Blog friend's message:

Li Muzi:

My husband and I are both from the 1970s. At that time, there were many material components of love, and it was more important for the other party to have a stable job. At that time, love was not as wild as contemporary love. Implicit love, traditional weddings, and even marital sexual intercourse are all carried out in the dark.

In recent years, my husband and I have opened up a lot with the pace of the times. My husband is a gentle man. After having a computer, he stopped learning games. At most, he just watches hot news, and the rest of the time he and I watch TV in the living room. Computers have almost become exclusive products for children.

In the last three or four years, my husband began to rob the computer with his children after returning home. The reason given every time is that it is most important for children to study now and should not spend more energy playing computer games. My husband's reason is still valid, so I will naturally speak on his side. As a result, the children no longer touch the computer except Saturday and Sunday, and my husband shuts himself in the study after work every day, so there is less time to watch TV with me.

This situation can't help but make me curious. One day, I went into the study to find out. As a result, my husband is reading passionate words, and he is not shy. He also said that the sex between us was too depressing. He just wants to express his excitement in his eyes and vent it in his heart through what others say.

Later, my husband sometimes asked me to watch it with him, and even began to say some rude words during sex. Seeing that I didn't roll my eyes for him, I became more and more presumptuous. I don't know why, in the face of my husband's love, I didn't feel sick, but I was very excited.

My husband and I are both well-educated people, and in the eyes of others, we are also a couple with high quality. But every night, we all seem to be different people. Now we are no longer in the dark about sex, but deliberately change the lamp at the bedside of the bedroom into a warmer and softer light bulb.

Many times, I wonder if I am a bad woman and feel like a double-faced doll as others say. Am I really wrong?

Reply to the blogger:

It's okay to be a little excited about couples. In today's fashionable words, interest may be the threshold of seven years' itch and ten years' pain, and marriage will naturally appear particularly dull. In fact, a little light when a couple is in love will definitely have more visual impact than no light, and through the display of facial expressions and body language, a cautious partner will certainly be able to quickly capture your hidden sensitivity.

Opening the yellow cavity is also a way of venting between husband and wife. In order to get the greatest degree of physical and behavioral venting after sex, or no one will compare sex with the most effective gym, because harmonious sex can not only make both parties get natural physiological needs, but also achieve the effect of release and decompression in the process of interaction.

People's desires are endless, and there is no right or wrong behavior between husband and wife. The point is that you both enjoy the status quo, so you can continue to carry it out. After all, it is only a secret between your husband and wife, which will not affect your consistent image to the outside world, and has little to do with whether you are a good woman or not.

You need to be reminded that everything has a degree of certainty. Once it goes beyond what you don't want to accept, you must refuse it in time, and don't let the original sexual relationship eventually develop into sexual abuse.