But sometimes we need to know that feelings are two people's business, and it is not one person's humility or tolerance that can get another person's touch and change.
In other words, from the moment you give up the bottom line and principles, you have lost yourself and lost your glory. At this time, in the eyes of the other party, you will not be moved, but will feel unbearable and even more disgusted and disgusted with you.
Have you ever had the four most fall in price behaviors of men in love?
First, give it to a woman without reservation.
Love a person, is from the heart to her good, let her good, but this kind of good, not blindly lower their bottom line to complete each other. How can I put it? The person who loves you may be moved by your humbleness at first and think that you love her very much, but after a long time, she will get used to it.
In the end, instead of being moved by this, she thinks that you have no self-image, are ugly, and look down on you directly.
Many men don't care about this when they have true feelings, so they pay unreservedly and try their best to be good to her. Even in order to make her happy, they would rather be a clown without dignity. They all say that eating six points is full and loving seven points. Once you take a person too seriously, you will despise yourself.
Loving someone is giving, but it is not endless. Pay should be equal and equal. At the very least, I love you, and I can pay more for your happiness. You don't have to repay me so much, but it doesn't mean that there is no return at all. In other words, a person's feelings are not destined to last long.
Second, I am willing to be a woman's spare tire.
Many times, men don't know that they are spare tires, but feel that they have the hope to win each other's favor, so they are willing to be women's spare tires, holding fantasies and silly expectations. The fact is that a spare tire is always a spare tire. Even if it is righted, it will be replaced sooner or later, just because it is a spare tire.
A woman who really likes you won't let you be a spare tire. The woman who made your spare tire doesn't like you now and won't like you in the future. Even if I am really with you one day, it is mostly because I want to enjoy your kindness, and it has nothing to do with whether I like you or not.
Maybe you don't know, it's really hard to see you being waved around by a woman. You think it's for love, but it's just bring disgrace to oneself.
A woman can deliberately cultivate a spare tire, which is enough to prove some of her qualities. Is such a woman really what you want?
Third, kneel down to retain a woman who has changed her mind.
It is said that men have gold under their knees and can kneel for women. It must be that he loves women to the bone and values women more than his own life. But she doesn't like you, so what? Isn't it wishful thinking and self-love? Can a woman who changes her mind stay?
It is said that those who want to leave can't stay, and those who pretend to sleep can't wake up. Sometimes, the more you ask a woman who has changed her mind, the more she looks down on you. Because women love men a little bit.
There is also a man who always comes back from the dead after breaking up. If parents see this scene, won't they be disappointed? No matter men or women, don't do anything to hurt yourself in bring disgrace to oneself after breaking up. The mood is understandable. After all, people are emotional animals, but?
Tomorrow, the sun will rise, the moon will be full of rain and dew, and people will have joys and sorrows. There is no one in this world who is not injured, and there is no one who is not crying and laughing at the same time.
Disturb a woman who doesn't love you for three transgressions and five times.
You love a woman, but she has no feelings for you, but because you like it, you can't help but want to get close to her, so you send her messages frequently, and so on! You may not know how upset she was when she received your message, but it would be foolish for you to wait for her to reply!
In this era when everyone has a mobile phone, no one will not watch it for a day. Those who want to reply to your message have already replied, and those who don't want to reply to your message can't wait. In fact, you know it yourself, but you can't control your initiative to her, but you always have to take back the control of your body.
For a woman who loves you, your initiative is proof of loving her, but for a woman who doesn't love you at all, your initiative is just an interruption. Do you usually get annoyed by harassing calls? Will you get angry when you receive spam messages? Actually, it's all the same
Don't give your initiative to someone who doesn't have you in mind, because you don't know how cheap and fall in price it is in the other person's eyes!
The above four behaviors are indeed fall in price, but only men who have moved their true feelings can do it. If a woman really doesn't like such a man, please tell him directly. Don't cheat him, don't play with his feelings. If she likes him, she must cherish him.
Feelings are unfair, not how much you pay, how much you get. When you meet someone you like, you can take the initiative and give, but for all these preconditions, please stick to your bottom line. Only in this way can giving and taking the initiative be more meaningful.
Man, you should love a woman who can give you motivation, not a woman who will only make you tired. The feelings that are really worth cherishing can be achieved by each other. If it's just a burden, it's not a pity to throw them away directly.
Love a person with dignity, and all feelings that need to be sacrificed to maintain dignity are not worth it! It is also the price that has fallen the most.