Under the accumulation of five thousand years' culture in China, various traditional etiquette customs have formed a unique wedding ceremony culture. Many ceremonies in traditional weddings in China have continued to this day. Here is a brief introduction to the most important bed-making ceremony before the wedding preparation.

First, the custom bed door is facing the window, the wardrobe is in the lower hall, the door is not in the cupboard, and the mirror is not on the bed. Bedding is divided into bed making, account maintenance and shop opening. Sprinkle some peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds, chestnuts and other dried fruits on the bed to symbolize the early birth of your son.

Second, bedding is generally red. In some areas, there are 18 items on the bed, including four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows and two pairs of cushions.

Third, bedding articles are generally made by special personnel. The bed needs dried flowers such as peanuts, longan, red dates, lotus seeds and chestnuts: generally choose roses or lilies for decoration; Wedding photos: in addition to wedding photo frames, we should also prepare some photo albums for everyone to enjoy; Candle: in ancient times, there must be red candles in the bridal chamber. In modern weddings, western-style candlesticks are also good decorative items; Fruits: Dried fruits, fruits and snacks: These not only entertain guests, but also add a lot of festive atmosphere to the new house.

4. Making the bed is also called "tidying the room", "sweeping the bed", "making the bed" or "spreading the bill". It refers to a small ceremony arranged by a special person for the bridal chamber the day before the wedding, and two children are needed in the process of making the bed. Namely: smart, healthy and lovely golden couple. Also put a red envelope (200 yuan). In the process of folding the quilt, sweeping the bed, scattering items, etc., you will say auspicious words and jingles. To wish the couple peace and success, happiness and good eloquence.

Since Song Dynasty, the person who made the bed will invite the "lucky woman" to make the bed for the couple the day before the wedding. The person who makes the bed is usually invited by the woman's family. Finding a "blessed person" to make the bed means good health, good parents, good health and long life, a surviving spouse, a son and a daughter. It is necessary for them to pass on their good luck to new people. Hide the red envelopes in the bedding (200 yuan)! For the person in charge of making the bed, she received those red envelopes herself.

Sixth, bed pressure. The so-called bed pressing is the night before the young men and women get married, and the groom's family wants to invite the old people of both children.

Make the bed, and then the groom let one or two younger brothers sleep with him in the new bed.

The person who presses the bed is also qualified, and no one can press it casually. First of all, the person who presses the bed

It must be a young man younger than the groom, usually his own brother or uncle's brother.

Cousins and younger brothers. If there is no such candidate within the range of relatives, the groom can also find him.

Friends and close classmates in the same village. The second condition of pressing the bed is that Bi must be an unmarried young man.

If they are married brothers, they already know the mystery of marriage and understand the relationship between men and women.

Extramarital affairs, the groom's family will no longer include them in the invitation list. People who are invited to press the bed are charged.

Young boys, they are symbols of purity and masculinity. For married people, stress

A bed is a lucky thing. As an invitee, you have to go through a lot of screening before you can be selected.

This is an honor, and they will feel very happy from the heart.

In addition, folklore says that the bride's bed has aura, and sleeping can cure all diseases. Sleeping with a bride with low back and leg pain

After going to bed, you will recover immediately.

In addition to asking boys aged seventeen or eighteen to press outside the window, some places also pay attention to asking boys aged four or five to press outside the window.

Bed, this is considered from the perspective of continuing children and grandchildren. The boy who presses the bed and the man who presses the sedan chair

Like children, it is a symbol of the bride's birth after marriage. If the boy is pressing the bed, no.

It's lucky to pee carefully in the new bed, and people are happier.

The pressing time varies from place to place. Some have to wait a day or two, and some have to wait five or six days after the wedding.

In some places, the children who press the bed deliberately entertain themselves and extend the press time at will. special

Seventeen-year-old children, they know that after marriage, husband and wife are eager for intimacy, so it is because.

Intention is interposed between the bride and groom, making their wishes impossible to realize. At this time, the bride has just arrived from

A young girl stepped into the threshold of a young woman. On the wedding night, so many younger brothers in the husband's family slept in the house.

In their own beds, they are afraid, shy and uneasy. They huddled in the corner, always afraid to rest assured.

Dare to fall asleep.

Seven, making a bed taboo In ancient times, the meaning of marriage was more about carrying on the family line and prolonging life. Therefore, widows or childless women can't touch bedding, bedding or even help the bride. Remember your master bedroom and don't let too many people in. In case there are too many people sitting in your new bed. Married people want them to stay away from that bed. Before the wedding, the bride and groom are not allowed to sit on the bed.

Eight, the process of making the bed The process of making the bed is slightly different according to local customs. In addition to sweeping the bed, laying Yuanyang pillows and dragon and phoenix quilts, the most familiar process should be "making the bed". "Laying an account" refers to laying dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, chestnuts and Chinese dates on the wedding bed in order to obtain the life wish of "having your son early and having lotus seeds and peanuts (all children)".

Nine, the time to make the bed is generally early in the morning. When the tide is high, the bride enters the door, so be optimistic about the time of the high tide and turn over the yellow calendar. The order of making the bed is known to the older generation, and there are such people in the general neighborhood.

X. When the bride and groom enter the house, first of all, the groom should hold the bride's feet in the master bedroom (new house). Then the groom takes the bride out to offer tea to her parents. Pay attention to tea cups, preferably paired porcelain cups. It's time to drink longan and lotus seed soup. Longan lotus seed soup should be cooked in advance, not too hot, and the temperature should be kept moderate. Now I took a photo with my parents Qi, and finally I went to the hotel to make up my makeup.

In modern times, marriage is not only the meaning of extending life and carrying on the family line. More represents the sublimation of love and the establishment of a new family. Therefore, the implication of many children and many blessings in the traditional bed-making ceremony is more representative of the care of the elders for the new couple and the blessing for the new life.

Auspicious words for making the bed for marriage

Find someone to make the bed the day before marriage, and say something auspicious when making the bed:

Make the bed, make the bed, have a room full of children and grandchildren, a noble son and a young girl; Fugui, always auspicious! Embroidered curtains hung high, colorful quilts covered the bed, Yuanyang pillows were placed on the bed, and silks and satins were filled with boxes. The spring rain is thick, raising new seedlings, and the mandarin ducks play in pairs; Free love is fruitful, and getting married is a good example. The bridal chamber is as red as fire, and the husband and wife love each other for thousands of years; Newly married couples farm well, and a year is not as good as decades. Make the bed this year and add the champion lang next year; Sprinkle a few red dates, and it will help to have a baby early. At the age of two, he entered the school, and at the age of four, he was able to be a chapter, literate and martial, and he was promoted to study abroad step by step. Press four bedside tables, and the adopted son is the county magistrate; Four beds cut, adopted son as prime minister. Man Tangchun made the bed and his adopted son became a general; The bed is full, and the adopted son is the president. The bed was full, and the adopted son became the president; Make the bed and adopt a son as president. When the sun is red, happy families are happy; After drinking the wedding banquet and wine, there is treasure every day. When the first bell rings, everyone eats candy; Make the bed, make the bed, beaming. Wedding Bed-making Song First Edition: Make the bed (Oh) Happy (Ah) Dear friends (Oh) Listen to the bridal chamber (Ah) Scatter splendor (Oh) Scatter three yuan early (Oh) Scatter four dragons and phoenixes with Cheng Xiang (Ah) Scatter five rooms to worship the Prime Minister (Oh) Scatter six rivers for the same life (Ah) Scatter eight horses to go home (Ah) In the middle frame, there is an ancient picture. Version 2: Make the bed Make the bed Make the bed Be a happy man Marry a woman Marry a candle hole One shop for Yuanyang to play with water, Two shops for Longfeng, Chengxiang, Three shops for fish, water and acacia, Four shops for loving dragon five, Six shops for children and grandchildren, Seven shops for a hundred years, Eight shops for a long time, Nine shops for a family, Ten shops for a beautiful woman with a bright future, and the Milky Way stars pair up with like-minded people to create a great cause together. Hand in hand towards a well-off, loving and filial, and tying the knot. New happiness, new atmosphere, happiness, happiness. Version 3: make the bed, be happy, lay the corners first, and then lay the center; Husband and wife love each other, share the same bed, get along well for a hundred years, and have a long relationship; Give birth to your son early, sow in pairs, one son and one daughter, and the dragon and phoenix will be auspicious; My son is the general manager and my daughter is the chairman. Make the bed, beaming, family harmony, happiness and auspiciousness; The groom has a successful career and the bride has a good financial management; Honor your parents at home and go out with wealth; Children and grandchildren are smart, and parents are comfortable and healthy; The mother-in-law led her grandson to fight the landlord, and her father-in-law accompanied her daughter-in-law to play mahjong; Fighting landlords is busy in the corner, and playing mahjong is busy; My father-in-law touched the two cakes above, and my daughter-in-law touched a sparrow below; My father-in-law touched it, my daughter-in-law touched it, and walked over and over again. Make the bed, make the bed, be beaming, the host is happy, and the guests are happy; Paved a new bed to make a new house, and the scenery is good; Love in the city became a good couple, and pearls became a pair; Love is as sweet as honey, and I have a good spring night; Host families are very polite and generous when entertaining guests and friends; I made a happy cigarette and a happy candy; Send and send, happy events in pairs!