The father of the child is always relatively tolerant of the child, even ignoring the education and life of the child.

One plays a good COP, and the other plays a bad COP.

Who knows, the father's educational model also plays a vital role in the growth of children.

In 20 12, a four-year-old boy wore only the closest underwear in the freezing weather of minus 13 degrees.

And his father was in front, urging him to keep running.

After the interview, I learned that this is a father's so-called "eagle" education for his children.

Why does the father train his children so strictly? What will children achieve when they grow up in this way of education?

Today, let's walk into the story between "Eagle Dad" and "streaker".

In 2008, He Liesheng became a father. He named his child He Yide and had many nicknames.

It can be said that it is a wonderful thing to have a son at an unquestionable age.

But this child is different from other children. He is a premature baby. From the day he was born, he was stuffed with all kinds of test tubes to save his life.

The doctor also told the child's father that the physical immunity of premature babies is weaker than that of normal children, and the functions of all aspects of the body are not as good as that of normal children.

If a family encounters such a situation at ordinary times, it is very likely that they will hold their children in their hands from an early age and protect them well so as not to hurt them a little.

However, He Liesheng is not destined to be an ordinary person. He felt that the more such conditions, the more should let his son receive a depressing education.

He Liesheng's ideas are closely related to his own background.

He was born in an ordinary family in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, China. He set high standards and strict requirements for himself since he was a child, and the goals he set must be realized.

He wanted to go to college since he was a child. After finishing his studies, he lived up to expectations and became a physics teacher.

I wanted to teach and educate people on this three-foot platform in the future and become a hard gardener of the motherland.

However, when he saw many disadvantages behind China's exam-oriented education.

He feels that this teaching method is not only difficult for students, but also for himself.

So he resolutely quit his job as a physics teacher and went into business.

But businessmen are not so easy to do. If they are not well managed, they may even lose everything.

With his excellent mind and good grasp of business opportunities, He Liesheng has finally stood firm in the ups and downs of business after decades of struggle.

At this point, he has spent half his life.

In his forties, he finally ushered in the crystallization of his love, and his son was born.

But this son's physical quality is different from other children from birth.

But he believes where there is a will, there is a way.

Some congenital defects do not determine the child's acquired development. He decided to take his son on a road of "going against the sky and changing his life"

So, soon after the child was taken out of the incubator, He Liesheng decided to teach his son to learn to swim.

He also built a swimming pool specially for the children at home.

But learning to swim is not as warm as a hot spring, nor as warm as a mother's belly. The water in the swimming pool is cold for the newborn baby.

After swimming in it for a while, the child began to tremble all over.

After the training, He Yide's mother took her temperature and found that the child was really ill.

Looking at the weak child in her arms, He Liesheng's wife was about to stop her husband from trying to train the child's heart.

"Isn't this tossing children?"

His wife thinks that she only wants her children to grow up safely, and the children are even weaker. The world doesn't need every child to be a fitness expert.

He Liesheng doesn't think so. He thinks it's best to start when children are young.

Moreover, my son's high fever can be completely regulated by his own immune system.

Husband and wife are at odds.

Finally, He Liesheng promised that if after a week, the child's body still can't bear such intensive training, then he will stop and let the child grow naturally.

Facts have proved that there is nothing wrong with He Liesheng's educational methods.

Children gradually get used to swimming in such temperature water, from the initial resistance to the feeling of floating on the water.

The mother of the child saw that things were going well, and since then, the father of the child has never been stopped from training the child in this "incredible" way.

After all, no matter what kind of education is used, fathers always hope that their children can get better and better.

After that, He Deye, at an early age, has been enduring the "destruction" from his biological father.

What really makes us familiar with the story between father and son is 20 12.

Xiao Duoduo streaked in the cold weather of-13 degrees.

As soon as such a thing was reported, Duoduo's father's education method immediately became a hot topic.

Some people support it, others oppose it.

Then, will the education method like father really cultivate unique talents?

Now let's see what the four-year-old boy has achieved by streaking in the ice and snow.

We learned before that He Yide was born with poor physique, so his father ordered him a set of devil-like training from an early age.

At the age of one, He Liesheng began to let his son walk in order to educate him.

The other children are tired after two steps, standing in the same place clamoring for a hug from their parents. This happened to He Yide.

As a father, He Liesheng never indulged his children, but continued to encourage them to move forward.

In one day, sometimes a child may have to walk tens of thousands of steps, and the child's ability to bear hardships is honed from childhood.

At the age of two, other children may not be able to walk steadily.

When he was a child, He Yide was able to walk a long distance steadily because he insisted on running under his father's training every day.

Of course, walking on flat ground is not challenging.

When he was two years old, his father took him to climb the Purple Mountain in Nanjing.

A two-year-old child is a flower in a greenhouse!

Other people's children are staggering in the stroller, or sucking milk in their mother's warm arms. He Yide climbed to the top of the mountain against the scorching sun and cold wind.

Maybe he didn't know what the peak meant at this time, but he definitely saw the scenery that other children couldn't see.

When he was three years old, that is, the year when we were familiar with him, the weather on the streets of new york in the United States was 13 degrees, and his father accompanied him to run forward.

He Yide was shivering with cold.

But with previous experience, he still followed in his father's footsteps, challenged the discomfort caused by extremely cold weather, and strived to achieve the goals set by his father.

At the age of four, He Liesheng signed his son up for the international sailing competition.

When other children are busy, He Yide is particularly calm.

He was the first to raise the sail of a sailboat, which set sail in the east wind just like his future.

Four-year-old He Deye has been regarded as "someone else's child".

But it was far from over, and then his life seemed to be dead.

At the age of five, his father took him to Beijing Wildlife Park for a flight.

Many five-year-old children are still playing with model planes, but he got on the real plane.

There is a very good saying, how can people who have seen lions value wild dogs?

He has flown a real plane. How can he be addicted to a model plane?

Rich life experiences naturally broadened his horizons.

And his rich life experience also made him do something that shocked the world at the age of six.

He decided to write an autobiography for his first six years.

Writing autobiographies is too slim for most people, and most autobiographers are old enough to record their lives with their own pens and leave a truth for future generations.

As the saying goes; If an old dog barks, he gives advice.

After reading the autobiographies written by these old people, we may also be able to read different life experiences.

But what kind of life experience does a six-year-old child have?

Although he is still young, we have to admit that his life experience is even more than that of young people aged 20 to 30.

And it can be seen from some small things that this child's indomitable and fearless character is also worth learning by many people.

At the age of seven, he crossed Lop Nur with his father.

Lop Nur is a haunt of death, and many adventurers who go here even risk their lives.

This is different from He Yide's father's rigorous training for his son before, because even if he has a high fever, even if it is cold, at least he will not worry about his life safety.

Nowadays, taking children across Lop Nur, Xinjiang, may even have blocked their father and son's life.

But like a tiger, like a son, his father is a brave man, and the son he taught must be a brave man.

Their father and son crossed Lop Nur, Xinjiang, three times before and after. God bless them, and finally they all came back safely.

At the age of seven, I dared to risk my life.

Many children are afraid to go bungee jumping when they are seven years old, and He Yide has crossed Lop Nur in Xinjiang three times.

Do you think this father always took his son to broaden his horizons and experience courage before he was seven years old?

Of course not! The father did not stop the cultural education for his children.

At the age of eight, He Deye was admitted to Nanjing University.

Then, in three years, the child obtained a bachelor's degree from Nanjing University through independent study.

This is just the plot that will appear in movies, the gifted children in the juvenile class.

How can gifted children be satisfied with just graduating from college?

/kloc-When he was 0/2 years old, He Yide was going to study for both a master's degree and a doctor's degree.

What a comprehensive life this is!

/kloc-at the age of 0/2, he once again boarded the big screen with another attitude. From the previous "Naked Man" to the contestants of the variety show "Super Brain".

His outstanding performance also made some parents in front of the TV find everything new and fresh.

His arrival, as well as his father's way of education, has become a hot topic.

Now many parents haven't decided whether they can be a qualified parent after giving birth.

Therefore, there is no plan for children's future at all, and there will be some misunderstandings in the method of educating children.

Looking forward to children's success and women's success is the idea of most parents in China.

It is true that it is understandable to make children better, but it cannot exceed the limit that children can bear.

Nowadays, many parents have some ideological deviations and have different requirements for themselves and their children.

Maybe at school, parents didn't do very well, but in the traditional exam-oriented education in China, they always tried to make their children get the first and second place.

However, when children have made proud achievements through their own efforts, many parents take it for granted.

Even compare other people's children with themselves, find out the shortcomings and balance the children.

For example, children whose academic performance is better than others compare with children from poor families in living conditions.

I told my children from an early age, don't buy this, don't buy that, look at other people's children, you don't need anything.

In turn, these parents meet their material needs, even a lipstick and a pack of cigarettes.

Children's parents did not buy their favorite toys for their children in turn when they bought themselves this material need.

At this time, the child's heart will actually be hurt to a certain extent. At that moment, he will begin to question the authority of your speech.

Children's first teacher is always their parents, and what their parents say is official and absolutely authoritative to them.

Children who have not received external education as children will subconsciously think that everything their parents say is right.

But once children find that their parents have not set an example, they will begin to doubt their parents' teaching, which is a very bad direction.

After all, children never thought that their parents would become the richest man in the world and make them top scientists.

On the other hand, He Liesheng is the father.

He has always been strict with his son.

That's because his own youth was spent in this way, and he set a good example for his son.

So there is nothing wrong with setting a goal for children, but first parents should set an example.

Now I ask my children not to watch TV and play mobile phones, but to do their homework quickly, while I am playing games on my mobile phone.

It is not difficult to imagine what kind of monologue a child will have in his heart when he wants to do his homework!

Imagine that such words and deeds can really provide a good educational environment for children?

He Liesheng took his son to try all kinds of different things, in fact, he was stimulating his unlimited potential.

Finally, find the direction that children love and are willing to continue their studies.

Nowadays, many parents not only don't have some talents to raise their children from an early age like He Liesheng.

Even choose to kill some hobbies and talents revealed by children in the cradle at will.

Maybe children want to learn painting and sculpture when they are young.

His parents will find it useless to learn these things, but they will also scold their children and urge them to do their Chinese and math homework well.

I often hear some parents say that their children are rebellious.

When parents complain about their children, do they give them the same level of respect? We don't know.

Nowadays, most children are too well protected by their parents.

In the era of only child, a family has only one child, which is the apple of parents' eye.

I can't wait to put it in my mouth and hold it in my hand.

For example, some boys like playing basketball, but injuries in sports are inevitable.

Parents are like flower escorts in the greenhouse. From now on, they don't want their children to go out to do such "dangerous" sports.

This practice is subtle, and it hurts your children.

Continued "greenhouse protection" for children may sometimes become a constraint.

When children come into this world, they should accept some setbacks and grow up in them.

Small trees in the shade will never grow into towering trees, and those trees that have experienced rain, snow, wind and frost to meet the sun will always become pillars.

Fearlessness does not necessarily mean ignorance. He Liesheng doesn't know it's dangerous to take children across Lop Nur, Xinjiang?

Don't you know that children streaking in the ice and snow can easily cause symptoms such as colds and high fever?

But you will never grow without experience.

The natural winners in this world, the so-called geniuses, just work harder than ordinary people.

Take Gu Ailing, the world champion of this year's Winter Olympics, for example. Many people see her as young and energetic.

However, behind her, how much effort she made, how many falls she fell, and even once lost her memory, are little known.

Only by stepping out of the greenhouse and constantly challenging yourself can we finally succeed.

But every child is unique.

As long as he is willing, he can be a dazzling morning star or a "dust" in the vast xinghai.

The world doesn't all need talents at the top. Red flowers also need green leaves.

But whether it is to become a top talent or an ordinary member of all sentient beings, as long as children can feel happy in family education.

Then, the parents' education is qualified.

I hope every child can have a healthy and happy childhood and become the most unrepeatable starlight in the bright galaxy!