Drifting is a kind of growth capital.
Whether a person can become an excellent person can basically make his own decisions, and whether he can succeed in society depends largely on luck. Therefore, success should be regarded as a by-product of Excellence. We might as well strive for the best on the basis of Excellence, and it's nothing if we don't get the best.
Everyone's life is a journey, and there are countless bumps and muddy along the way. If our eyes are always blinded by gray and our hearts are always covered with gray dust, how can the trajectory of life be beautiful?
Perhaps, now you are struggling silently in other places for your own ideals. Wandering is the norm in your life. Whenever others are reunited with their families, you can only tell your parents by phone that everything is fine, but you can't restrain your lonely tears. After hanging up the phone, let the lonely wind in this big city blow dry. After a lot of grievances, you packed your bags and planned to go home by train, but you didn't. Because your young dream is still there, you can't give up because of your efforts, so you stay and continue to work hard for your dream.
Drifting is a state, a kind of suffering, a kind of helpless loneliness, but also a kind of tempering. On the track of growth, who can say that wandering is not a kind of capital?
Because of wandering, we cherish happiness more and know how to love more; Because of wandering, we are stronger and more responsible. Suffering is cruel, but if we don't hone in suffering, we won't have a firm vision in the face of catastrophe and big test.
The actor Wang, who became popular because of the TV series Soldier Assault, is an example. He was born at the grassroots level and was the representative of the struggle of the post-80s youth. 1984 was born in rural Hebei. Because of a "movie dream", he began to study martial arts in Shaolin Temple at the age of 8, and went to Beijing at the age of 14 to become a North drifter.
He works in Beijing, and a dozen people sleep in a Datong shop. In order to devote himself to the actor's dream, he became an extra actor and didn't show his face at all most of the time. Others pretended to fall, but he really fell to show the truth. It was this persistence that gave him more opportunities to play an extra actor. Life in Beipiao is even more difficult than expected, especially for a rural baby like him who has no money, education and looks. Sometimes he can't earn money, so he can only live by eating cold steamed bread. Fate didn't care for him at all, but he still relied on his tenacity, gritted his teeth and walked through the most difficult days, and finally came through thick and thin.
Selected by director Li Yang, he won the Best Actor Award in the 5th French Duval Film Festival, the Best Newcomer Award in the 40th Golden Horse Award in Taiwan Province and the Best Actor Award in the 2nd Bangkok International Film Festival. His star path began from now on. From the stupid roots of world without thieves, to the talented A Bing in the plot against him, and then to the ever-changing and sublimated Xu Sanduo in Soldiers Assault. Wang, a typical nobody, the son of an ordinary farmer, entered the entertainment circle, was favored by many big directors, and became an idol that touched countless young people. In 2007, he was elected as the first of the "Top Ten Influential People after 80s".
Hammarskj? ld, a Swedish politician who was the Secretary-General of the United Nations, once said: "We can't choose the framework of fate, but what we put in is our own." People can't choose their fate, but they can choose their own life path. Although we will face hardships and drift, we can still live strong and achieve our own life. It is because of these sufferings that we can stand the test even more.
Jackie Chan left his parents to practice in drama school when he was a child. Life there is extremely boring. He not only has to practice kung fu hard, but also is often beaten, which makes it possible for him to put China Wushu on the world stage in the future. Tony Leung Chiu Wai was poor from his childhood. The single-parent family made him bear the burden of life prematurely. In the most difficult time, he only eats soy sauce bibimbap. After graduating from high school, he had no money to study and had to work as a waiter. It is these experiences that make Tony Leung Chiu Wai work harder and appreciate it more. In the end, he became the "film emperor"; Chow Yun Fat was born in a slum. He worked in a hotel, moved luggage and sold newspapers. Therefore, when he plays the hero of wandering rivers and lakes in the future, he naturally gains some life experience ... In fact, you and I are not the only ones suffering in life, but they can stand the torture while wandering. Suffering is a temper of life and the capital of success, and those who can't stand suffering can only become unfortunate children of fate.
People can't choose their fate, but they can choose their own life path. Although we will face hardships and drift, we can still live strong and achieve our own life. Everyone's life is a journey, and there are countless bumps and muddy along the way. If our eyes are always blinded by gray and our hearts are always covered with gray dust, how can the trajectory of life be beautiful? The color of the world is up to us. A wise man will polish his eyes. When our hearts are cultivated like monks, we can appreciate the beautiful scenery on the road of life!
Perseverance will lead a happy life.
Text: Yiyi
In that year's postgraduate entrance examination, I failed to enter the creative writing major of Chinese Department of Peking University by one point, and my high school and college classmate Chen Xiao failed to enter the law department of Peking University by one point in the same year. After the results of postgraduate entrance examination came out, it was followed by postgraduate entrance examination adjustment, and she was transferred to a university of political science and law in Shandong. On the day we got the admission notice, we had dinner together. The first thing she said in class was: "Dear, please accompany me to take the exam for another year." I stared at my eyes and said faintly, "It's been two years, but I still didn't get in, which means I missed it." I'm determined not to take the exam again. "Then I talked about how to face the reality and tried to persuade her not to take any more risks. After dinner, she told me calmly that she would go to that ordinary college, study hard there, and strive to be a doctor and get into a good school.
One day a year later, I was bored surfing the Internet, and suddenly I saw her admission notice for a master's degree and a doctor's degree in the law department of Peking University. My shock at that time was basically equivalent to hysteria. On the one hand, I am happy for her, but I am really happy because I know her difficulties; On the other hand, I am very dissatisfied with myself. I don't blame myself for not continuing, because the majors are different, the examination mode is different, and there is no comparison at all. Instead, I immediately thought of what I did in this year, what I gained when people studied hard and wrote hard at night, and whether I was planning. The answer I got was: most of the time, I was doing nothing.
I told her story to another friend, and the other friend said disdainfully, "Now she has succeeded and called herself a hero. If she fails again this time, it is estimated that everyone will laugh at her. " I confidently refute him-no matter whether she succeeds or fails, she is the most persevering person I have ever met, and because of her perseverance, I believe that even if she fails to get into a prestigious school in the postgraduate entrance examination, she will be admitted to a great university. Sometimes, you even sigh: How can there be such a girl with amazing perseverance?
Her background is not very good, or she has no talent. After two years of college entrance examination, I went to three majors in my university, Chinese language and literature. After studying hard for three years, I still can't get into the door and have no feeling about literature. Therefore, when I took the postgraduate entrance examination, I resolutely took a cross-disciplinary examination of law. Therefore, almost every day for more than 300 days, I was the first to go to the study room and the last to leave it. Because I had to recite a lot of legal provisions and take a water cup, I watched it in the corridor outside the classroom all morning or afternoon. In the first year of postgraduate entrance examination, I almost failed. Decisively choose to continue in the second year, or from morning till night, it is almost impossible to see the time when you don't go to the study room for a long time and pass the judicial examination in one fell swoop; I have read her books many times, almost all of them. I even suggested that she buy a new one. On the days of the exam, we both lived in the same room in the hotel. She goes to bed at one or two in the evening, gets up at four or five in the morning and continues to recite. Afraid of disturbing me, she went to the bathroom and sat silently on the washstand. I advised her to have a good rest. She said that she had enough energy to cope with the exam. I don't know how she prepared for the exam at her home in the countryside in senior three. Without the learning atmosphere and the pressure of staring at the last stop, I guess she can only work harder.
Maybe everyone will be called "exam madman" or Kao Ba, but not everyone will have her perseverance. Although her previous achievements were always unsatisfactory, her preparation process was really the best, the kind of struggle without regrets. It's not just exams. She has always belonged to the chubby world since she was a child, but when she went to college, she lost more than 20 kilograms a year. When she lost weight, I had dinner with her once. I emphasized it once because I never wanted to have dinner with her again. At dinner, I ordered according to the normal appetite. She only ordered a steamed stuffed bun and told me that she wouldn't be hungry at night. She calmly watched me eat all the delicious food in front of me.
My friend also said, "Not everything in the world can be accomplished through perseverance. Even if she graduated from Peking University, what can she do? " I admit that many things in the world can't be done by perseverance, but people with perseverance have amazing ability, and they will do well and live happily no matter what they want to do. It goes without saying that it is an ability to find something that you are willing to stick to with perseverance. What's more, the essence of perseverance is good self-management and control ability, self-confidence that life is under my control, and the only way for ordinary people to succeed and surpass.
On my 25th birthday, I set myself a key word "diligence", and the basis of diligence is actually perseverance. I even have the audacity to say that all people can achieve the success and happiness they want through unremitting efforts. Not long ago, I read an article in Weibo entitled "Can appearance be changed through fitness? It's a collection of fitness experiences published by many ordinary people on Zhihu, which makes me feel ashamed. You think that the seemingly innate capital of looks can be changed through hard work and perseverance. Is there really anything that can't be changed? Isn't there a better possibility for our present life?
I know a big V in Weibo who has sent at least one original Weibo every day for five years. Whether it is a meeting, a business trip, or facing the birth and death of his family, he has never stopped. Some people may find it easy, so if you keep trying for a year, you must have extraordinary perseverance. For many years, a well-known screenwriter watched a movie first thing every morning, at least five times a week. It's fun to watch movies during leisure, but this habit has become a habit for more than ten years. But behind the habit, there must be persistence. After all, eating a dish every day, no matter how delicious, will vomit.
Many times, I feel that persistence, diligence and persistence are all accompanied by a kind of paranoia and natural beauty. Perhaps they are also a manifestation of professionalism. Once a thing is professional, it is particularly attractive. I'm not crazy about Haruki Murakami's novels, but I love this old man to death. I write regularly and run regularly every day, until this kind of breath naturally reveals between his lines and has a clean aesthetic feeling. The reason why a person is different from a group of people probably comes from the persistent defense and maintenance of something in his heart.
Anyway, I firmly believe that if you have perseverance to do one thing, you will be happy. There is no doubt about it.
Looking back ten years
I was deeply moved when I saw Zhou Xun talking about her life experience from 18 to 28 years old that day.
Zhou Xun 18 years old, went to Zhejiang Art School. At that time, she was a girl who didn't know what she really wanted.
Singing and dancing with classmates every day, life is chaotic.
She clearly remembers that one day in May 1993, an art school teacher suddenly called her to the office and asked her, "Are you satisfied with your present life?" She shook her head.
The teacher smiled and said, "If you are not satisfied, you can still be saved. You are a good prospect, but you lack a plan for life and are sloppy and chaotic. Now think about it, what will you look like in ten years? "
Ten years later? She never really thought about such a distant thing.
The teacher said, "I haven't thought about it, have I?" Now think about it and tell the teacher when you think about it. "
After a long silence, she said slowly, "I hope that after ten years, I can become a successful actor and release my own music album."
The teacher said, "Well, since you are sure, let's count this goal backwards." . 10 years later, you are 28 years old, a big star who holds up half the sky and releases an album at the same time. Then, when you are 27 years old, you must have a complete musical work that can be shown to many record companies in addition to receiving plays by various famous directors. At the age of 25, you should continue to study and think in the performing arts and start recording great works in music; At the age of 23, you must receive all kinds of training, including music and performance; At the age of 20, I will learn to compose music and write lyrics, and I will play a bigger role in the performance ... "
From then on, she kept the teacher's words in mind, and she felt that she had been awakened.
A year later, at the age of 19, she graduated from an art school and bravely went to Beijing to become a "northern drifter".
She always remembers that she will be a successful actress in ten years, so she began to choose her role carefully. Later, she made films such as Poem of Daming Palace and Orange is Red, which gradually became familiar to the audience.
Then I signed a contract with the film and television company directed by Li, and I slowly tasted the happiness of success.
In May, 2003, just ten years after the teacher talked to her, she really became a domestic first-line red star, and her international popularity was gradually expanding. She really has her first album, Summer.
Ten years is neither long nor short.
Think about yourself, 1993, I am still in junior high school, dealing with endless exams and tests;
Ten years later, in 2003, I was already in Shanghai, working in the company and working overtime. In order to buy a house of my own in this land-intensive city and give myself a sense of belonging, I work hard and hard.
In the past ten years, I feel that I am in a chaotic state that has not yet awakened.
Later, it reached 20 13 in 2003.
In the past ten years, I have taken root in the city of Shanghai. I have my own home and two children. Busy day after day for work, family and children.
I feel that I am slowly awakening, and my dreams are gradually sprouting.
At the end of 2009 and the beginning of 20 10, I began to study writing hard in my spare time, published more than two million words, became a signing writer for periodicals such as Reader, Youth Digest and Yilin, wrote some columns, joined the Chinese Writers Association, published several books of my own, and was shortlisted for the Lu Xun Literature Award. ...
In the past ten years, I have said I regret it. Say regret, not at all.
In Shanghai, a city without any foundation, it took ten years to survive basically, let alone regret it.
What about the decade of 20 13 and 2023? What should I look like in ten years?
It's time to think about it.
In ten years, a born baby can grow into an innocent and romantic girl;
Ten years, a very much in love, can be precipitated into blood thicker than water;
Ten years later, a full head of hair can become mottled sideburns.
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A year or ten years is an accumulation of years.
Ten years' harvest needs to be accumulated year after year in order to make a qualitative leap.
One year's efforts may not show anything, and ten years' efforts may come naturally.
A year's dream is very dreamy.
A dream of ten years may become a vivid reality.
So, from now on, I look forward to myself in ten years.
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