First of all, let's analyze why girls don't reply to you, which can be roughly divided into four reasons:
1) They don't overlap. 2) She is busy. 3) She doesn't like chatting. 4) She is not interested in you.
(Source: goody25) The lack of intersection between the first reasons shows that you did not establish good comfort and have no common topic at the beginning of understanding between men and women. Why is there no comfort? Probably just a bad first impression of you. For example, your avatar on social software is a photo of a cigarette or wine, or you dye your hair colorful and think it is fashionable, but in the eyes of girls, you think you are an excellent "passerby" and you are not even qualified to put you in the friend zone. You know, one day, if someone finds her chatting with a seemingly unhealthy teenager, girls will have to bear a lot of public pressure. Therefore, it is recommended to use a clean, refreshing and well-featured avatar to at least let girls know what kind of boys they are chatting with, otherwise people don't want to reply to you, and they can't blame girls for being unkind. You know, a girl with high scores is willing to upload her photo to social software as an avatar, which proves that she is at least confident in her appearance. Do you think that if you greet a girl with some unclear or cartoon characters, the girl will want to reply you? People have invested so much energy and time to choose a good-looking avatar, at least they hope that the person who comes to say hello is a person of equal value, not a masked man who has not seen each other for a long time. What is the same topic? That is, what girls like to talk about, of course, are the four topics that girls like to talk about most: travel, food, pets and constellations. Before making the opening remarks, do your homework, look at the photos of girls' lives, and see what girls are doing, where the venue is, when to do it, and what the expression is. These are all very useful information to make your opening remarks closer to the girl's life circle. As long as you collect enough chat materials in advance, the chances of girls replying to you will be greatly improved.
The second reason is that she is very busy. Basically, I just have to call you back when the girl is free. Remember not to pester, otherwise it will put a lot of pressure on girls and think you are annoying. Imagine, if it's just information now, she's under so much pressure, let alone meet? Therefore, it is very important to control your own needs and give girls a comfortable atmosphere to chat with you.
(Source: goody25) The third reason is that she doesn't like chatting about information. Some girls don't like the trouble of typing and transmitting information, but prefer pronunciation. At this time, you can summon up courage and make a phone call to chat or voice chat, but you need to pay attention to the time of the first call, not during office hours or late at night. I don't know. Girls have to get up early for school and work tomorrow, so girls will not casually risk staying up late to chat with you at night. The best time is from 6 pm to 10 pm. Why? A boy who can chat in the morning and noon will remind them that you are an idle person. Even if you have a job, it is not necessarily an important role. Indeed, does an aspiring gay society always inform girls during office hours? The answer is obvious, so it is generally recommended to contact after work, because according to scientific research, chatting at night can better promote men and women to become lovers.
(Source: goody25) The fourth reason is that I am not interested in you. This is a headache for most boys, and it is also the most common problem. This can come from many reasons, but it is generally because boys are not worth it, that is, not attractive enough. For example, the head of a boy is a boy who only wears an ordinary round neck T-shirt, his hair is not arranged, and he is facing the camera. The head of boy B is a picture of sitting in a coffee shop with a suit, a gentleman's head and glasses, full of literary temperament and elegant reading. A and B send hi messages to girls at the same time. If you were a girl, who would you choose? B, of course To tell you the truth, this is also the personal experience of many high-scoring girls around me. If an ordinary-looking girl plays dating software, at least eight to twenty boys will greet her every day, while a girl with high scores will meet at least thirty to hundreds of boys every day to greet her. The boys' opening remarks are all the same: How are you? May I know you? Wait a minute. . . Do girls have that much time to check every piece of your information? The answer is yes: no, it is better to take a good portrait than to try to find a good opening statement. There is a good saying: the head shot is good, the opening remarks are open to you, and the chances of girls replying to you will be high. Because girls with high scores open dating software every once in a while, they choose some boys with high face value and high face value to chat with. So it doesn't matter if the boys say hello for the first time and the girls don't reply. Change your beautiful avatar, show your value, and then say hello.
(Source: goody25) How to improve the value or attractiveness? In fact, I want you to show your qualities as a male leader, such as uploading pictures of your talent show, hard work, fitness, tasteful clothes and entertainment to your display surface, and even commanding freely in the work team. What is a display surface? It is a place where girls can see these high-value photos. Every social software has a place to upload photos of life, and these places are exhibition surfaces. I remember that 90% of strange girls will browse your exhibition before replying to your message, and then see if you are worth her time. Why doesn't a girl I've known for a long time return your message? This is a very common situation and we can't read it back. First of all, I want you to understand the fact that a good-looking girl is likely to be chatting with ten boys at the same time. Ask you a question: "Hi, what are you doing?" What will the girls say to you after reading it? You want her to answer you, "am I chatting with other boys?" This is a very irresponsible practice, because you leave the responsibility of opening the topic to the girl and let her think for herself. Actually, girls don't like to make choices. So boys should take the lead, at least most of the time together, boys should take the lead in arranging topics and appointments. In fact, the practice is simple. Let's take a look at the girl's recent situation and see if she is sharing any food she wants to eat, concerts she wants to go to, things she wants to do but hasn't done yet. Even if you do, you can tell her about these experiences, and remember that everyone only pays attention to their own interests and does what they like.
Except that the boy doesn't understand the dominant topic, the biggest possibility is that she is not interested in you! Maybe you have failed in clothes taste, personality, economy and so on. At this time, you have two choices. One, give up. Since she doesn't like you, there's nothing to be happy about. Second, freeze her for a while. The freezing time can be one month, two months or even half a year. Use this time to study your connotation and so on, and then do a second inhalation when you come back, so that she will look at you with new eyes. Interest in further research shows that it should be suitable for exhibitions. What does this mean? For example, if you study computer programs, you always upload photos of the programs in your presentations. Will girls understand what you have done? It's best to learn some music, such as guitar, dance, photography and even fitness. Anyway, just send some high-value pictures or videos every two or three days to make a counter-attraction. The purpose here is that if the photos are not beautiful and do not show high value, they would rather not be sent.
(Source: goody25) Girls love not only your personality, but also your colorful life! So don't wait any longer, go out tomorrow and live a more exciting life! Let a girl think that you are an interesting boy, and she won't bother you. Love your life, others will love you more, this sentence is always so correct. Share it!
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