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How to chase boys?
As the saying goes, "Men chase women's barriers, and women chase men's barriers." In fact, if you are a woman who knows how to chase boys, I believe happiness is not far from you. Today, Bian Xiao will share with you the topic of how to chase boys.

First, don't use "chase" when chasing boys.

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If you like a boy, remember not to "chase". The so-called "chasing" means "catching up", and chasing him means driving him away. Therefore, the first meaning of chasing a boy is not chasing, but using "lead" to lead him to chase you, that's right.

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How to attract boys to chase you? It takes a lot of effort. First of all, you should judge what kind of girl the boy you like, such as what clothes he likes girls to wear, what hairstyle to wear and so on. This is the appearance; In addition, he likes girls' personality and temper, whether they are frank or reserved, and so on. , that is, personality temperament; And boys especially love face. You can always take care of his face and do more things to increase it. He will definitely look at you with new eyes. The so-called know yourself and know yourself. Therefore, to chase a boy, we must first understand a boy.

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Adjust yourself: according to what characteristics boys like girls, make corresponding adjustments, such as dressing, personality and temperament cultivation, and adjust yourself appropriately. Remember here, if you like a boy, if you plan to stay with him all your life, these efforts are necessary. Of course, if you can't do it through hard work, don't be forced. Maybe you don't fit in.

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Second, boys with different personalities have different "chasing methods".

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Generally, an outgoing boy, if you try to attract him to chase you, don't worry that he won't confess to you; If you are an introverted boy, you can find some quiet occasions suitable for confession and test him. Remember not to force an introverted boy to confess to you too directly, which may scare him. Of course, you have to rely on your own feelings. If they have a tacit understanding, boys don't have to confess to you. However, when it comes to getting married, boys must confess to you.

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Slow down is better than hurry: boys generally like girls who are more reserved, because then he will feel that this girl is more stable, and the self-esteem of girls is more important than anything else to boys. Therefore, if you like a boy, you should grasp the temperature, don't be too eager to see the result, and expect him to confess to you. Many things are natural. Even if you like him very much and want to be with him, you should wait patiently for the most suitable opportunity.

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Praise a boy directly but not excessively: if you like a boy, you can praise him at an appropriate time and in your heart, but you can't always praise him. "Flattery" should be just right. Too much will have no effect and make him praised, but it is not enough to feel flattered.

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If you like a boy, you can create more opportunities to be with him, so that he can find your goodness and be attracted to you. When he "takes the bait", you should deliberately avoid being together often, so that he can't fathom you, and let him feel that you are attracted to each other but there is still a distance, and he needs to work harder to be together. In short, when you have feelings, you are busy in front of him. You still have a lot to do without him. When in love, appropriate indifference can enhance feelings, and the distance is beautiful.

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Hold the bottom line: Kissing is essential for a boy to fall in love, but he can't get it at will. Even if you really want to kiss him, you can't let him succeed easily. People are like this. The easier it is to get something, the harder it is to cherish it. Of course, when the temperature is ripe, some of his small wishes can be properly satisfied. In addition, relatives of the skin can also keep it, and when it is suitable for them.

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Third, open the fog and love well.

With a boy for a long time, you will get to know him, but do you want to know whether this is love or not? We should clear the fog and recognize the essence of love. The essence of love is mutual attraction, opposites attract, pity is not love, accommodation is not love, boys' kindness is not love ... and so on.

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If a boy just likes your appearance and doesn't like your temperament, then there is no love without appearance. Therefore, if you only look at your appearance and don't communicate with your heart, you don't care about your life, work, hobbies, personality and temper, which means that he doesn't love you.

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If a boy is kind to you only because you are kind to him, and he is kind to you only to repay your kindness to him, it can only show that he is kind, and he doesn't love you in return. A boy who loves you will never ask you for something in return. Of course, if he loves you, but you don't care about him, then he will be disappointed. Therefore, kindness is not love and cannot be confused.

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If a boy tries his best to chase you, it depends on what he likes about you. If you think he just likes your looks, your money and your connections, stay away from him. Because he doesn't really like you, once his appearance, money and connections are gone, he won't be caring and attentive to you.

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