What is life is a matter of opinion. See if you prefer a quiet life or a challenging life. Elders have their own opinions. From their point of view, this suitable marriage partner may be practical and stable, but after all, you are alive, like a person who knows how to drink water. I think the premise of forming a family and living is that two people love each other, and a peck and a drink will affect your feelings. The two people trust each other, usually do their own work, take care of flowers and plants in their spare time, raise cats and dogs, raise children, and jointly undertake various obligations of the family and bear corresponding responsibilities. Two people go on vacation every year, and when they have a baby, the small family will go together. Life is calm, but there is no lack of adjustment. It will be warm to live with such a long-flowing emotion. The ups and downs of life, although wonderful, are full of unknowns and challenges, and my heart is too tired. If two people don't love each other, their shortcomings will be magnified and they will not tolerate each other. No matter how capable the other person is, you won't like it, and life is not good. In fact, a person can live very well. I have a colleague who is 40 years old and has never been married, and I have never seen her fall in love. Tidy up your life every day and work quietly. In my spare time, I often go to the movies, drink tea, exercise and travel every year. I don't have to compromise with others. I feel comfortable and healthy.