2, constipation: what is the taste of constipation, everyone with constipation knows. Pregnancy will aggravate constipation, and numbness with hemorrhoids will love you 10000 seconds!
3, morning sickness: vomiting in the dark, no matter what you eat, no matter how elegant you are, you will ruin everything.
4. Stretch marks: Say goodbye to bikinis and navel dresses from now on. No matter how girly you dress up, stretch marks will always reveal that you are already a "big momma" (in fact, you are not, and it is still beautiful after giving birth! )
5, insomnia! This is the most unbearable! Oh, my God, Earth, don't you know that insomnia can make people very upset and look annoying? To the people around us: We really didn't mean to lose our temper!
6, n times of birth check-ups: a little annoying, I am very scared every time I go to the hospital, and I have to go every time. When my husband is on a business trip, I have to go alone, queue up, take the list, draw blood, and blow up the hospital in minutes!
7, long spots: "One hundred covers three ugliness", long spots on the face of a child, poor skin, ugly people, this price is too great! Boo-hoo, stop, go to the bathroom and cry first ~
8, stomach acid, heartburn: eat or not, how much to eat, what to eat, the taste of heartburn, unparalleled!
9, can not be embarrassed: distressed husband, more distressed by yourself.
10, low back pain, leg swelling, coccyx pain: there is no room for resistance, and the day of unloading should not be so far away!
Love, talk too much is tears! Welcome to add!
I think the most painful thing during pregnancy is the pregnancy test. From pregnancy to birth, you should check 13- 15 times if it goes well, not to mention if it doesn't. If anything happens, everyone will be nervous as hell. Doing B-ultrasound in bed and seeing the doctor's expression slightly wrong will make them nervous as hell.
I gave birth to two babies. During pregnancy, my heart beat very fast. My heart beats 122 times per minute when I am pregnant with Dabao, and 135 times per minute when I am pregnant with Bauer. The doctor said it was serious. Suspected a heart attack, I didn't feel anything, so I went to two big hospitals in Beijing for examination, and there was no problem.
When I was pregnant with Bauer, I had three or four color Doppler echocardiography. I don't want to check it. Just because the doctor said you were fine last month doesn't mean you will be fine next month. If you don't check, you won't write down the list of the next check. There is no other way but to do it. Sometimes the doctor's attitude is still very poor, and his face is drooping and he asks many questions, which is terrible.
Because the heartbeat is fast, the general doctor does not file a file, and looks for an expert to file a file. What's going on here can't be explained clearly in one or two sentences.
The maternity hospital in Beijing is crowded with people. Every pregnancy test and two or three simple tests have to be tossed for a day. There is a long queue for everything. Some pregnant mothers fainted while waiting in line. I've seen it several times.
For me, I think the most painful thing during pregnancy is morning sickness and sleep problems in the third trimester.
Let's talk about morning sickness. I was pregnant for 5 weeks+1 day. I began to vomit after brushing my teeth in the morning, and it lasted for one and a half months before I got better. At first, I just couldn't smell anything strong, such as perfume and essential oil. As long as I smell a little, I will immediately feel sick and queasy. At first, I smelled orange peel to reduce nausea and stay away from the scene with strong smell. But later, with more and more HCG secretion in the body, morning sickness became more and more serious. I basically vomited everything, and Lian Gang immediately vomited the boiled water, which really made me feel the power of the legendary morning sickness. I lost ten pounds because I couldn't eat anything because of morning sickness. Fortunately, after the morning sickness is relieved, the appetite is greatly increased, the lost meat grows back, and the baby is also very healthy. But every time I recall morning sickness, my desire to have a second child is suppressed again.
The second uncomfortable thing during pregnancy is the sleep problem in the third trimester. In the third trimester, my stomach is getting bigger and bigger. Be sure to use a pregnant woman's pillow when sleeping to feel more comfortable. Because the enlarged uterus pushes the stomach upward, I feel a stream of stomach acid rushing to my throat every time I lie flat, and I have a strong heartburn feeling of esophageal reflux, which makes people unable to sleep over and over again, and there is no way to relieve it. It is very uncomfortable. This feeling did not disappear until after the baby was born, but it is still fresh in my memory.
In a word, the above two things make me feel the most painful during pregnancy. Sisters, what painful things did you encounter during your pregnancy?
I had two special pains during my pregnancy, one in the early pregnancy and the other in the late pregnancy.
For a foodie, the pain in the early pregnancy is that you can't eat what you want, because at this time, the baby's major organs are developing and the fetus is in an extremely unstable state, so for the baby, you can only endure the temptation of food.
The most painful thing after the third trimester is to often run to the toilet, which seriously affects sleep. Basically, I have to run a dozen times a night, always a little. If I don't go, I will feel uncomfortable. Although you don't drink water at night, this phenomenon will not be alleviated. I wanted my baby to be born as soon as possible, and as a result, she calmly put it off to 4 1 week +4 days.
It was not until I gave birth to the baby that I realized that the pain during pregnancy was a piece of cake. The most painful thing is raising children. Especially for novice mothers, the children's unexplained crying, fever, illness and injury are the most tormenting, because everything about the children affects the mother's heart.
Finally, I wish pregnant mothers a happy pregnancy.
As everyone said, it's not easy for a woman to get pregnant in October. I've been stumbling for more than six months now. During this time, I really experienced a lot. First, the change of identity led to physical changes, then the high intensity and pressure at work, and finally my psychological sense of loss. Thankfully, during this time, my husband and family took care of me in every possible way, so that all my emotions were resolved. I just hope that the last three months can pass smoothly, be a happy mother and welcome the arrival of the baby.
First of all, the change of identity leads to the change of body. I am a Sagittarius girl who loves freedom by nature. In the first 30 years of my life, I traveled all over the world with undivided attention, which led my parents to "give up" me for a time, thinking that their laissez-faire led me to become an "older woman". But fortunately, God will repay those who help him. My husband and I met on the way to travel, but it took six years to get back together, and then we met and fell in love, and finally entered the marriage hall. In less than a year, I changed from a happy single "older woman" to a "happy expectant mother with a big belly". But my heartless and careless lifestyle continued until the day I confirmed my pregnancy. So from that day on, I can't be so reckless. I have to correct many bad habits, such as walking to watch my mobile phone, eating excessively, staying up late and so on, because now I am not "alone", and all my words and deeds are related to the baby's growth. But personally, I think the biggest change in my body is that I successfully lost three digits in the first five months. I used to be a little fat and short, but my weight remained at about 5 1kg-52kg. After pregnancy, I "succeeded" in reducing my weight to 47kg because of morning sickness. But it made my husband miserable. He said, don't be thin when you should be thin, and don't be fat when you should be fat. So 20 weeks ago, many people said that I didn't like pregnant women taking subway buses, and no one gave me a seat. But with the growth of the month, it gradually became prominent. The movement is getting slower and slower, and you will feel tired after walking for a long time. Back in those days, when I was traveling with a tour group, I could walk 10 hours a day, and I was still alive and kicking. Then I began to want to go to the toilet often. I am always anxious after going out for a long time, but I don't urinate much after running to the toilet. It's amazing to look at a bigger and bigger belly in the mirror every day. A little life is growing in it, looking forward to seeing him soon.
The physical changes I told you before seem to be very happy, and this pregnancy is not painful. In fact, what I want to say is that this is a stage of life. How tired and bitter you are, it is your own choice. Stick to it when you cry and bite your teeth. It's really good to change your mind and enjoy every day of your life. As a mother, I never thought about it when I was single, and I dare not think about it, because Sagittarius is most afraid of being bound and losing freedom. But after I got married, I thought about having children every day. After all, I belong to the group of "late marriage and late childbirth". My best friend's baby is going to primary school. If they don't have their own baby, there will be a generation gap with my baby. Don't play with us.
Let's talk about work again. After getting married, I came from my city to the first-tier city where my husband lives. Looking for a job from scratch and starting a new career. Although I was lucky and recommended by my friends, I soon found a job related to my work experience and I liked it very much. But this is a job with high intensity and high travel density, which means that I have to explore a new world on my own in this new market, and do a good job in the connection of headquarters, market promotion and customer maintenance. My husband is also on a long-term business trip and won't come back until the weekend. As I said before, I have been saying that I want a baby since I got married. But we can only say, wait for the arrival of the baby, and at the same time, both of us should continue to work hard. The previous work was also very smooth and made some achievements step by step. However, during the period, the company promised to add a deputy or assistant to me, but it was not found for various reasons. So at the beginning of pregnancy, I continued to do my previous work alone and continued to travel crazily. Until one day, the superior leader told me that the current project has stabilized, and considering my physical condition, it is no longer suitable for the current high-intensity work. I hope to get out of the current project and explore a new project that creates more value. A new person will take over my job soon. Note that it is not a deputy, not an assistant, but a direct substitute for my work. You know how I felt at that time, and this is the first time I felt the anxiety of a new mother in the workplace. Of course, I didn't accept the arrangement of the company at first, and I was a little angry. I had all kinds of ideas at that time. Even in those days, I was really anxious and lost sleep for several days because of thinking about these things. Since I joined the company, this is a new market and a new industry for this company. I joined the existing team with my own resources, and even helped the Beijing headquarters to promote the project in a guiding way. I worked hard for half a year to open up the market in the south alone. On the technical level, the company gave me little help. Finally, I said that someone would take over my job soon and let me guide and hand over new people. Isn't this interesting? However, my husband was relatively calm at that time, and the guidance and analysis of some predecessors made me calm down and rethink the development and positioning of this personal workplace. Because not only now, but also after giving birth to a baby in the future, my future career development direction needs to be reset. Companies, platforms and resources can only be a cornerstone and springboard for my career development. Only if you really have Jin Gangzuan and your ability or brand is strong enough, will you not be afraid of the future. So I calmly talked to the company leaders about some work plans after pregnancy and maternity leave. The purpose is simple anyway. I will start my new project and work while keeping my current salary unchanged. In the words of the company, I will give full play to my advantages and create new value. After all, at present, my main job and task is to take care of my body and take care of my baby, which is more important than how much money I earn. As for the work, we should start again and do what we can. Pregnant mothers are protected by law anyway. We should trust our motherland, law and ourselves more. Come on!
During pregnancy, I also feel more sensitive, and many emotions will be magnified invisibly, whether it is happiness, sadness, anxiety, anger or tension. But now I am slowly learning to give myself a longer adaptation time, and all emotions must be controlled and released. Because after a little delay, one day, or three days, you will find that your thoughts and emotions are different from before. It is another kind of mood to think again before making the next decision or plan.
It is really not easy for a woman to get pregnant, especially in such a busy and complicated society. I may need more care and attention from my family, colleagues and friends now, but I should also give them enough patience and love. I also hope that I can grow more after this time.
At first, I was afraid to move. When I finally lost sight of it, I began to vomit. Three months later, I got a bronchial infection. I can't sleep during the day and night when I cough, and the infusion doesn't work. I'm worried if I cough like me.
It is said that there is a pit in this world, and countless women know it is a pit, but they still jump happily.
This pit is "having a baby as a mother". Some people think that being the mother of children opens a new chapter in life. From then on, no matter whether it is sunny or rainy, a pair of little feet will follow behind the ass. Such companionship is like a thick quilt. The temperature is just right; But for some people, they haven't seen the warm sunshine in the sky for a long time after jumping into the pit of giving birth.
If you meet an inconsiderate, irresponsible, irresponsible and unkind husband again, it's really the second power of the heart. Next, the bacteria will expose some chilling husband's remarks:
First, "boys and girls? Where is the child? "
Cold index: five stars
Mom Guo: When the baby was born, her husband was away on business. I had a side cut when I was in labor, and I almost fainted from the pain. As a result, my husband rushed to the hospital drunk, and the first thing he said turned out to be asking if it was a boy or a girl. When he learned that it was a girl, his face was a little lost. I know their family has always wanted a boy, but … well, I was lying next to him, and he even asked me, "Wife, are you okay?"
In this regard, the people who eat melons can't stand it anymore:
It is no exaggeration for such a husband to say that you are a baiwenhang. You just don't want to think, why did that miserable man in bed give birth to your child? You may not be a warm-hearted person, but please think about her feelings, pay attention to your words and show more warmth and love to her. This is what a responsible man should do.
Second, "48 days after giving birth, my husband gently urged me to go to work."
Cold index: four stars ()
Caicai: I'm weak. I'm taking care of my second-month baby alone. Due to all kinds of tossing and catching cold, I caught a cold and finally got well. Unexpectedly, my husband came home yesterday and told me excitedly that XX's friend's company had opened and was recruiting people. I hear what he means, so let me join the team that makes milk powder money with him.
In this regard, the people who eat melons have said:
The puerperium (that is, "confinement") refers to the period from the birth of a baby to six weeks after delivery. During confinement, pregnant mothers should pay attention to nutrition intake, get enough sleep, be careful not to catch cold, avoid cold air blowing directly, and pay attention to timely inspection after delivery to effectively avoid falling moon disease. Caicai has just given birth to a baby for 48 days and has a history of cold. She should stay at home for a while before considering going to work. As for the husband who is anxious to get you back to earn money, ignore him! ! !
Third, "Wife, I still like the way you used to be!" "
Cold index: four stars ()
Mother orange (pseudonym): I accidentally ate too much during pregnancy and gained weight several times. After giving birth to the baby, I thought about breastfeeding and didn't lose weight. Four months after giving birth, there is still a circle of fat around my waist. One day when I was changing clothes, my husband stared at my swimming ring and said faintly, "Wife, I still like the way you used to look!" " "At that time, I was completely stupefied. Where is the man who said in love that he would make me happy and fat? !
Oh, I missed it. Once again, the people who eat melons have no power to control the flood in their bodies:
Dad Bao has this idea. Really, it's time to kneel down! Keys! Plates! Think about how much Ma Bao has suffered to give birth to and raise your child. It's just that your words are like throwing cold water on her head. Can you stand it?
In addition, what I want to tell Ma Bao who wants to lose weight is that October fungus teaches you several tricks to lose weight after childbirth, that is, stick to breastfeeding, don't overeat for the next month, and let your waist get back up through moderate exercise such as aerobics and yoga!
4. "Don't you just take care of the children every day? How tired can you be? "
Chill index: three and a half stars ()
I'll go. No one can control the wild power of the people who eat melons this time. Seeing this title, they rushed out:
I wonder how tired Ma Bao is with her children.
Come on, imagine:
You have worked hard to fold your clothes in the front foot, and the baby in the back foot will give you scattered flowers. Do you want to swear? ;
You managed to clean the floor. Looking back, your baby turned himself into a beggar's face. Are you in pain? ;
In order to give you the whole food, she weakly held the baby in the kitchen and cooked with one hand, and the baby was still in a daze. Can you hold on to this scene? ;
Going out to the supermarket is not only to prevent thieves and traffickers, but also to become a strongman in one second. Do you really think underwear can be called superman? ;
It took him an hour to fall asleep, but the baby woke up in less than ten minutes. If it were you, would you always smile?
When he was younger, you had to feed him, wash diapers, take a bath, wipe his ass and laugh at him. How dare you say, "Don't you just take care of a child? How tired can you be? " In that case? !
5. "My mother is old, why don't you let her?"
Cold index: four stars ()
My mother came to take care of me for a while after giving birth to the baby. Later, my mother-in-law came, and she and I lived day and night under the same roof. My mother-in-law has always had a self-righteous "indigenous method" to take care of the baby. Sometimes I can't stand it, and I will quarrel with her. No, my husband severely criticized me in front of my mother-in-law. Alas, Jun Jun, why do I always feel that they are bullying me together?
Today, it is clearly pointed out that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is largely due to her husband! If you have a mature husband, you don't have to worry about meeting your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law late. For those parents-in-law who give up the principle of being a man whenever there is a contradiction, they are indiscriminately biased towards the other side. October fungus thinks that you should stand on the just position of maintaining family harmony: actively help your wife integrate into your family, help your mother-in-law understand her daughter-in-law, and build a bridge of friendly communication between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Blindly asking one of them to be wronged and perfect in order to maintain the superficial harmony of the family is something that incompetent men will do!
Sixth, "Wife, let's have another one and make a good word."
Cold index: three stars ()
After the national second child policy was fully opened, my husband tried to let me have another daughter. I know he likes girls. It's not that I don't want a small cotton-padded jacket, but I'm 38 years old and I'm worried about the health problems of older women during pregnancy.
Giving birth to a child is a matter of two people, and the opinions of both sides are very important. Only by mutual respect can we maintain our small family. Ma Bao's fears are not groundless. Compared with young mothers, older women (pregnant women over 35 years old) are very different in physiology, and they are more susceptible to premonitions, hypertension and other diseases. If they encounter dystocia during childbirth, it will also lead to fetal distress.
Therefore, for older mothers, it is better to be cautious when giving birth to a second child.
This is Jun Jun's summary of "the husband's six cruel words". I believe that in addition to these, Ma Bao and pregnant mother can also sum up many irresponsible remarks made by their husbands, and understand that pregnant mother and Ma Bao must be very upset when they hear these remarks, but what Jun Jun wants to say is: in marriage, it is impossible for both sides to be quiet. He may not have adapted to the change of role, or his life experience is relatively shallow, or he may really be out of his mind. However, Jun Jun thinks that such words are not the most terrible thing for him. The most terrible thing is that you closed your heart because of these words and refused to communicate with him calmly, which eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is to solve problems after smooth communication. A colleague in Jun Jun is very good at telling her husband the "truth" gently and calmly when the husband and wife disagree or have grievances in their hearts, and her husband doesn't have to read her mind all the time. She has been married 10 years, and they have been getting along very easily. My colleague is almost 40 years old and looks like a girl in her twenties every day. She said that communication and understanding are the secrets to ensure a happy marriage!
I've been pregnant twice, I've given birth twice, and it's always these two hardships:
1, in the third trimester, my stomach is too big and I feel uncomfortable lying down. Even with a pillow, I can't sleep well!
2, frequent urination! ! ! Because I have experienced spring, summer, autumn and winter (laughs), summer is fine and winter is fatal! I remembered it right away! I really have the urge to lie down in la, but I have no choice!
The most painful thing during pregnancy is that no one takes care of me. The strong secretion of progesterone always makes me feel wronged and almost depressed. The most painful thing is that my stomach is uncomfortable every day, and it is more painful every day. I open my eyes every morning to see how many days are left in the software reminder, and there are more than 160 days, next to it. ...
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