National policies are getting better and better. Now the one-child policy is completely open. Did the baby's parents join the second child team? In daily life, unlike ordinary people, they are called DeDinks because they are not affected by family planning and the opening-up of the second child policy. The first Dink family in China appeared in the 1980s. If they hadn't chosen Dink, the children would be over 30 now.
What about the Dink family? After 60, Mr. Wang and his wife went to the same normal school. At that time, all normal schools were chartered. Teaching in the same school after graduation determines the relationship between men and women at work. The dink family discussed it before they got married.
The two people who just joined the work are class teachers, and they are also very busy at work. Xiao Wang's wife is timid and has spoken several times in front of Xiao Wang. Don't have children in the future. Xiao Wang's mother died of dystocia after giving birth to him. I also have marriage in my heart about having children by myself since I was a child.
After getting married, they don't want to have children, so they put more energy into their work. In addition to work, their first thought is the future pension problem. So they made many investment trust plans for themselves.
Secondly, they have their own health problems. They made a scientific diet plan and fitness plan for themselves. Every time they have a rest, they will finish their hobbies.
Everybody else, listen. Will you regret not having children? Mr. Wang said, "Some people envy bringing their children to other people's homes. The family is very harmonious, but in most cases they enjoy the present state. Because there are no children, we can spend more time with each other. This is also the way to keep love fresh.
If you see this report in front of the screen and have such a plan, you must first confirm the following points.
Viewpoint 1: Do you really want to build a Dink family in your heart? Dink family is not a matter of one person. Both sides should agree on this matter. There is another problem that must be faced. Do the other parents support your point of view? If they don't support you, are you ready to stand firm in your beliefs? Besides, can you ignore the secular vision?
The second point: women pay special attention to the reproductive age. As we all know, the longest time for a woman to have a child is 25 to 35 years old, but after this age, the risk of suddenly wanting to have a child and regretting it is immeasurable. For example, there are not a few patients with gestational hypertension, gestational diabetes and eclampsia in the third trimester.
Ordinary female friends enter menopause around the age of 50. We are now facing amenorrhea. If a woman has no fixed rest days, she won't have children. Men's friends are different. The ability to have children before the age of 60.
The third point: how to spend your working time?
I got married in an ordinary family and gave birth to a child. In addition to their work, they also gave back more than 80% of their children. Because I have to take care of my children, I have been busy in various cram schools after I officially entered school. For the Dink family, working hours are enough. How to arrange this time reasonably? Very important.
Even if people live in this world, they only have a few decades. No matter what kind of marriage you choose, what kind of life can you live?