I like this sentence very much: there is never a shortcut in life. You just can't see when others are quietly working hard for their dreams. A truly excellent person has no time to argue with life.
Yes, truly excellent people never complain about life, nor make excuses for their laziness.
The person who likes to complain is your lack of self-cultivation. Going back to my hometown on weekends, I met Xiaoli, a middle school classmate I haven't seen for a long time. Without saying a few words, Xiaoli began to complain to me about her husband, saying that his best friend's old open luxury car lived in a big house. Every day his best friend goes out to play besides shopping. And her husband's monthly salary is so low, he knows how to save money, and he always bargains with the vegetable vendor when buying food.
Sometimes I argue with others for a dollar, "You know what? Ah Xin, I've really had enough. " Looking at Xiaoli's expression that she didn't like her husband, I smiled and said nothing.
Xiao Li's husband is an honest man. Apart from earning less money, he is really good to Xiaoli. I still remember Xiaoli often telling us in our ears how good her husband is to her, and I can't wait to let everyone know that she married a good husband. But now that she has been married for less than two years, she has begun to hate all kinds of things. In the face of Xiaoli's dislike, her husband just smiled and treated her well as always.
In life, we often meet people with negative energy and complain about life as soon as they open their mouths. Even the closest people speak without reservation in front of outsiders. It seems that she complains about some trivial things in life, not some details in her lover's life. Essentially, she is complaining about herself.
Will bowen, an American spiritual teacher, said in his book A World Without Complaints: "The essence of complaining is actually to gain sympathy and attention and avoid doing things that we dare not do."
Really good people never complain about life. Most people complain because they are not good enough, and often your words will cover up your accomplishment.
It is better to change than to complain. When we envy others' good luck, we can't see them studying hard day and night in the library. Jealous of other people's good figure, but I don't know that he is sweating in the gym.
I like actor Hugh very much. At the age of 23, she became famous overnight. At the age of 24, he experienced a car accident, disfigurement and rebirth. At the age of 25, he returned to the entertainment circle. Now, at the age of 33, he looks more mature and steady.
Hugh said: I was lucky to get my life back first, but I watched another life fade away; I thank God for saving my eyes, but I can't claim my broken face while feeling the light.
However, the scar is not his defect, but a medal. Many people say that Li Xiaoyao is his pinnacle and he can't go back.
He said that the skin that can't be returned can be filled with thoughts.
I still remember that Mei Su Chang in Nirvana in Fire is actually another self of Hugh. He has experienced darkness, but he is still calm, sober and firm. As Mei Su Chang said in the play, "Since you have survived, you can't live in vain". Even if you are injured, you can walk out of a better life.
French writer romain rolland said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life.
A truly outstanding person has no time to struggle. Don't complain all day about how bad life is for you. How can God care for you if you don't work hard? On the road of life, speed is not important, what matters is endurance. Really good people have no time to struggle with their choices, but they can only rush forward desperately. Many things can only be understood after experience.
I like the words of the spiritual writer Zhang Defen: There are only three things in the world: my business, his business and God's business. Those who complain about themselves should try to learn to accept themselves; Those who complain about others should try to turn complaints into requests; Those who complain about God, please try to pray for your wish.
In this way, your life will have unexpected changes, and your life will be more beautiful and complete. I hope that at that time, we will all become better ourselves.
Neither earlier nor later. At that time, I happened to meet the best you.