Every time I attend, it is a song of the soul.
This is the 49th push we talked about.
It is said that it is never time, distance, reality, but details that defeat love.
The details will tell you that that person doesn't love you anymore.
Even a stranger can see your sadness, but he can act as if nothing has happened.
Because I don't care, I always deal with it and tell you, "Don't think too much."
People are by your side, but your heart is far away. It's better to let each other go if we get along like this.
At ten o'clock, Jun interviewed four caring people for you. I hope you will never lack love after reading it:
What details make you feel loved?
Besides that person, there are many people who love you. Life is long, and there are good days ahead.
I only have eyes for you all my life.
Anchor: Xiaomi
Photo: Kim, a demon who can lift weights easily.
Author: Friends of Ten Kings
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25-year-old entrepreneurial youth love insulator
After the appearance of WeChat, family, classmates and work groups all migrated from QQ to WeChat.
I once wanted to uninstall QQ. Although I have used QQ for many years, it is really useless.
The only reason I can't do it is that there are many precious chat records in it.
They give me ten praises every day, which is 20×365 a year, which is equivalent to thinking about me more than 7000 times.
I don't like talking in WeChat group. Often perfunctory reply to the "@" of the elders. I also reply to my parents when I have time, and leave when I don't, because I know they have nothing important to do. Once I answer the phone, it will be endless and time-consuming.
It has long been a practice to call home every month. When I reported that my life was going well, I hung up in a hurry on the pretext of eating overtime.
All the year round, my mother can only see me during the Spring Festival or when I come home on a whim.
And that female classmate, who has always had a dull relationship, doesn't talk to her much at school. The only thing I remember is that she likes reading very much and is very gentle.
We can always meet in the library and nod to each other, even if we say hello.
When she graduated, she didn't film graduation photo. It is said that she is crying in the bedroom, clutching the quilt tightly. Her roommates suggested that I go and have a look. I also asked: "I am not the monitor, and I am not familiar with XX. Why would I want to go? "
Now that I think about it, I am stupid.
Men are sometimes like this, lacking sensitivity to details and not blaming women for complaining. Some feelings only exist in the details, you can't see them, as if they don't exist.
I like my mother's longing for me and the girl's secret love, which is not wishful thinking, but I don't know, so I can't get a response.
Let's stop here. I'll dial a video chat for my mom, and talk to you later.
02 Supancheng
27-year-old fitness equipment sales got engaged last week.
Last Friday, I quarreled with my girlfriend, slept on the sofa all night, and got up at dawn to pack my bags.
Folding the clothes in a hurry, she went to tidy up the washing bag. In the middle, she got up and asked, "Are you in such a hurry to leave?" I was still sulking and didn't want to talk to her, so I gave a casual "hmm".
When I packed my bags, I found that she also made breakfast. The whole person stood there trembling with tears, and eggs and noodles hit her face. She was very wronged: "Are you leaving after dinner?" Be reasonable when breaking up. I just scolded you. Why did you move away? Can I apologize if it's a big deal? "
At that moment, I really felt so distressed that I wanted to cry. How can a girl be so stupid when she is in love?
We quarreled last night and forgot to tell her that we were going on a business trip this weekend. Today, she thought I was breaking up.
Um ... it seems to be my fault.
I went to hug her and asked, "Will you let me go after dinner?"
"Don't let go!" She cried and said, "Why don't you go? You can't go. "
I held back my laughter: "Baby, how can I go on a business trip?" ? The boss disagreed. "
The air stood still for an instant. She wiped her face and pretended as if nothing had happened. She went to the bedroom and said, "Oh, a business trip."
The next second, I was hammered on the table, my back ached and I screamed.
This is the first time I realized that being beaten is also very cool, and my heart is full of joy.
03 Weiwei
The 32-year-old self-employed vendor is going to buy a house.
16 divorced, the child was awarded to the ex-husband, and my parents felt ashamed, so they let me rent a house outside and refused to let me go back to my parents' house.
At that time, the salary was less than 3 thousand, and I had to pay rent and 700 yuan in support every month. Apart from miscellaneous expenses, there is basically no money left.
Besides, I am very tired and nervous at work. From eight o'clock in the morning to eight o'clock in the evening, I often work until ten o'clock. At the end of the day, my bones are falling apart and I can't get up in bed.
One night after work, my mind was in a daze and I suddenly couldn't figure out why I had to live like this.
Parents are taken care of by their brothers, children are spoiled and have no intimate friends. As for work, someone can take my place at any time.
The world seems to be the same with or without me.
Even if I disappear tonight, it won't affect anyone's life.
Once and for all, you don't have to live so hard, you can be free.
I wondered, walking along the path to a reservoir, and walking along the side, I felt more and more impulse to jump.
At this moment, two old men, gray-haired and dressed in black, came out, pushing a snack car. When they saw me, they didn't speak. They kept pushing me away. I was so scared that they drove me back to the street lamp.
My old aunt took my hand and dragged me to a crowded place, talking to me, from her daughter-in-law's bad temper to being cheated when she was young, and saying that life was worse than death.
"Life is only once, and there are many things to enjoy."
"It's better to breathe than to stay in a coffin!"
"What do you want to do? Do you have to think about it? "
When they arrived at the lively night market, the old couple quickly set up stalls, cooked soup and cooked dishes. They sell rice noodles and mixed noodles and have many repeat customers. I helped them set the stool and wanted to leave without saying a word. Grandpa stopped me again: "take a bowl of hot food and go!" "
So I was dragged to eat a bowl of rice noodles, the meat sauce was a little spicy, the soup was very hot, and tears soon flowed down.
After I came home that day, I cried until midnight, clutching the quilt, and fell asleep after crying enough.
The most comfortable thing I slept during that time was that night. I didn't think about anything or dream.
Fortunately, that night, the old couple brought me fireworks to let me know that I don't live for anyone. I came to this world to enjoy life.
If you can't force it, let it be.
Chen Bailu
36-year-old interior designer, travel expert.
My husband often calls my name when he talks in his sleep.
We have been in love for five years and have never doubted love.
However, after marriage, because of job transfer, we were separated for only one year, and we kept quarreling.
I thought love was exhausted and we were no longer in love.
But he has repeatedly proved with details that we are destined to live a lifetime and are born together.
No matter whether my face is dirty or not after I wake up, he can kiss me without hesitation.
He always cooks my favorite dishes, and so do I, completely out of consciousness.
After the quarrel, he will take the initiative to admit his mistake and guarantee that I can contact him at any time.
With him and his son around, I have a complete family of three.
More importantly, I want to go home with him.
I went to a colleague's wedding the other day. On the way home, I casually said, "Wearing high heels is really tiring, and my toes are numb."
Naturally, he let me sit on the side of the road, took off my shoes and walked on behind my back. On that hundreds of meters road, I held high heels in one hand and my son in the other. I lay on his back and burst into tears.
No matter how many times, I still want to spend my life with this man.
Because every detail of his being with me proves that he loves me.
In all these years, we have never tried to change each other. We change for the sake of each other, out of voluntary desire, hoping to make each other happy.
For me, this is the best appearance of love.
I liked you very much yesterday and I like you very much today.
I have a hunch that I will like you tomorrow.
Sure enough, I'm nine and you're three.
Besides you, it's you.
What details make you feel loved?
You can say anything you want.
I am willing to be your quiet tree hole.
At ten o'clock, you will send a small gift.
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