Lin Xiangru, who was tolerant and generous, treated Lian Po's provocation with kindness, generosity and modesty, and wrote down the beautiful talk of "making peace with the generals" that has been passed down through the ages, creating a harmonious relationship between generals.
Lin Xiangru was quick-witted and helped the prince of Zhao escape from danger. After returning to China, he was promoted to be above General Lian Po, which caused Lian Po's dissatisfaction. Lian Po said he would embarrass him face to face. Lin Xiangru, who is in a high position, did not denounce Lian Po's disrespect, but took the initiative to give way when he met General Lian on the road. The words of forbearance reached the ears of Lian Po and made Lian Po feel ashamed, so that he offered a humble apology and came to apologize. Lin Xiangru has won respect for his noble quality of being kind to others, and will be praised through the ages for the harmonious relationship between the two groups.
Li Shimin is a well-known gentleman with a broad mind. He is very friendly to Wei Zhi, a doctor who dares to offend your face, and he accepted the advice humbly, thus creating a harmonious relationship between the monarch and the minister.
He used to be a subordinate of the rival Prince Li. Later, Li Shimin became emperor. Knowing that Wei Zhi is honest, fearless of power, and daring to say and do, let bygones be bygones and reuse him as prime minister. In the face of Wei Zhi, who often offended Regal with honest and frank words, Li Shimin treated him with a broad mind, seriously considered his opinions and adopted them as much as possible, and finally achieved the glory of "Zhenguan rule" and created an exemplary relationship between monarch and minister.
Premier Zhou was considerate and well-intentioned, which eased the tension of hairdressers who made mistakes and formed a good interpersonal relationship between leaders and the people.
I had a haircut on Sunday and suddenly coughed. As a result, the barber scratched the face of the Prime Minister. The barber suddenly became nervous and thought that the Prime Minister would be furious. However, Premier Zhou, who was kind to others, was not angry, but comforted the barber: It's all your fault for not saying hello before coughing, or I wouldn't have scratched my face. A warm comfort, let us see Premier Zhou's excellent quality of being kind to others. Premier Zhou won the respect of the people for being kind to others, and was called "the good premier of the people", which created a good relationship between leaders and the people.
Lin Xiangru, who is generous and tolerant, and Premier Zhou, who is broad-minded and well-intentioned, are kind to others, and finally win respect, resolve tension and achieve great things. The road of life is long, and we must always adhere to the principle of being kind to others in order to create harmonious interpersonal relationships.
It's raining in Mao Mao outside the window, and the night is very quiet. I stood in the study without the light on, listening to the rain, and the darkness outside was like the deep sea. I feel that God is going to drop all the rain outside my window, as if this house is the last ship in the world, and I seem to be drifting at sea, looking for a harbor to berth.
I was born in this world and was sent to my grandfather's house. Therefore, my grandfather and I have the deepest feelings.
The sunshine is always so bright, and there is a faint fragrance of flowers in the breeze. On the ridge, grandpa took me to fly a kite; By the stream, grandpa took me to chase running water and play with small fish; Under the night sky, grandpa took me to count the stars. ...
In front of my grandfather's house, there is a tall lilac tree in the yard. Whenever spring comes, the fragrance of flowers permeates every corner of the yard. Grandpa told me that this tree has a beautiful legend: if someone can see the first lilac on this tree and make a wish on it, then the wish will come true. I hit my grandfather's arm with my little head in a coquetry way. I said angrily, did I see it first?
Silly me, I look particularly naive, waiting for the opening of the first lilac. Finally, one day, I was busy dragging my grandfather's skirt, dragging him to the lilac tree and holding his feet with my immature hands. Grandpa, look: the little bud is slowly unfolding, and the immature stamens hidden in it carefully lean out of the little head and look at me curiously like an elf who just came to the world, yeah! "Xiaohui, will grandpa make a wish with you?" "good!" I readily agreed! I slowly closed my eyes, folded my hands, put them on my chest, and silently made a wish. As soon as I made a wish, I couldn't wait to ask my grandfather, "Grandpa, what did you wish for!" " Grandpa smiled and held me in his arms and said, "Of course, I hope my little granddaughter will grow up healthily and happily!" "Grandpa, my wish is to be with you forever!" After listening to my words, grandpa, who was smiling, had a mist in his eyes.
The first time I saw my grandfather cry, those wet eyes made me remember. Maybe my grandfather knows that I will leave him one day!
two
There is a custom in the countryside called "every festival". Grandpa always takes me shopping and buys me a lot of delicious food every time. I remember one holiday, I got up early and dragged my grandfather to take me to the street, but he said, "Xiaohui, grandpa has something to do today and can't take you." "No, I'll go, I'll go", I pouted. "That grandpa asked Jingjie to take you there, okay?" "Ok, long live Grandpa" I cheered.
When I reached the driveway of the street, I looked around. My sister was afraid of losing me carelessly, so she grabbed my little hand. My sister naturally bought me many of the same ones as my grandfather. I skipped and twisted the delicious food. The two sisters walked home hand in hand, and I didn't walk a few steps. I feel pain in my leg. If my grandfather were here, he would definitely carry me. Sister, when will you go home! I'll be right there. Sister, how far is it! "Soon, soon." Sister, why is it so hot today? "There is a small river ahead, and my sister will take you to wash your face." I ran over at once. "wow! This water is so cold! " I couldn't help bending down again, slipped and plunged into the river. My consciousness gradually blurred and I gradually lost consciousness. ...
Groggy, I don't know how long it took, and some messy fantasies haunted my head. When I opened my eyes again, everything was quiet. The fluorescent lamp in the ward emits soft light, and the bed next to it is empty. I struggled to sit up, but my head was dizzy and I had no strength at all. At this time, a pair of familiar big hands gave me a hand and I finally sat up straight. I saw grandpa's wet eyes filled with joy again. Grandpa seems to be getting old at once. I let out a cry with all my strength, "Grandpa …".
Afterwards, I learned that I fell into the river and was saved by passers-by. My sister was scolded many times by my grandfather for this matter, and I really wronged my sister.
The time spent with grandpa is so happy, so calm, so carefree, and there are always bursts of laughter in my ears. ...
three
Good times always seem to be fleeting.
When I was old enough to go home with my parents, I pulled my grandfather and cried loudly, "Grandpa, I don't want it. I want to be with my grandfather." "Xiaohui, lovely! You must study hard. If you don't study, you will be worthless in the future. If you miss grandpa, you can call. " "Grandpa ...".
Finally, I got on the farewell bus. My grandfather waved to me when the bus started. I silently lie prone on the window, watching my grandfather turn around resolutely. My heart hurts, hurts. "Grandpa doesn't want me, blare ...".
Came to the big house called "home", where there was no grandpa's warm embrace, no grandpa's favorite smile, and no good memories with grandpa. Only the inner panic, everything in front of me seems so strange. I childishly shook off my mother's hand and ran straight to the corner and squatted down. Suddenly I cried loudly, and my inner grievances and bitterness suddenly poured out. ...
Insomnia at night, tears are still flowing, and I always feel that I have lost everything. I am the only one in the world, so lonely. ...
"You know what? I saw my dad crying in the car. " "Really?" "I saw him turn his back and twitch slightly ... Although his voice was very light, the conversation between his parents reached my ears and touched my heartstrings.
Grandpa cried and cried for me, and those wet eyes reappeared in front of my eyes, so kind and familiar. ...
It's raining outside the window, and the rain is ticking, ticking, ticking, ticking. Every drop of rain falls on the ground and on my heart. I didn't know how far I missed it until I missed it again. Once again, I can only stand in the same place, stroking the world outside the window through the window, looking for grandpa's wet eyes in my memory.