There must be many ways to love someone. You must learn to love yourself before you can learn to love others. If you don't even love yourself, I'm afraid it's hard to love others to the extreme.
True love should be to understand what love is, the relationship between love and self-love, and what to do when they encounter contradictions. All these problems can only be understood and understood by familiar people.
Second, talk about what she is not good at, and use demand to awaken her initiative. When people are most helpless, anyone or anything they can rely on is like a life-saving straw, which she can desperately grasp and actively rely on. This is the power of demand.
Third, tell me what she cares about most. Everyone has weaknesses, but it's hard to find one. You must know and be familiar with it. You know and understand what she cares most about women. You are more professional and familiar than her. That will attract her attention very much. This trust is established very quickly and firmly.
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What she is looking forward to most.
Dreams are powerful and radiant.
What is a woman's dream?
In fact, every woman's dream is different. Some want to work hard, some want love and compassion, and some want all kinds of freedoms, including freedom of wealth, freedom of life, freedom of luxury goods and so on. You should decide what to talk to the woman you meet according to her personality.
If she is a woman looking forward to a stable life, you might as well imagine the future and the distance between her and her. In the chat interaction, you should learn to let her see hope and light, which means that you have the ability to help her realize her dreams, and it is definitely not so frivolous.
For those abilities, you can put facts and reason, involving all aspects of you, be specific. It's better to be specific and let women feel your sincerity and reliability. You and she are definitely not short-term likes, but long-term companionship. After all, you need enough persistence in the distance to arrive safely.
When you give her a distant plan, ready to start at any time, just waiting for her consent, then a woman will take the initiative to be nice to you, because the initiative at this moment becomes a response, not a reserved destruction.
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What she's not good at is.
Just because she's not good at it doesn't mean she doesn't need it It is because she needs it very much but it is difficult to be skilled that you have room to shine and rely on it.
Women are used to relying on you, which is a very good sign.
What a woman is not good at is that she is eager to have someone who can give her care and love, but she can't rely on and ask for help casually. Doing so will make her feel humble, but you take the initiative to tell her that you are good at some of her entanglements, and you are always ready to help and pay, which will make women remember your special, sincere and warm, kind and thoughtful.
What are the things women are not good at? For example, repairing computers, maintaining cars, maintaining water and electricity operation, and repairing houses. Of course, many women can do it with some efforts, but they are very tired and hard. If someone helps her, it is naturally very lucky and happy. Even if it is not love, women will have a little affection and trust for you.
Don't think that if you tell her something she is not good at, she will be disgusted or angry. In fact, if you communicate properly, chat moderately and interact orderly, she will be awakened by you.
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What she cares about most.
What I care about most is actually my favorite.
Doing what you like and gaining a person's trust is always the first task.
What do women care about most? Generally speaking, it is these things, such as figure, appearance, fitness, eating, drinking and having fun, etc. Of course, some women are not interested in these things, but are interested in other things, such as games, rock climbing, traveling, diving and so on. No matter what your hobbies are, you can take the initiative to talk about her, or even chat with her in a familiar way, and she will often be very happy.
Sometimes, interest is more exciting and fascinating than the pursuit in life. This kind of existence has the feeling of life continuation and is a lonely companion. The more you know about her interests, the more sure you are to reach her heart.
In addition to the things that women are interested in, you can also observe the relatives and friends around her, which have touched her emotions. Grasping this point can quickly awaken her initiative.
Caring for her concern, liking her love and cherishing her concern will naturally attract her attention. As long as your words and deeds are decent and sincere, then her opinion of you will gradually improve, from unfamiliar to familiar, from familiar to favorable, from favorable to inseparable. This is a step-by-step process, and it is absolutely urgent.