As the old saying goes, "A modest gentleman is as gentle as jade." As a man, you should be good-natured, generous and gentle as jade. A man with a big temper is a villain. A person who loves to lose his temper has accomplished nothing in his life, and success is also a failure. Obviously, temper is not a good thing. This is why men in China used to like to wear jade. They always remind themselves to be gentle and restrained, unobtrusive and frivolous.