People with taste are elegant!
Taste, style
What is taste? Product is character, quality and moral character, and taste is interest, taste and aftertaste. Together, it probably refers to a person's quality, interest, sentiment and cultivation. But literally, taste has another most primitive and direct explanation. Products are products, products are products, and together they are products. For example, a cup of tea. Some people don't know what this tea tastes like, let alone taste it. The other person will be in a room with books on the wall and several green plants in front of the window. He leaned back on the sofa made of bamboo and rattan, holding a book and making a cup of tea, so that the tea leaves slowly spread out under the infiltration of hot water, and a burst of fragrance floated around. Then, he picked up the teacup and took a sip, making the bitter taste of tea sweet, and the astringency in the sweet taste slowly penetrated into his heart, and then tasted life from tea ... this is taste.
Tasting life, as its name implies, can be understood as tasting the taste of life. But not with the tip of your tongue and taste, but with your heart. For example, when you see a big tree without leaves in autumn, some people think it is nothing more than a bare tree, while others can taste a bleak and desolate beauty. For example, on the bus, when a pregnant woman stands next to her seat and has to give up her seat, some people will feel annoyed and unlucky, and even feel bored and complain about the pregnant woman. Another kind of people will voluntarily give up their seats, and will experience the joy of giving and dedication from the gratitude of the other party and the recognition of others. For another example, it is also sold. Some people think that sales is a job in which you have to ask for help before you can make money. Some people can taste it. It is a career that can help customers, offer timely help or icing on the cake. It is challenging, can realize self-worth, and has love and responsibility.
Different feelings and attitudes towards life reflect a person's taste.
People with high taste live an elegant, exquisite, interesting, fashionable, pursuing and meaningful life, while people with low taste live a rude, vulgar and ignorant life, but often such people are self-righteous and full of ugliness.
To improve one's life taste, the most important thing is to improve one's self-cultivation. The first is character cultivation, and the second is cultural and artistic cultivation. Character cultivation is the most fundamental cultivation of a person, which can enhance a person's taste from the inside. If a person's character is noble, upright, just, tolerant, caring, responsible, enterprising, diligent and open-minded, then the taste displayed by this person is naturally high. The cultivation of character can reflect the word "high" in elegant taste; The cultivation of culture and art can reflect the word "elegance" in elegant taste. For example, if you improve your literary accomplishment, your speech will have connotation and your sentences will be civilized and elegant. For example, if he improves his artistic accomplishment, understands the harmony of colors and improves his aesthetic taste, then he will be elegant and refined in his dress and unique in his home layout. Improve your music and dance accomplishment, and then your posture, voice and expression will naturally show beauty.
At the same time, when you concentrate on improving your cultural and artistic accomplishment, you will gradually abandon some vulgar habits and hobbies. You may give up playing mahjong, which is a waste of time and harmful to your health, and choose activities that are beneficial to your body and mind, such as playing ball, swimming and fitness. You may change your nightlife, from singing and dancing in nightclubs to attending concerts, watching movies, attending some cultural salons or reading at home.
Every kind of culture and art is full of connotation and fun, which often makes people like it more and more, and the more they learn, the more fascinated they become. At the same time, it is closely related to daily life and gives in to each other. When you improve your cultural and artistic accomplishment, it will naturally appear in your daily life, so your attitude towards life, work, environment and life will also change. You will know how to appreciate the beauty in life and feel the happiness in life. Your eyes, your taste will become elegant, artistic and unique.
Besides, talk about the relationship between taste and money. Some people think that elegant taste, elegant and exquisite life, cultural and artistic accomplishment, playing golf, attending concerts, playing the piano, writing, painting, reading, dressing up, and so on, all seem to be achievable by the rich. Only by making money first can we improve our taste. Some people even confuse a rich life with a tasteful life. Actually, it's not like that at all. Money may make your elegant taste more distinct, but you can never buy it. We can often see some people wearing expensive and gorgeous clothes and all kinds of gold, silver and jewels, but they make people look vulgar. Some people are elegant and exquisite in collocation while their clothes are cheap. This is the difference in taste.
I once heard a story about a couple who made a windfall in business. Rich, rich life, but others always say they are tacky, they are not reconciled, they decided to attach elegance. On this day, they went to a cultural salon. In order to show their wealth, both of them appeared at the party wearing jewelry, which was incompatible with the elegant artistic atmosphere and made a big joke. At the party, someone sang the song "Man Jiang Hong". The couple saw that everyone was fascinated and asked, who wrote this song? It's really good. Others replied that it was Yue Fei, and the rich woman said seriously, "Can you tell me where this Yue Fei lives and what his telephone number is? He is too powerful, I can learn more from him! " ? ! ……
Therefore, vulgar people can only buy some luxury ostentation and extravagance even if they have money, and they are still vulgar in their bones.
On the contrary, without money, it is not impossible to have elegant taste. There are many such examples. Like many ancient literati, they often lived a poor but elegant life. Tao Yuanming's elegant taste of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely" is beyond the reach of ordinary people.
Too much emphasis on money, into the eyes of money, people who are slaves of money stink of copper, far from elegant taste. But on the other hand, those who blindly despise money, hypocritically treat money like dirt, are unrealistic and conceited, and such people can't help but have a sour taste. Like Kong Yiji, they also have different tastes.
In short, taste is not superficial, but the embodiment of inner noble character and cultural and artistic accomplishment. Elegant taste is to savor colorful life with your heart.
General requirements and objectives for improving taste:
External image, internal quality
Dress appropriately and behave generously; Kind-hearted, gentle and considerate.
Hairstyle is very important,
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