Among the older single young people in cities, especially among women, there is a rich and poetic saying "If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come". Who is the original author of this sentence? It is impossible to prove it, but it is indeed a best-selling book called "If it is in full bloom, the breeze will come". This book is similar to another bestseller, If you are well, it will be sunny, not only in title, but also in content. This is a novel about the tortuous emotional experience of Lin, a talented woman in the Republic of China. Anyone familiar with the architectural history of China should know that Lin and her husband Liang Sicheng have made extraordinary contributions to the protection of ancient buildings in China, and many ancient buildings have been preserved. But unfortunately, a century later, later generations showed higher enthusiasm for her emotional experience. Best-selling authors use their infinite imagination to "reproduce" the gossip stories of historical celebrities in view of the readers' psychology of prying into the privacy of celebrities, because feelings are extremely private things, and there are not many things that can be found in written historical materials. Only through imagination and catching shadows can this "gossip story" be written vividly and wonderfully. Another feature of bestsellers is that their titles are particularly poetic, just as you may not remember the name of the poet Nie Luda at all, but you can certainly remember the Chinese translation of his autobiography at a glance. The title "If it is in full bloom, the breeze will come" is also memorable. Although readers may not have read the contents of the book, the title of the book can spread widely and even appear variants. "If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come" is very popular among people.

Poetic writing alone is not enough to get the widest circulation, it must have a recognized philosophy of life. "If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come" means that when flowers are in full bloom, butterflies will naturally fly between them. Older single young people generally extend their meaning to not deliberately pursue life partners. Only when they succeed or I become beautiful will they fly like butterflies. This sentence is even regarded as the motto of single people. They either devote themselves to their work, hoping to succeed in their careers and win love, or pay great attention to their figure and appearance in an attempt to attract the opposite sex through their good figure and beautiful appearance.

However, the reality is that when the career is successful or the beauty is perfect, the love that should be harvested has not yet arrived. But at this time, this sentence did not arouse their doubts, because they have witnessed others get love through personal efforts and waiting. So I put all the responsibility on myself, blaming myself for not working hard enough. I hope I can work harder and make the clouds clear. The final result is that after waiting for a long time, a butterfly didn't come. During this period, only bugs accidentally broke in, but obviously it was not an ideal companion. A blooming flower could only enjoy itself until it withered.

Is there a problem with the logic of this sentence? What we clearly observe from nature is that when flowers are in full bloom, butterflies are flying on them! "I'm in full bloom and butterflies don't come" is obviously not in line with natural phenomena. This is a cruel joke against the laws of nature!

At this moment, everyone should start to reflect. The phenomenon we observed is only the surface of things and has been confused by it. We have never analyzed the nature of the matter. There are many "famous sayings" in our life that seem reasonable, but I am afraid that after careful consideration, they will no longer be regarded as truth.

Why do butterflies dance on blooming flowers? With this question, we can gradually get in touch with the essence. Butterflies enter the flowers to collect nectar. Butterflies seem to be attracted by the flowers. In fact, the fragrance of flowers is to attract butterflies, because flowers need butterflies to complete pollination and reproduction. Not all flowers in our nature have nectar, only cross-pollinated flowers have nectar, those self-pollinated flowers have no nectar, and only insect-pollinated flowers have nectar. So we understand that the secret of attracting butterflies by flowers lies in their nectar, not in their blooming state.

Revealing the truth and essence always makes people suddenly enlightened, so we can understand why there are always some people who have successful careers and good looks. They are in their prime, but they can't attract any opposite sex. Because they don't have the nectar that butterflies need, such as fun, tolerance and honesty. For a boring, shallow, mean and arrogant person, how can you dance with a butterfly when it is in full bloom?

Butterfly said, I love you forever, only for the dew in your heart, not for your blooming pride.