Yuan, a student in Beijing, takes a photo of himself every day. He has been insisting on it for four years since 20 16. Although he changed four mobile phones in four years, he kept on almost every night and then made these photos into small videos. This little video records his own changes and his own growth in the past four years. Actually, it's meaningful to think about it. Each of us will experience different things and have different feelings every day. Four years is not long, but it is not short, because it can change a person. Seeing this video of him, I suddenly remembered myself and my changes in the past four years. The biggest difference between me and myself four years ago is in my mind. Perhaps with the increase of age and life experience, I have a different understanding of some things happening around me. For example, four years ago, I was worried about an unfair thing, which would be very tangled, but now I know that there is no absolute fairness in the world, and some things still need tolerance and understanding. Some things may not be artificially changeable, so accept them calmly and don't complain about others. In the past, I liked to look for other people's reasons first, and I liked to put the blame on others, so I might not feel better, but now I understand that it is just an immature and irresponsible performance. If you don't succeed in doing something, most of the reasons are on yourself, and your attitude towards things determines the success or failure of this matter. Therefore, when you encounter a problem, first look for the reason from yourself, so as to find the key to the problem, and remind yourself not to make the same mistake again in the future and be a better self.

Except for age, which is beyond our control, we can only get older every year, but other things, such as mentality, emotional intelligence and IQ, can develop with age. As long as we have a heart that wants to change ourselves, we can make ourselves better and better in our efforts.