Love your wife rule 1 1. Women are more sensitive to body deformation than men. Experts suggest that Dr. Kang Hongming, the chief physician, advises the prospective father that when he discovers this fact, he should never publicize it as loudly as he discovered the new continent, because the expectant mother is already worried about her obese body, and it will be more destructive to say it from her close lover, which will easily lead to a bad mood. 2. At this stage when expectant mothers are particularly sensitive, it is not appropriate to use provocation. I like watching TV, talking about how hot an actress is intentionally or unintentionally; Even in front of his wife, he is intoxicated with his ex-girlfriend, how thin his waist is and how light his weight is, and no matter how generous his wife is, he won't like to hear her husband praise other women desperately in front of him, let alone during this extraordinary period of pregnancy. Experts suggest that Dr. Kang Hongming thinks that the weight gain of pregnant mothers 10 ~ 14kg belongs to the normal range, which is easy to edema and will definitely be a little bloated. The prospective father should be more considerate of his wife's pregnancy, instead of stimulating her with words, thinking that this will prompt her to eat less. If the wife does the opposite and fights back by eating and drinking or losing weight, it will not be worth the candle. Please remember, a word from the prospective father affects the emotional ups and downs of the other half! A pregnant wife just wants to lie down and rest, not exercise. As her belly gets bigger, the time her wife spends on the sofa and bed increases in proportion. Although pregnant women need more rest, it is not good to always lie still. It is said that walking and swimming are good for pregnant women. Should we force her to exercise? Wife's love code 2 1. Moderate exercise is really helpful to production, which can not only enhance physical strength, cope with the energy consumed during childbirth, but also be beneficial to childbirth. Experts advised Dr. Kang Hongming that every expectant mother's constitution and physical condition are different. Some people can walk and go shopping before giving birth to children, and some people have to stay in bed as soon as they get pregnant. Therefore, the prospective father must take the physical strength of the expectant mother as the standard and choose the exercise suitable for his physical condition, instead of just forcing the pregnant woman's wife to exercise. 2. In the face of the lazy expectant mother, the prospective father can launch a gentle offensive and persuade the expectant mother to get up and walk with sweet words, saying, "I haven't watched the stars with you for a long time, let's go out for a walk!" "Let's take the baby out for a walk!" Or "I really want to hold your hand for a walk!" Invite your wife and adults to exercise together. Experts suggest that when accompanying expectant mothers to exercise, we must grasp the principles of "doing what we can" and "caring for each other". After all, everyone has different standards and acceptance of sports. Maybe the prospective father thinks it takes two hours to walk, but for the pregnant expectant mother, walking for half an hour may already be panting and sweating. Therefore, Dr. Kang Hongming reminded the prospective father not to ask the expectant mother by his own standards, and let her rest when she is tired. Remember, you are a loving and loving husband, not the devil coach in the gym. After the wife is pregnant, she eats more and more. My wife, who has been bargaining for calories since she had a baby in her stomach, seems to have an extra belly. She not only has a good appetite, but also eats more food and meals. Besides dinner, I suddenly want to have a midnight snack or a snack at three o'clock. How can you keep eating like this? Love your wife rule 3 1. During pregnancy, mom's taste will change. Maybe she has never eaten greasy chicken chops before, but she likes to take a bite after eating them. Maybe she liked steak best before she got pregnant, but now she wants to vomit when she smells it. The prospective father should understand the physiological changes of pregnant women, try to meet the needs of his wife, and don't think that she is deliberately finding fault. When you see that your wife has an amazing appetite, never mention words like "fat", "fat" and "round" in front of your wife. Of course, don't be smart and praise her as "cute and fat" or "as fat as a pig", which is the trigger of the dispute. Experts suggest that it is normal for expectant mothers to eat more because of the development and growth of the fetus. Dr. Kang Hongming believes that as long as the expectant mother's weight gain is within the normal range and there is no adverse effect on her health and fetus because of overweight, the prospective father will say less and follow her meaning! My wife always says, "I'm pregnant!" " I know it's hard for my wife to get pregnant, but I'm also very tired at work! Every time I use the "big belly" as an arrow, I am instructed to sweep the floor and wash clothes, and take this and that. Pregnancy is not illness. Why do you always tell me to do things? Cann't you do something when you are pregnant? Love your wife rule 4 1. Yes, pregnancy is not a disease, but the expectant mother has to bear the weight of the fetus and amniotic fluid because of pregnancy. This extra 10 kg made her lose a lot of physical strength and autonomy. Not only could she not lift heavy objects or bend down to get things, but even the most basic things such as cutting nails, wearing socks and tying shoelaces were difficult to do in the third trimester of pregnancy, and it was even more difficult at this time. 2. If we look at this matter from the perspective of reverse thinking, we can easily find that this 10 month, for the sake of his wife's "not afraid of trouble and hardship", is only a pediatrics compared with the heavy responsibility of raising children in the next 20 years. With this understanding of 10 months, I believe you already know what an excellent partner who will fight side by side with you in the next 20 years should do, but this is a cost-effective exchange, smart prospective father! Experts suggest that Dr. Kang Hongming thinks this is the best time for prospective fathers to show "heroic rescue". It is not a good thing to "rescue" his usually strong and independent wife and let her know your importance. When my wife's feelings about pregnancy are different from the knowledge I got from books, I have been reading books and looking for information seriously since I knew I was going to be a father, hoping to learn more about pregnancy. But what's the difference between some pregnancy symptoms my wife told me and what I saw? Should I believe what she said or what she said in the book? Love your wife rule 5 1. It is worth encouraging to know about pregnancy, but as the saying goes, "it is better to believe it than not to believe it." If you think that only what is written in the book is right, you might as well throw away all the reference books! Experts suggest that Dr. Kang Hongming thinks that every expectant mother and fetus are unique individuals, and the situation will definitely be different. For example, the book says that early pregnancy will be harmful to happiness, but it is not abnormal without bad happiness, which varies from person to person. Therefore, books can only be used for reference and cannot be used to argue with pregnant women's wives! 2. After all, every bit of pregnancy is borne by expectant mothers. Even if the prospective father puts on a fake belly, he can't understand the baby's kicking or disgusting discomfort. Experts suggest that since the prospective father can't really feel it, it is necessary to focus on the feelings of the other half. Dr. Kang Hongming believes that listening to her feelings can not only gain more knowledge not mentioned in the textbook, but also warm the feelings of husband and wife by listening. Fight less and be moved more, not kill two birds with one stone. My wife is emotionally unstable and easily loses her temper. Why are innocent girls and whispers replaced by willfulness and unreasonable troubles after pregnancy? Obviously, I didn't make any mistakes. How did she say that she turned her face? I'm confused, I don't know where I offended her! Wife code 6 1. During pregnancy, in order to give birth to a new life, the hormones in the expectant mother will change, and her mood will fluctuate easily, which will naturally be different from that before pregnancy. The prospective father must understand this. Coupled with factors such as worrying about whether the baby is healthy and whether the production process is smooth, it is understandable to have symptoms of prenatal depression. Experts suggest that Dr. Kang Hongming thinks that prospective fathers should take the initiative to show concern for their mothers and babies, often touch their mothers' stomachs and talk to their babies, which can calm their anxiety and help stabilize their emotions. In addition, it is also very important to accompany the prenatal examination. If you really can't spare the time to go together, remember to ask about the process and results of the birth check-up, so that your wife feels valued. 2. Looking at it from another angle, the wife will be emotionally unstable, not intentionally losing her temper, mainly worrying about the little princess or the little prince in her belly. Experts suggest that for the sake of the baby's health and future, Dr. Kang Hongming suggested that in addition to trying to communicate with the other half, "more patience and consideration" is the best policy. It's really unbearable. Take a deep breath, zero tolerance, and be patient.