Your classmate is not the g you think. Everything that happened before was just a phenomenon of adolescence. It's normal for friends to care about each other. Although it is not advocated, it is not opposed to G. After all, it is a combination of society, physiology and psychology.
I hope you will seriously think about the years you have gone through, and think from your classmate's point of view (he is not G), so you can put it down. Then you go your way, friend or friend.