1, complaining and praising method
Pack the essence of praise in the form of complaints. For example, generally praise boys for being handsome and say that you are so handsome. By complaining and praising, we said: You are so handsome, I have no intention of working if you stay here. I usually hear more complaints and praises. For example, if you are so smart, how can others live? More sincere, more interesting and more attentive than simple praise.
2, the details of praise method
When praising others, don't praise them too generally. Praise is too general, as if it were a very polite relationship. For example, "You are so handsome" is not as detailed, representative and unique as "Your eyebrows are so beautiful", which expresses your unique concern for each other.
We can also say that your fingers are beautiful, your eyes are beautiful, your teeth are white and your hair is beautiful. Your fingers are so slender and beautiful. One of the most amazing details is that the mole on your mouth is really exciting.
3, including praise method
Extending your praise leads to another fact, which seems to be saying another thing, but it actually contains praise. For example, your legs are really slender. When I walk with you, I will wear 9 cm high heels and hate the sky. A common compliment is that your legs are really slender, aren't they plain?
Using the method of including praise will make your praise appear extremely sincere and hide your praise, instead of praising him for pleasing.
Step 4 expose yourself
Describe your state, mood and emotion with each other. Expose your current situation and talk about what you have done in the past and what you want to do in the future. The focus is on the state and feelings. Let each other know more about themselves.
People sometimes have the illusion that what they say and hear is just like what they really do. Although I like watching TV chat to get all kinds of information, I will project myself on the powerful protagonist while getting this information, so as to get happiness.