Dong Qing's father is very strict with Dong Qing and asks her to take the initiative to do housework. Since the age of 7, she has been washing dishes every day, working as a cleaner in a hotel during the middle school holidays and running one kilometer on the playground every morning. She is not allowed to recite poems and ancient prose in the mirror. ...
Dong Qing's childhood was "shadowed" by these fathers, which made her wonder if she was her own daughter? Until one day, my father raised his glass to apologize to her, "I shouldn't have treated you like this for so many years …". Today, Dong Qing laments that her success stems from her father's "devil" education, which taught her to persist.
Dong Qing recalled: "My father has a famous saying that potatoes are potatoes no matter how they are dressed. He said that you might as well read more books when you look in the mirror every day. " In addition, my father didn't ask my mother to make new clothes for Dong Qing, thinking that girls should not pay too much attention to dressing up. For Dong Qing, who was a little girl at that time, the lethality was quite great.
When Dong Qing was still a little literate, her father asked her to copy idioms and ancient poems every day, and also asked her to read aloud and recite them. Older, and let her copy ancient prose. In addition to literary accomplishment, physical exercise also made Dong Qing complain from an early age.
Sometimes, before dawn, my father picked up Dong Qing, who was still sleeping, and let her run for one kilometer on the playground of Huaibei Middle School in front of her home. "At that time, the students were doing morning exercises, and I felt silly running alone on the 400-meter runway. The classmates and teachers in the whole school seem to be watching you, just like Forrest Gump. "
Dong Qing said that sometimes she would be clever enough to go downstairs and find a doorway to hide. It is estimated that it's almost time, and then she ran home panting and pretended to be out of breath and said, "I'm finished.". Dong Qing didn't understand why his father educated himself in this way until he grew up.
Dong Qing was deeply influenced by his father.
Dong Qing's father is from Chongming. He grew up in the countryside and lived in poverty. Dong Qing's grandfather died young, and his grandmother gave birth to this son when she was very old. Mother and son live together. Dong Qing said, "Every day before going to school, my father would go to the pond to catch fish and shrimp, and then follow my grandmother to the market to sell them to earn some living expenses before going to school.
In high school, my father asked the school teacher what university I should go to. The teacher said that you like liberal arts so much, so go to the journalism department of Fudan University. "At that time, Dong Qing's father didn't know how difficult it was to get into the famous major of this famous university. After doing his best, he was finally admitted.
"My father's own experience made him especially believe that people's fate depends on their own changes, and everything is in their own hands. That's how he came step by step, so he expected the same from me. I think you must study hard. " Dong Qing said, my father is a very strict, patient and kind person, and I am glad that I have inherited these advantages from him.