The public is the creator and participant of the culture of the times. For middle-aged and elderly women, whether in urban or rural areas, square dance has become a way for middle-aged and elderly women at night and a leisure culture. It's just that there have been more and more news about the conflict between square dance and residents recently. The open space of a community in Taizhou, Jiangsu Province is occupied by "aunts" and used for dancing every night. All the vehicles parked here have posted a note that says "Do not stop for exercise". Some residents in the community couldn't stand the noise and moved out. (165438+1October 19 "Modern Express") The conflict caused by the square dance has inspired many "bad tricks": throwing dung, playing funeral music, playing march of the volunteers ... These ideas of kicking the venue may drive away the square dance, but they are actually not desirable. How to avoid the negative influence of square dance and care for this cultural form is more practical than simply interfering with it. "Aunties" are struggling with the square dance, and nearby residents are struggling with the noise and parking of the square dance. These entanglements belong to the double entanglement of rights and respect. Leisure is a civil right, but even the best music becomes noise when it exceeds a certain decibel; No matter how legitimate the right is, once it is at the expense of the legitimate rights of others, it becomes the enemy of civilization. It is not surprising that square dance has become the object of media exposure. Compulsory transfer of rights will inevitably pose a challenge to respect. As the whole society, respect becomes the lubricant of social harmony. Respect should be based on mutual understanding. If the "aunts" in the square dance turn down the volume, they can hear clearly; For the surrounding vehicles, as long as they don't block the road. If residents can't stand the noise of square dance and the confidence of "aunts", they won't lose money.