Don't define the world by your own aesthetics, thinking that the face of an online celebrity is a bitch. She looks good now. Go record a live broadcast, see why you don't sharpen your skin, and use a camera without a filter to see what you really look like. Get rid of your hoops, pull your eyelids and do your hair. Don't always feel guilty about micro plastic surgery. You are ugly and don't exercise. You are just a member of the general public. Nobody cares about you, and nobody values you.
Cousin always thinks she is particularly beautiful. In fact, she has poor taste and out of shape. She lives in a mysterious self-confidence. When I came to Beijing for an interview, I felt better than Yan value. The most terrible thing is that you think you are particularly beautiful, but others think this person is very low at first sight.
Beautiful single women are more likely to meet noble people in the workplace. Of course, most noble people are men, and few women become noble people. My friend is very beautiful. Two years after graduation, I met a noble person on my trip. Without any work experience, I went directly to the president's office of a big real estate company, and the road ahead was very hard. Now the monthly salary is 40 thousand to 50 thousand, and there is a room. Boyfriends are also very high-end
In contrast, it does save a lot of time than those who step up from the bottom. Not everyone has noble people. If you have a noble person, you don't have to rely on any unfair deal. In short, you have to be at that level, in that environment, and then you have to be beautiful and have social identity and status, so that people will be willing to help you.
Once married, your husband is incapable, and neither are you. You will know that there are basically no high-quality men in this world who are willing to help you. People who really cherish talents will only appear when you are talented, most afraid that you always think you are a talent, but in fact you are rubbish.
There are many beautiful women around. Once they leave their jobs and tell others that they have a boyfriend and no social status, they will find that all the boys who helped her are gone.
2 "Don't think that you are a favored son of heaven, you will have an opportunity at any time, and you may never meet a noble person in your life, so don't hurry."
Don't think that you are the darling of heaven, and you should be favored by heaven at all times. In fact, you are just one of the living beings. Don't miss an opportunity you shouldn't miss. To put it mildly, you don't care and don't want to do the same thing with others.
What trends rise, we must catch up, and if we fail to catch up, we will be eliminated. For example, when the school recruits resumes from famous candidates, you should not pretend to say that you will not take the postgraduate entrance examination. If you fail in the exam, you will miss the school move and regret it for life. For example, when the economic environment is not good and everyone does not resign, you should not resign for your dreams. The road ahead will be very hard for you. For example, when an industry rises, everyone does it. If you don't like joining in the fun, don't do it. Finally, when the tide passes, you will regret it.
Less lofty, more grounded. You don't get many opportunities in your life. If we don't catch it, the phoenix will become a pheasant.
3 "Spend less energy on reading and studying, learn more, and find a good partner. Without a good partner, there are 70% more obstacles in life. "
No feelings, only work. If you don't get married when you are old, and your married husband is incompetent, your life will be ruined by half.
When you are young, don't study too hard. If you do well, you must have the determination to get married. Well done is not to make you ceo all at once. When a man looks for a woman, pay attention to the timing first. Getting married also requires opportunities and learning. Put some energy into getting married, and you can't rely entirely on fate. Fate will not take care of you who stay at home, nor will it take care of you who are busy and have no private life.
In the end, women's career develops upward, and the struggle is nothing more than the relationship between resources and background, followed by business ability. Dating is very important, and it is not too late to learn. Fate is unreliable.
4 "Married, not pregnant, put in limbo, having children early"
Married and not pregnant, I still want to enter a good company. Unless sponsored by an insider, there is basically no chance. Why should the company spend money to support you as an older pregnant woman, pay you all kinds of insurance and postpartum expenses, and give you a holiday? It is also good to have children early when you are young. Don't be so dangerous in age. Most importantly, the later you are born, the less you can find your place when you come back.
5 "Older unmarried into the cold palace, please don't believe in fate, find someone quickly, you are not Shu Qi."
Those professional knowledge can't compare with HR's scrutiny when changing jobs: Are you too old to get married? This sentence means that if you are not married, you should take marriage leave, and if you are old, you should take maternity leave. And you can't find someone at such a big age. Is there something wrong with your personality?
The premise of waiting for the right person is that you have to hurry. You can't wait for pie to fall from the sky. No one else has money, and you expect to meet more golden men when you get older. Isn't that childish McDull?
6 "Middle-aged job crisis, aging knowledge, not studying hard, trying to manage money, etc. You are basically old. "
Knowledge is aging and physical strength is not as good as that of young people. The crisis of middle age is that once you are laid off by the company, it is difficult for you to find your place. However, many people with good husbands and good financial management go it alone after middle age, which may not be as cruel as Ye Ting.
There is no savings, no knowledge of keeping pace with the times, no social status, and basically no job is wasted.
8 "The crisis of major choice, choose a major that can be done for a long time."
Some technical and science majors are not conducive to women's employment. The older you get, the more annoying you get. Choose carefully.
Women's job opportunities are only a few years. If you don't do well, if you don't marry well, it will be ruined. Don't worry about self-abuse. In the future, they will have children, work and study at home, and some will be upset.
May you realize this as soon as possible after hearing this, and get busy quickly, and don't find that society has cruelly abandoned you with unrealistic feelings and ideals.
By face, by opportunity, by ability, you have to rely on everything. May you abandon those stupid and naive views and recognize the cruelty of this world as soon as possible.