Although I started from scratch, what is there to be afraid of being young? Anyway, I have plenty of time!
However, as time goes by, I find that my job is not what I like.
If the position cannot be promoted, the salary will never keep up with the rising rate of house prices and prices.
Some classmates, colleagues and friends around me are going well, getting promoted and raised, and having a successful career.
On the other hand, except for age and weight gain, everything else is not satisfactory.
There are old people and young people in the world, and there is nothing new about the working cycle. Behind them are energetic and ambitious young people.
At this time, I can't help but panic!
Some time ago, there was a news that 83-year-old Xueba grandma Lu Li applied for a job with an annual salary of 400,000 in Alibaba, and stood out from more than 3,000 competitors to become a product experiencer.
Many people are familiar with this sentence: "I am 36 years old and all my youth has been dedicated to the toll booth." I can't learn anything except charging. How can I live in the future? "
Once in a training class, a teacher said: Yes, yes, you gave your youth to the toll booth, but the toll booth also gave you a corresponding return, so there is no need to be responsible for your youth!
No one in this world has the obligation to be responsible for your youth.
Today, Alipay and WeChat Pay released high-speed charges at the same time. Sister Tangshan, who has been collecting fees for many years, lost her job because the toll booth was demolished.
At this time, I looked at 83 years old and looked at 36 years old. Who is really old? Who lost competitiveness?
"Old" is more fierce and cruel than "old".
I have a friend, Sister Yu, who has rich experience in the industry and has certain influence. She likes learning and sharing.
Sister Yu is a very modest person. She always said, nice to meet you and let me know more.
You are the nobles in my life!
Sister Yu said, you are indeed the nobles in my life. My learning ability is no longer outstanding, and the world is developing so fast that I can't fall behind. Who am I not to discuss with young people?
Isn't Sister Fish a noble person in our life?
When I was young, my greatest strengths were my energy, curiosity and learning ability.
As you get older, these advantages will gradually disappear unless you do it on purpose.
Because family, children, and a constant life will make people lose the motivation to move forward.
I have a friend who is a trainer. Recently, she was recording a course, and she talked to me many times during the course.
She thinks it's too difficult. She thinks there is not enough time now. She is right about children, family, work and study.
Recording a class made her unable to concentrate on her duties at once. She's anxious, miserable and tangled. She wants to do better, but there is no more time for her to do better!
Finally, do you know what class my friend is preparing? plan
It is because of a sense of crisis and fear of being labeled as aging that I stepped up my study when I realized that age and energy no longer had an advantage.
Let my life walk on the road of my own planning, not be planned by my life!
Nevertheless, I keep reminding myself that besides working hard, I should always keep an open mind, understand the latest developments in the industry and learn from people around me.
Before the Spring Festival last year, primary school students built a group of classmates they hadn't seen for more than ten years, talking about eating, drinking, having fun and family chores. One of the students complained that he was depressed, the boss was stupid and so on. So I suggested that he read some books.
The classmate said, "I haven't read a book for hundreds of years, and the theories in the book are all on paper." ; Another theory: "It is estimated that only you are still making progress." . Say that finish, everyone smiled with malicious intent.
I didn't say anything. They are right. I am an outsider. However, I will never be a middle-aged greasy man or a middle-aged greasy woman who idles and complains negatively.
I deeply feel that everyone is old, not only in appearance, but also in mentality. Some of them are unemployed, some are in trouble with their bosses, some are just divorced, some are struggling for their children, and some are enjoying life. ...
Everyone has his own life pursuit, which is understandable. Just behind the noise, I obviously felt the escape and helplessness of middle-aged people.
People often think that middle-aged people will inevitably lead to a middle-aged crisis. In fact, age is not the trigger of the problem. As mentioned above, old age is not terrible, but aging mentality is terrible.
Deshun Wang, 8 1 year-old China's most inspirational grandfather. At the age of 49, he studied pantomime in Beipiao, started fitness at the age of 50, learned horse riding at the age of 65, learned motorcycle at the age of 78, and went to the runway to make movies at the age of 79. Up to now, it is tall and straight, leading the fashion trend.
Although I am old, my heart is still young.
Deshun Wang said, "It's never too late. No one can stop you from succeeding except yourself. "
Some people around you are decadent and aging at a young age, and some are still studying at the age of 50.
He will think that these things have nothing to do with his work and life. Online shopping? Most of them are fakes. Online education? It's all a lie.
My colleague is only 38 years old and has never used any online shopping. Ask him why not use it? He said, it's troublesome. I'm afraid the funds are not safe. I don't like shopping anyway.
A friend of mine has been in business for many years and has encountered bottlenecks in his development. I have been trying to persuade him to try online business, but he just won't listen.
He told me that my specialty is offline, and I don't understand your set. I'm not interested in the internet!
You told him about the training. He said you were selling pyramid schemes?
Once a circle of friends sent me the benefits of learning, and a friend who had not contacted for many years sent me WeChat. Are you doing pyramid schemes now? I said you found all this! She said I don't believe it, and then she said I want to be like you!
Well, that's what she wants to express. She wants to. I said you could do it, but at the same time she was making excuses for herself. Look, I have no time. You see, it's not because she married a good husband, it's not because she has a high degree, it's not because he is lucky, it's not because she can be a man, and so on. ......
When people lack interest in new things, the door of the new world is closed to them.
Look at the people around you. Are there few people who read books and insist on learning?
What are they doing? Go to work during the day and enjoy life after work.
I don't see anything wrong with enjoying life. But isn't it contradictory to complain about social injustice and worry about being eliminated, and to kill time by entertainment all day?
Unless you are financially free, you should be brave enough to face the problem instead of running away from it, because the problem will not disappear automatically.
When you stop trying and give up self-growth, it means that you are likely to gradually lose control of your life.
Recently, new terms such as Tik Tok, social man, Buddhism, and embarrassing chat have appeared constantly.
Learning ability is no longer superior, and the world is developing so fast that you can't fall behind. Who are you not to discuss with young people?
But many people don't think so, especially in enterprises. They don't like what young people do and don't listen to their advice.
Always question other people's opinions and challenge them in various ways. They think in their bones, how much experience do you have? Less than a fraction of me.
Mao Mu said: "The greatest achievement of the elderly is to control their desire to criticize the young."
Wu Xiaobo once said in the forum: People born after 60s, 70s and 80s will all quit the stage of history, and this world has nothing to do with you.
I agree with him and disagree with him on this point.
I admit that what he said is representative. When you think the change of the world has nothing to do with you, you take the initiative to quit.
But this division should not be based on age. Age is just a string of meaningless numbers. What really matters is the mentality.
We live in an era full of infinite possibilities. But don't expect someone to invite you, and don't worry that someone will kick you out. As long as you don't leave, you will always be on the stage.
As the Queen of Hearts said in Alice in Wonderland, we must run as hard as we can to stop where we are.