Some people say that they have a high fever of 39℃ for three consecutive days, but they have no strength to cook. They can only lie in bed and live on bread and yogurt.
It is also said that you can cook with a strong support, but it is unstable. You must take the chair to the kitchen and sit down and have a rest.
Others recalled a bad cold and said that they had a fever and dizziness, only to find that they had taken the wrong medicine afterwards, which was not symptomatic at all. ...
Lying in bed facing the ceiling, I thought in despair, "If I die, no one will know";
I also specially read the doctor's popular science, saying that students who live alone must keep in touch with the outside world if their fever is too serious. Persistent high fever may cause syncope, shock and even life-threatening.
At this time, in fact, I will think of what my parents used to say when they urged me to find someone to get married a few years ago: at least someone can take care of each other when I get married, otherwise you will be alone, and no one knows what happened. I certainly didn't listen. I am an adult, financially independent and physically and mentally healthy. what can I do? And getting married just to be taken care of doesn't sound cool. So what if no one knows? Knowing that it cannot be resurrected. Of course, I didn't fully agree with them until today.
Marriage is definitely not just for someone to take care of, and marriage does not necessarily mean that someone must take care of it. But I understand a little bit. Nothing else, because I'm really sick. People are in two states when they are physically and mentally healthy and when they are seriously ill. Being sick does make people weaker and weaker.
Even if it is mild, I can clearly feel that I didn't breathe when I climbed the fifth floor before, and I felt very tired when I got sick and climbed into bed. Of course, it is no problem to cook for yourself in a healthy state. When I am sick, I don't even bother to order takeout, and I may not be able to eat when the meal is delivered. So when people are weak, will their mental state be more fragile?
Of course it will. I have seen many people say that being sick is not so delicate from the perspective of healthy people. They are all adults. Why can't they eat and take medicine on time and need others to take care of them? Even if it is really serious, it is to go to the hospital to find a doctor, and the other half can't cure the disease. This is not aware of the emotional fragility that people have when they are sick. This vulnerability includes suffering, injustice, fear and anxiety caused by illness. ...
This really makes an adult need to be taken care of, or at least comforted. What a partner can provide is this kind of timely comfort. This is more of a psychological sense of security. Besides, at some point, having a close person to live with can really solve the urgent need. For example, as mentioned earlier, if you really have a sudden illness and a fever makes you temporarily lose your ability to take care of yourself, someone will always help you to the hospital.