Don't haggle over trifles. As long as it is not a principled mistake, it is necessary to show your infinite tolerance and make the other party feel warm.

Sixth, talk big.

When you speak, there is no scale. Say everything when you meet people. When you speak, you don't know what you are saying. You can't keep your word and promise. You're just saying it, but you can't do it.

Seven, cleanliness or sloppy do not pay attention to appearance.

For example, men have stubble on their chin, women have messy hair and dirty clothes. They always dress like couriers, or they are very neat and difficult to get along with. They always feel that this is not good or right, and they feel that they have become each other's nannies.

In short, love can make people selfless or selfish. Selflessly pay for each other, selfish possession of each other's all. As long as two people really want to pay, tolerate each other and manage slowly, they will definitely enjoy a beautiful life in love.