However, because stars are public figures, any little thing will be exaggerated, vilified or even reviled. Some people have poor mental endurance and can't be enlightened, so it's easy to commit suicide!
So far, the cause of depression is not completely clear, because in this complex world, there are too many factors involved in such a mental illness. People with depression should try to keep a happy mood, go out more, make friends extensively and enjoy activities with friends. Only in this way can we better relax our mood and relax our nerves, so that we won't have those suicidal thoughts!
The so-called depression is a mental illness. People with this disease look like normal people, but in fact they are suffering from inner pain, often feeling depressed and depressed, ranging from depression at first to inferiority complex, having social difficulties and even suicidal thoughts or behaviors.
Nowadays, most of the stars in the entertainment circle have performance characteristics or talents. If they are not recognized again and again, year after year, or humiliated to have no one to talk about, it is easy to cause their depression. This stage that can make people famous overnight has attracted countless people's pursuit, but it is also a double-edged sword. Under the strong competitive pressure and their own pressure, many people are depressed and finally choose to die silently.
Typical China cities: Hongkong, Leslie Cheung, Mainland China and Kimi.
Depression can automatically return to normal after it develops to a certain extent, so mild depression does not need special treatment, just pay attention to self-regulation.
There are more than 30 million depressive patients with medical records in China. If you add patients who have never seen a doctor, the conservative estimate is around 90 million. Statistics show that 50%-70% of people who commit suicide or attempt suicide are depressed patients. Suicide is another defense for patients with severe depression, which may be called the ultimate defense. This defense is the quickest, most effective and most thorough, but it brings destruction.
Leslie Cheung, April, 2003 1 Sunday, 6: 4 pm1,Leslie Cheung committed suicide by jumping off a building after wandering on the balcony outside the fitness room on the 24th floor of Mandarin Hotel for more than an hour. The chief culprit of suicide is depression.
News from Jin Xiuzhen: On March 29th, Kim Soo-jin, a Korean female artist who starred in "Obstetrics and Gynecology with Wind", was found dead at home. The person in charge of the police said that Jin Xiuzhen usually suffers from depression.
Hongshen Jia 2010 At about 6 pm on July 5, Hongshen Jia fell from the 14 floor of a building in Anyuan Beili Community, Chaoyang District and died at the age of 43. After preliminary investigation, it is depression.
Aling Choi 20 12 In June, Aling Choi, a former Hong Kong disc jockey and female singer, was repeatedly suspected of suffering from depression. The day before yesterday, Feng Jinghui, the musician's husband, found her jumping off a building in Bofulin's apartment. She fell to the ground and died of serious injuries, ending her 47-year life. The tragedy shocked the insiders.
Chen Lin, June 5438+001October 3 1 day, 2009, singer Chen Lin ended his life at the age of 39 in an extreme way. Just a few hours before her death, it was also because of depression.
The road to entertainment in Sun Yali, Sun Yali is bumpy. Although I participated in "Sister Ya", I have been on the road of no return after several ups and downs. On February 6th, 2009, Sun Yali, a retired Asian sister known as "Near-re-embodiment Baolian", hanged herself in a hotel room in Wan Chai, Hong Kong, ending her 36-year life.
When Kimi 201June 9 16 night 18 2 1, Putuo police received an alarm saying that a man died in a residential building on Qishun Road in Taopu area. After receiving the report, the police quickly rushed to the scene for investigation and disposal. Preliminary forensic identification has ruled out the possibility of homicide, which is depression.
Pauline Chan In 2002, Pauline Chan, who had just confinement after giving birth to a child, jumped from the 24th floor of an apartment in Nanyang Road, Jing 'an District, and ended his life. It's evil depression.
Zheng Yalu On the evening of June 12, Zheng Yalu of Han Xing was found to have committed suicide at his home in Gangnam-gu, Seoul. The relevant person in charge of Zheng Yalu's brokerage company said on June 14 that Zheng Yalu's death was still under investigation. However, according to Weibo analysis released by Zheng Yalu in June 10, some media reported that Zheng Yalu's death was probably due to depression.
If patients with depression are not treated in time, about one-third of patients with mild depression will return to normal through conditioning or nature, which takes about six months to one year, but this period of depression is the best period for treatment; One third of patients will be repeatedly dragged into chronic or severe depression; Another third of patients will eventually choose to commit suicide.
There are more than 30 million depressive patients with medical records in China. If you add patients who have never seen a doctor, the conservative estimate is around 90 million. Statistics show that 50%-70% of people who commit suicide or attempt suicide are depressed patients. Suicide is another defense for patients with severe depression, which may be called the ultimate defense. This defense is the quickest, most effective and most thorough, but it brings destruction.
Leslie Cheung, April, 2003 1 Sunday, 6: 4 pm1,Leslie Cheung committed suicide by jumping off a building after wandering on the balcony outside the fitness room on the 24th floor of Mandarin Hotel for more than an hour. The chief culprit of suicide is depression.
News from Jin Xiuzhen: On March 29th, Kim Soo-jin, a Korean female artist who starred in "Obstetrics and Gynecology with Wind", was found dead at home. The person in charge of the police said that Jin Xiuzhen usually suffers from depression.
Hongshen Jia 2010 At about 6 pm on July 5, Hongshen Jia fell from the 14 floor of a building in Anyuan Beili Community, Chaoyang District and died at the age of 43. After preliminary investigation, it is depression.
Aling Choi 20 12 In June, Aling Choi, a former Hong Kong disc jockey and female singer, was repeatedly suspected of suffering from depression. The day before yesterday, Feng Jinghui, the musician's husband, found her jumping off a building in Bofulin's apartment. She fell to the ground and died of serious injuries, ending her 47-year life. The tragedy shocked the insiders.
Chen Lin, June 5438+001October 3 1 day, 2009, singer Chen Lin ended his life at the age of 39 in an extreme way. Just a few hours before her death, it was also because of depression.
The road to entertainment in Sun Yali, Sun Yali is bumpy. Although I participated in "Sister Ya", I have been on the road of no return after several ups and downs. On February 6th, 2009, Sun Yali, a retired Asian sister known as "Near-re-embodiment Baolian", hanged herself in a hotel room in Wan Chai, Hong Kong, ending her 36-year life.
When Kimi 201June 9 16 night 18 2 1, Putuo police received an alarm saying that a man died in a residential building on Qishun Road in Taopu area. After receiving the report, the police quickly rushed to the scene for investigation and disposal. Preliminary forensic identification has ruled out the possibility of homicide, which is depression.
Pauline Chan In 2002, Pauline Chan, who had just confinement after giving birth to a child, jumped from the 24th floor of an apartment in Nanyang Road, Jing 'an District, and ended his life. It's evil depression.
Zheng Yalu On the evening of June 12, Zheng Yalu of Han Xing was found to have committed suicide at his home in Gangnam-gu, Seoul. The relevant person in charge of Zheng Yalu's brokerage company said on June 14 that Zheng Yalu's death was still under investigation. However, according to Weibo analysis released by Zheng Yalu in June 10, some media reported that Zheng Yalu's death was probably due to depression.
If patients with depression are not treated in time, about one-third of patients with mild depression will return to normal through conditioning or nature, which takes about six months to one year, but this period of depression is the best period for treatment; One third of patients will be repeatedly dragged into chronic or severe depression; Another third of patients will eventually choose to commit suicide.
In recent years, some stars in the entertainment circle finally committed suicide because of depression, which caused a heated discussion among netizens and attracted people's attention to depression! So what is depression?
Depression, also known as depressive disorder, is characterized by obvious and persistent depression and is the main type of mood disorder. Clinically, it can be seen that depression is not commensurate with its situation. Emotional depression can range from moping to grief-stricken, self-abased and depressed, even pessimistic and world-weary, and there may be suicide attempts or behaviors; Even appear stiff; Some cases have obvious anxiety and restlessness; In severe cases, mental symptoms such as hallucinations and delusions may occur. Each attack lasts at least two weeks, and even years for the elderly. Most cases tend to recur, most of them can be relieved, and some of them can have residual symptoms or become chronic. The news that 46-year-old Leslie Cheung, Asia's top superstar, committed suicide is unbelievable to many people. Later, Leslie Cheung's sister confirmed that he committed suicide by jumping off a building because of severe depression.
In the eyes of many people, the life of a star is glamorous, sought after by fans, with high income and fashionable spokespersons ... Why do stars get depression? I don't know that stars are also under extraordinary pressure. For a star, image is very important. In order to maintain their consistent image, they need to be in a state of mental tension for a long time. Inadvertent behavior and words may be exposed by the media, which may ruin their efforts all the time. Therefore, stars can't live as freely as ordinary people!
The higher you stand, the harder you fall. Stars are idols in people's hearts when they are on fire. Once out of breath or various scandals, it will become the object of public spit. Therefore, psychological factors are also one of the reasons why stars get depression!
In addition to mental stress, there is also unusual work stress, which is one of the reasons why stars get depression. Who can see the effort behind them in the spotlight? Nowadays, more and more young people are going to the entertainment circle, and peer competition forces them to make more efforts.
Cherish life! It's important to learn self-regulation! Not only stars, but also ordinary people!
In the eyes of many people, stars are glamorous, sought after by fans, and their income is super high, but why do they get depression?
In fact, the pressure of stars is much greater than that of ordinary people. In order to keep personal settings, they are always in a state of tension. Just one word and one action can make them collapse. The higher they stand, the worse they fall. No matter how hard you try, how perfect you are. There will always be doubts, there will always be black powder attacks, and you can only hide your inner grievances.
The family of Korean artist Kim Jonghyun mentioned that he left because he could not meet the expectations of people around him. Similarly, Zhang Ziyan, a Korean artist, suffers from hidden rules. The sense of humiliation made him suffer physically and mentally, depressed and eventually committed suicide. In this bright and dark entertainment circle, it is really unacceptable not to have a good attitude.
Interview with Jia and Zi Gui: How to Cure Depression
Moderator: Hello, parents, teachers and friends on the Internet! Today, we are fortunate to invite the expensive teacher Li Xingfu to explain the relevant knowledge of depression treatment.
Hello, Miss Li. Judging from the current situation, the incidence of depression in China is very serious. What do you think of this?
Teacher Li Xingfu: Yes, according to the statistics of relevant departments, the incidence of depression among adolescents in China has reached more than 8%. According to statistics, adult depression is said to have reached more than 200 million. Therefore, depression is a common problem in today's society, which has affected people's daily life and study.
Moderator: Teacher Li, what do you think is the reason why China people suffer from depression in a large area?
Teacher Li Xingfu: I think so. I think the emergence of depression has something to do with our culture. In other words, our nation is a nation with excellent traditional culture, which is hidden in the genes of everyone in our Chinese nation. However, over the past 100 years, we have learned a lot of western culture and accepted the indoctrination of western culture, so we have not learned excellent traditional culture. Therefore, the cultural conflict between western culture and our blood genes is actually a conflict of values. For example, the training and scenes in big cities are full of excitement, which have been completely changed by American psychology and behavioral science, but have not actually solved people's ideological problems. Psychological counseling can't solve the problem of depression. However, with the rapid development of the real society, old problems have not been eliminated, and new problems are constantly emerging, so she has contradictions in her heart. In this way, the interpersonal relationship, career development, marriage, education and other problems of people with psychological problems are becoming more and more serious. After a long time, they continue to be depressed, which is basically the case. This is an adult situation.
Then, the child's part also shows that traditional culture is not popular, and he is not well educated, so he is depressed. This is my understanding. This is the same as the adults mentioned just now. When we observe, we will find a phenomenon: if a child is depressed or depressed, you will see that the parents of this family, especially the mother, have said some wrong and absurd words to the child since childhood, in other words, the child has not heard a few correct words. Because the child's cognitive ability is weak, if the parents say something wrong, he can't tell it in time. He used his own value judgment to define what his parents said, so after defining such a language sentence, he stored it in his brain. The brain has a mechanism that is generally not easy to delete after storage. If there are 200 false messages like this stored in children's brains, we assume that our children will break into adult society with these unhealthy beliefs and communicate with others, classmates and teachers, which will lead to fierce conflicts. Some children will show this conflict in the form of violence, while others will not say it, and then they will keep this conflict in their hearts for a long time. Then, they will be depressed.
In other words, it is reasonable to say that most of them are older children, but sometimes he knows what is right and wrong, because these wrong beliefs defined by him as a child will always interfere with him, making him unable to accept correct information or new things, and he can't adjust these beliefs in his mind, so he can't integrate with the people around him, which will lead to conflicts. Once that kind of natural behavior can't keep up, it will fall behind greatly. Then, he will be marginalized in the class. When he comes home, his parents don't understand him, and he will still be depressed when he gets home. He will be depressed at school and at home. After a long time, he dropped out of school. This is a basic cognitive view of my research on adolescent depression.
Moderator: So, Miss Li, in today's society, the problem of depression has become a headache for social families. High incidence, involving a wide range of people. In today's society, we are all more or less depressed because of the great pressure of people's survival. So for the treatment of depression, it can be said that there are many means and methods, and even drugs will be used in severe cases. So, do you think these depression therapies in society can really work?
Teacher Li Xingfu: Well, if a child has depression, especially mania, he must use drugs. Elderly patients hurt people by smashing furniture. You can't control it without medication. But with drugs, it can only play a role in alleviating. That is to say, after taking this medicine, it has a soothing effect and temporarily eliminates its manic mood and unhappy feeling, but its fundamental problem has not been solved. In addition, when the manufacturers studied these drugs, they did not promise you that they could cure depression. Therefore, we will find that many patients with depression have stayed in the hospital for a long time, but they have to take medicine for a long time when they come back, but they can't be cured, and this medicine is harmful to the human body. This is one aspect. There is also psychological counseling, and there is no hope of cure. As I said before, psychological counselors have the same things in Europe and the United States. We China people are ostracized at heart, but they don't know that he is ostracized, because he, you see, has finished consulting. He hasn't changed and he can't. In fact, his heart is rejecting these things and not accepting his cultural system. In this way, psychological counseling still can't help patients with depression. I know it used to be like this.
Moderator: So, Miss Li, what do you think can really solve the problem of depression?
Teacher Li Xingfu: I think this question is like this. If a family has a depressed person, such as a child who is depressed in middle school, first of all, our parents must understand how the child is depressed and ask about our family environment or husband-wife relationship, and whether we have correctly educated him on values. You should analyze this thoroughly. You know, he is caused by too much wrong information. If you can do this, I think this problem has been solved by more than half. Nowadays, many adolescent depression can't be cured unless it is solved from the family roots. So how did it get sick? I don't know, so we blame him, and we blame him for not studying. Blame him for not going to school; Blame him for smashing furniture; Blame him for playing with his mobile phone. This can only stay at the level of complaining, and will never solve the problem. What is serious is to send children or adults to the hospital. The same is true of hospitals. The hospital doesn't solve your faith problem. He just solves your depression and makes you stop having attacks.
In my opinion, the reason why children suffer from depression and adults suffer from depression is that there is something wrong with the belief system of his brain, that is, the beliefs it contains are incompatible with society, and he can't communicate with it, so he is depressed. Of course, there are also some emergencies, such as the sexual assault of girls, which is also a malignant emergency, but most of them are that children's brains store too many unhealthy beliefs, and these beliefs have been defined in their brains, in other words, they have been stored in the memory of cells. Our parents must first come down and send their children to class. Of course, some children don't want to, and two or three out of ten people with depression may need to be mobilized. As long as he can study and eliminate harmful memories in cells, I think it can be completely cured.
Teacher Li Xingfu: Thank you!
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In this indifferent society, it is difficult for a family, a father or a child to support a family of three, even if it is unemployed for a long time. If they work overtime for a long time, they will be exhausted. If they encounter some accidents or stress events again, I believe that the number of people suffering from depression will increase rapidly. ...
To become a star, you must first have good conditions, either beautiful appearance or outstanding yourself. These people have higher requirements for themselves and have an expectation for their future. After becoming stars, their work intensity increases and they can't get a good rest for a long time. If people are in this tense life state for a long time, they are prone to insomnia, anxiety and other emotions. They are not free in their ordinary private lives. They will always be concerned by the public, and their words and deeds will be seen by others. Therefore, they are in a state of tension for a long time, so they need to be careful about their words and deeds, fearing that a little discomfort will bring them negative news. In the long run, if you don't adjust your negative emotions in time, it will easily lead to depression.
Depression, also known as depressive disorder, is a major type of emotional disorder, characterized by significant and persistent depression. Clinically, it can be seen that depression is not commensurate with its situation. Emotional depression can range from moping to grief, inferiority and depression, and even pessimism. There may be suicidal attempts or behaviors, and even numbness. Some cases have obvious anxiety and restlessness, and in severe cases, hallucinations and delusions may occur. Each episode lasts at least two weeks or even years. Most cases tend to recur, most of them can be relieved, and some of them can have residual symptoms or become chronic.
The cause of celebrity depression may be the particularity of work. They have been living a stressful life for a long time, and their words and deeds are exposed to the sun. They are worried about being eliminated, and their work pressure is very high. Moreover, they often need to face criticism and doubts from the outside world, and they are prone to negative psychology. If they stay there for a long time, if they can't adjust their negative emotions in time, it will easily lead to depression.