First, make up the sense of distance. When watching other couples eat and go shopping and flirt, you can only miss each other and listen to his voice. But you can think the other way around. Although you can't have dinner with each other face to face, you can make up for the distance through the tool of mobile video. You can walk into restaurants in two cities, order the same food and communicate through live broadcast. Second, enhance mutual communication. One of my long-distance classmates gave me feedback. She really wants to talk to her boyfriend on the phone, but she doesn't know what to talk about. Because of many things I thought before, I don't know what to say after answering the phone. I often put the other person on the phone, finish the matter in a minute or two, and then I don't say anything. In fact, this situation not only happened to her, but also many students in long-distance relationships had similar problems. After talking for a few minutes, the topic started the nonsense mode, and there was no in-depth communication at all. I always feel that emotional communication is always superficial and difficult to sink. The emergence of this problem is mainly due to the lack of brain knowledge and the dullness of life, which often makes two people feel speechless. If we want to solve this embarrassing situation, we must change ourselves and improve ourselves. Specific practice: 1, to enrich your life, spend half an hour watching some news or some hot topics every day, which can increase the topics of your communication. At the same time, take part in some fitness activities, such as going to the gym, playing badminton and swimming. And there may be some interesting people or things in the process, even bad experiences can increase your topic. 2. Reading more books can cultivate a person's language system and make you describe a thing or a thing more vividly. Third, the skills of chatting In fact, when two people communicate, there are many skills that can be used. Here, Teacher Mozi teaches you two kinds of chatting skills. 1, taking the pastry method as an example, the most talked about topic-eating. When you ask the other person, "Have you eaten?" The other party said, "I ate." Normal chat basically ends here. In fact, we can discuss some topics in more depth here. For example, you went on to say, "Did you cook by yourself today?" "What kind of food do you like to eat?" Or you can ask, "Is your food spicy or sweet?" Wait, this can start a lot of topics in an instant. 2. I used my imagination to read many classmates' previous chat records, and it felt like a glass of cold ice water, which made people unable to lift the desire to chat. For example, the other party said, "The weather has cooled down today, and it feels so cold!" Many people will say, "Then put on more clothes and don't get sick." Although you care about each other, how can such a chat arouse each other's desire to chat? If you add a little imagination to the chat, the effect will be different. Then you can say, "Don't freeze the baby, come to my arms to keep warm. It's very warm at 37 degrees." This kind of chat can give each other a great sense of psychological experience. In fact, many couples are not defeated by distance, but by their lifeless lives. Pay more attention to some details, add a little sense of ceremony to your life, and let your long-distance relationship continue to heat up. Let the feelings in different places warm up 2 1. Be sure to keep in touch every day, whether by phone or online. Never say that you are too busy to wait for excuses. If a person really loves another person, then no matter how busy he is, he will never lose contact with the other person. Even if two people simply talk about what happened today, they can make the other person feel that the other person is by their side, never far away. 2. Say good morning and good night to each other every day, so that each other can feel each other around before waking up and going to bed at night. 3. If you quarrel carelessly or have contradictions, you must make up in time. The cold war is the biggest taboo. The biggest fear of a long-distance relationship is that you ignore me and I ignore you. In particular, girls are sensitive and easy to think more when they are in a bad mood, so they must make up for it in time, otherwise they will easily hurt their feelings. 4, you can write a sentence to each other every day, you can use paper or notepad, and choose according to your own way. When we meet next time, we can exchange ideas and give each other more warm memories, so that even if we quarrel carelessly, it will be easier to stop quarreling and make up in time. 5. Give each other a little more trust. Long-distance love, mutual trust is very important. Believe that the person you love loves you. If in doubt, ask clearly in time, don't think or doubt yourself; Interpreters should also be patient, make it clear, and don't think the other party is unreasonable. Remember, if you don't love, it won't be unreasonable at all. 6, give each other a little more understanding, everyone has their own things to be busy every day. If you don't reply to the message or answer the phone in time sometimes, you should also understand that the other party is too busy to reply in time, but you must remember to reply and don't let the other party worry. 7. Don't not meet for more than half a year. If we don't meet for too long, it's easy to give each other the illusion that they have been in love with their mobile phones. You will feel too tired and give up easily. Therefore, as long as one party is free, you can meet in the other city, even if it is only for a few hours. 8. Finally, don't stay in different places all the time, plan when two people will end up in different places. After all, living in a different place is very hard, and no hope is the easiest way to break a relationship.