At work, I don't even have private time. After getting up in the morning, I concentrate on sweeping the floor and weeding, go to work or take part in labor in the morning and afternoon, and have a meeting and study in the evening, but I also have a good time.
Because I understand, one is that people can't compete with each other, and the other is that life is always unsatisfactory, especially in such a bad environment, where there is no water in the big river and no water in the small river. There are naturally many difficulties encountered in work and life, and it is necessary to rely on hands and brains to turn the crisis into institutionalized resistance as the driving force.
I remember that at that time, the word stress was not used as it is now. In fact, the invisible pressure at that time was not less than now. Faced with the pressure from work, people will bravely say that this is a rare opportunity to face difficulties and shoulder the heavy responsibility for the prosperity of the country. It is regarded as an organization of self-training and exercise. Whenever the task is completed, the individual's ability naturally improves.
Just like previous generations, when encountering difficulties, they only shout poverty and pressure, instead of relying on their own efforts and waiting for a good day. How can China, which was originally poor and white, be beautiful and powerful today after only 70 years?
Let's talk about stress again. In those days, fetching water and chopping wood, going out by bike or walking on the road were all physical activities, which often made people sweat. However, the thought that even if young people are dirty and tired, they should try their best to take a bath and sleep, and they will be alive and kicking again tomorrow. As long as they are willing to exercise, their strength will increase day by day and their hands will be sore. At that time, fitness did not depend on spending money on the gym, but on physical fitness in real life and work.
When traveling on business, people often have to take the mountain road to get their luggage. In earlier years, people were more difficult, with no roads or even cars to eat rations and daily necessities. They often have to carry a burden of more than 100 kilograms and walk the mountain road outside the mountain in the middle of the night to pick up things. ). Although they are all national cadres, according to the situation several times a year, they are either assigned to build roads or repair water conservancy, go to the countryside to grab crops and seeds, and fight drought and flood. They all want to join the front line and do heavy manual work, which really puts the burden of business trip on their shoulders. That's not the pressure to stay in words.
After overcoming every difficulty, there is a sense of accomplishment, followed by the enhancement of self-confidence and heartfelt joy.
This is a wonderful view put forward by Buddhists. The situation changes with people's minds. In the face of tasks, people's moods are completely different with different burdens and mentality. If you feel compelled and unwilling, then the pressure is endless suffering. If you regard it as a good opportunity to learn and exercise to improve your ability, you can never get too much. To be honest, without them, I'm afraid I can't learn skills, and it's not good for me to master practical experience in the future!
In the face of difficulties and pressures, even if the same thing is unhappy, it depends on your own mentality.
Tell a story about a crying mother-in-law. It is said that there is a market near the West Lake with tourists like crucian carp. There is a mother-in-law, who is famous for crying on sunny days and rainy days. People call her crying grandma.
One day, a high-ranking person passed by and heard that there was such a thing, so he took time out to meet his crying mother-in-law, who told him the reason. She said that I have two sons-in-law, the older one bought an umbrella and the younger one bought cloth shoes. On sunny days, I worry that no one will buy the umbrella of my eldest son-in-law, and on rainy days, I worry that no one will take care of the cloth shoes of my younger son-in-law. I feel sad when I think about it, and I can't help crying when I am shallow! After hearing this, the expert smiled and said to her crying mother-in-law, Think as I say, and make sure that you can be happy every day in the future? Be a smiling mother-in-law
It turned out that he made such a move, thinking that people would rush to buy your eldest son-in-law's umbrella on rainy days, and your little son-in-law's cloth shoes business would be booming on sunny days, which made him not only unable to cry, but also flattered. Is the crying mother-in-law really happy every day after listening to this man's advice? Yes
On the other hand, the pressure of life is only 3000 yuan, but depression or swearing can relieve the pressure?
Can you throw three thousand out of six thousand by throwing pots and cans? People should learn to face the reality. Being unhappy is a day, and being happy is also a day. Laughing is better than crying. When I have the time and spirit to complain about others, I'd better think of more ways, how to live my life carefully, how to do more things with less money to show my ability, open sources and reduce expenses, be self-reliant, learn more to improve my technical skills, and try to improve my performance when I have time. That's the right thing. It is not a bad thing to encounter some difficulties and setbacks when you are young, but it will be a rare asset in your life in the future.