In the latest episode, Han Suyuan and Chen Hua quarreled again, but not because of the children, but because of the money. As far as their view of money is concerned, Han Suyuan advocates independence, that is, frugality, while Chen Hua thinks I have the right to control the money I earn and the flowers I spend. Their three views are completely different, not only in terms of spending money, but also in other aspects. I think the three views are inconsistent, and it's really tiring to get along.
I think it is particularly easy for two people to quarrel if they have different views, because different views mean that two people have different views on one thing, and those two people have different views, so there will definitely be conflicts and contradictions between them, because they can only continue if they agree, and then they will definitely quarrel in order to unify their views. But quarreling is particularly emotional, so quarreling makes feelings fade.
So I think, whenever we are looking for the other half, we must find someone with the same views and opinions.