Five years ago, she was a mediocre 30-year-old unmarried single woman in the city. It's a long name, right? You may think that Yuan Chunnan is very different from five years ago. How can he make great changes in five years? This actually started when she 16 years old.
From 16 to 30 17 years, she lived a very mediocre life, and she was numb and confused. She doesn't know where to go in life at all. Anyway, she will feel that she is from Beijing. Anyway, she has no worries and can live in her parents' house every day, so she is very at ease with the status quo. She has been fooling around until she is 30, and when she is 30, she can't get along.
At that stage, colleagues experienced many unexpected events, which inspired her fighting spirit and made her feel that she should fight for herself. What happened to her? In fact, it is also very common, that is, because of the particularly low working ability, I was fired from the company. I was dumped by my predecessor because my emotional intelligence was particularly low. Her relationship with her father is also very disharmonious. They quarreled about 15 years, and she didn't want to go home every day. Even after she goes home, she will face a very chaotic room. Every corner is a big cardboard box and a bag of materials. Every day, I'm looking for what I lost. Because of this confusion, she lost a multi-million invoice during her work, which was actually a fuse for her last job to be quit.
When all these pressures hit her, this depression triggered a disease, a disease called nervous tinnitus. This disease will never be cured. It will buzz in your ear for 24 hours. Sometimes she feels very tired and wants to go home and have a rest. She really can't sleep. Because the noise is very loud in the dead of night, you have to keep your voice down so that your parents next door can't hear you. At that time, she felt very inferior.
Without her job, her skills and technical accumulation are basically zero. What should I do? In fact, there is nothing in your house, which is really not the most terrible. The most terrible thing is that there is nothing in your mind. Only then did she realize that it took her 30 years to live and become a female diaosi.
There was nothing she could do at that time, so she thought she should ask for help. At that time, she walked on the road every day, and her heart ached faintly. I didn't know what was wrong with her internal organs, so I went to the hospital. The doctor will say there is nothing wrong with you. Go home.
Later, she went to see her parents and relatives and told her about herself. They will say, that's called moaning without illness. Go and do what you have to do. Later, she had no choice but to find some friends, who would think that he was a whiny Xianglin sister-in-law. At that time, she found that no one could help her.
How does she think she can live like this? Very, very desperate, maybe you will ask, how did she come out step by step?
One day, she saw a man on the Internet. He sent out a career roadmap. She thinks it's novel. She wanted to try, but she never drew it. Yuan Chunnan drew a tiger like a cat. At that moment, she suddenly realized that she was really shocked
It turned out that she had never lived for herself. She took the route arranged by her father, including what university to go to, what major to choose, where to practice after graduation, and what company to work for. Her father is in charge. If his father thinks that the right thing can be done, he will do everything possible to obstruct Yuan Chunnan and drag her back.
One of his father's favorite mantras is that I am good if the children are good, and I am not good if the children are not good. In fact, Yuan Chunnan also understands that his father does not have much sense of security, so he will build his sense of security on the outside world, so the most important thing is to put it on his daughter. This put a lot of pressure on Yuan Chunnan.
For example, in 2004, Yuan Chunnan just graduated and opened a shop on Taobao. At that time, her business was relatively successful, with more than 6,000 pieces of running water every month and a lot of money. However, her father felt that it was crooked. He used all his relatives and friends around him to swim with Yuan Chunnan and let her go to work. He believes that girls must have a stable job in order to be stable.
Yuan Chunnan's father didn't think of what his daughter wanted. So, for her father's happiness and security, she chose to give up her business and go to work in the company. It took her ten years to work. She has experienced foreign companies, state-owned enterprises and private enterprises, and has done many different jobs, but she doesn't like it at all.
After working for ten years, Yuan Chunnan doesn't even know who he is. At this stage, she suddenly realized that for her father, those ten years were even returned to him. After that, she had to break all the shackles and live for herself. She hopes to plan her own route from now on.
So from the age of 30, she kept designing for herself, wanting to be a designer of life and take her destiny into her own hands. She began to want to be a freelancer. How to become? Since the age of 30, she has tried to change three different jobs. The third job is to choose a private company, which is a training company.
The company offered a front desk position with a monthly income of no more than 3,000 yuan, but she accepted it, because she felt that she could observe how to become a trainer and how the company operated. In this way, in her spare time, she also uses what she has learned to share part-time courses under the spare time line.
In two years, she became a freelancer, and then in three years, she changed from freelancer to IP. From the beginning, she worked alone and did everything. Now she has a small team of more than a dozen people to help her run it together. Now her name Yuan Chunnan can be equated with this word in readers' minds.
In fact, you can also draw a road map of your life from birth to now. At this time, you can reflect on it and take your pulse, and you may gain a lot from it. In addition to this invisible finishing, you can also do fashionable finishing.
For example, in the room, after everything is sorted out and stored, I find that you have established a new connection with these items. You will find that everything has feelings and memories, and you will find that you have made such choices in the past. At that time, you will have an experience in your life. All these things are actually played in front of your eyes like movies when you organize them. This process will actually be very touching and inspiring for you.
You will find out how you grew up from childhood, and at this time you will have a new understanding of yourself. Please give yourself three or five years. Maybe it doesn't matter whether you are experiencing a daily limit, a stop loss or a red market. As long as you work hard, one day you can reach a daily limit in your life.
After digging yourself, you may find that you are not so satisfied with yourself, and you will feel that your whole stomach is empty. Eat more when you are hungry, and the next step is to input more. So what kind of input method may many people think? We are now in an era of knowledge, and everyone needs to reserve more knowledge and skills. Yuan Chunnan has been like this since he was 30 years old. At that time, he would stand on the shoulders of his predecessors and learn from their strength.
For example, Yuan Chunnan set himself a goal from the age of 30, when he was not studying. To start reading 100 books a year, in the process of tidying up your room, you will definitely find that the idle books you bought have not been read. First she started reading those books, and then she started buying a new batch of books after reading them. She has done this every year for the past five years.
Besides reading, you can also attend classes. Attending classes five years ago was not as technologically advanced as it is now. If Yuan Chunnan wants to listen, he must attend class first. One advantage of online classes is that you can watch them face to face. You can directly see the energy and aura of the lecturer and trainer. This thing will become an invisible charge. The next two weeks will be like a shot of chicken blood for you, and it will be like procrastination for you.
At that time, Yuan Chunnan was basically running various training courses every day and constantly accumulating her own list, that is, at least before becoming a lecturer, she should lay a good foundation, at least listen to at least 100 teachers' classes and learn from others. In the input stage, you can also do some statistics.
With input, we output. Some time ago, I wrote a lot of words to young people, network celebrities IP, and my knowledge was realized, which was very hot. Many people began to want to be such an identity. Another person asked a question and said, "I bought a lot of books, but I didn't read much." I took many online courses, but I didn't finish them. " What shall we do? I'm anxious! "
In fact, this kind of question is very surprising. Many people are particularly anxious to achieve it, especially hoping to achieve the apprentice in one year, but we have to adjust our mentality. Because many masters have worked hard behind the scenes, you can't see it at all. Many of us will read that title when we buy some courses.
You will see a teacher who has studied writing for a year and actually got a reward of 10 thousand yuan. In the third year of writing, the teacher published a book with an annual salary of1100,000. You will pay special attention to the fruit on his tree, and you will find it very attractive, especially to you. You want to be like him.
So you bought a course. However, have you ever wondered if this person's trunk branches are thick and his roots are deep? In this process, you only look at one of his achievements, and you should analyze the efforts behind him. In addition to the input in the previous step, many of us have to make some outputs.
Maybe you don't know what kind of keywords you want to equate now, but it doesn't matter. It's all worth trying and making mistakes. For example, you can send more pictures, photos, write articles, make videos and audio. There are many ways now, so you should keep trying.
For example, Yuan Chunnan is like this. She started punching in Sina Weibo at the age of 30, finishing a little bit every day for more than 1000 days. After that, she started her own blog. For four years in a row, she wrote more than 400 articles, kept a morning diary and wrote nearly 1 10,000 words. As long as it is an offline activity and there are five minutes and seven minutes to speak, she will raise her hand and sign up as soon as possible.
No matter how bad she speaks, she runs to this stage again and again. When sharing with the public for the third time, she bought a train ticket at her own expense and went to Shijiazhuang, thinking that he had given Yuan Chunnan a two-hour chance to share it in a personal salon of a threesome in Shijiazhuang.
At that time, Yuan Chunnan told himself that he didn't have to pay for two hours, of course he had to go. So do all kinds of sharing step by step and never stop.
She tried to share many topics, such as time management, target management, how to form good habits, how to keep a morning diary, and how to build a personal brand. However, in the end, through constant sharing, a keyword began to surface slowly, and that was finishing. You may think this topic has a lot to do with her. She is also a woman, so it is appropriate to talk about this topic.
It is very suitable for interpretation, and this industry is relatively sunrise, and few people do it, which is a road that few people walk in a day. So she immediately decided to do this sorting, and because the topic and content were very popular with everyone, she took another step forward. Some small classes of offline courses have been set up.
For example, only four students came to the first stage, but she was not discouraged. They just paid a venue fee. It doesn't matter that she may not even make money in that issue. In the second stage, she insisted on driving. Ten people came to the second phase. After that, all classes will be held every time, and they can be filled. Everyone huddled in a 6-square-meter small coffee room and discussed and arranged together. Yuan Chunnan feels very happy.
Step by step, with the upgrading of the course content, Yuan Chunnan's venue is also upgrading, and he has also accepted the course teaching contracts of some enterprises. Yuan Chunnan can finally teach from face-to-face communication of several people to occasions where hundreds of people can attend. Personal income has also started to double every year, and sometimes the income in one day is more than that in the past month. After this process, Yuan Chunnan designed some small goals.
She listed the past 10 1 goals, five years ago. At that time, she saw a man named Liang Kaien on the Internet. He made a target list of 10 1, and a few years later he changed from a McDonald's deliveryman to an inspirational lecturer. Yuan Chunnan thinks it is possible to imitate him and give it a try. Is this 10 1 target list really so coincidental? It took two weeks to write it down.
Maybe this goal won't be like Wang Jianlin, the richest man, saying that I want 100 million yuan. She set all the smallest goals, such as how to get a new hairstyle and how to buy her first small house. When she wrote down this goal, everyone became full of hope. Because she saw herself as a person without any direction before, now she knows where those directions are and where those milestones are inserted in the future. He just walks up to them step by step, that's all.
Yuan Chunnan can enjoy the process of achieving his goal, and not only on the basis of other people's methods, he also made some small innovations. I found some small books with 5 yuan for memorizing words from home and wrote down every goal on them. Write one on each page. This book is with her. Whenever she has no willpower, whenever she has some spare time to wait for someone, she will take out this little notebook. Watch it bit by bit. Use them to remind yourself that her goals will always be with her.
She has to constantly challenge her life record, so five years later, can you guess how many goals she has achieved? She got 80 points in the exam, that is, more than 80%, which is a good result. Explain that everyone can achieve a gorgeous turn by listing their own goals. Now her pamphlet is no longer a book. He became two books, the blue one is the goal to be achieved, and the pink one is the goal she has achieved.
After you have a goal, you may say, what if you can't achieve it well? In fact, there is a relatively small tool to promote your goal, which is 100 days. After buying such a tool, I was inspired by a man named Jackie Chan, who wrote a book called The Growth of the Speaker. He said that human efforts can be quantified. For example, if you want to be a speech expert, you can quantify your progress. For example, there is actually a difference of 50 speeches between a person who can't speak and a person who can speak.
The difference between a master speaker and a speaker is 5000 times. Some people who may be doing it will find it very difficult, and some people will say it is particularly simple. It's hard, because you have to persevere, and it's easy, because you only need to persist in doing one thing. In this process, 100 days can have 100 records. This tool is a lot of online activities. Please punch in, stick to useful 100 days, stick to fitness 100 days, and so on.
But Yuan Chunnan used it this way. 100 square is a bid. All she has to do is insist on 100 times in a project. Because she believes that quantitative change can achieve qualitative change, the first attempt was that she completed 100 public speeches. It took 1 two and a half years to finally fill this grid. Each grid is filled with the date of the day. The topic of her speech and the length of time she spent.
Although you will think that two and a half years is not short, it doesn't matter. It was a test for yourself, and she did it. That's worth applauding for yourself. After this success, she copied her new goal, that is, it took two years to finish the first lecture on theme arrangement.
After that, it took her another two years to complete one-on-one consultation at the end of her work. After that, it took some time to finish the teaching of the last 200 questions. So, ladies and gentlemen, maybe what you want to do is to deposit 1000000, maybe what you want to do is to read 100, or you want to finish100. Either way, then you can break down your goals. Use it to push you away from your goals.
Finally, I send you a sentence: your achievements today are what you created in the past, and your future achievements are what you create now. Each of us lives in a world of cause and effect. We sow, we reap. I hope everyone can start from themselves and discover a unique talent. Develop him and show the world your unique value.