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The twittering chicken said:

Marriage topic

There are many divorced friends around me recently. They usually go out to play. Although their husband-wife relationship is somewhat contradictory, they don't feel divorced. Moreover, both of them graduated from college, have stable jobs, income and children. If you can't do it, you must divorce. Of course, divorce is no big deal now, as long as it doesn't happen to you.

When several close friends get together for dinner and chat, marriage naturally becomes a topic after dinner.

The story of divorce

A works in the system, Sagittarius, average face value, extroverted personality, and his son has just entered elementary school. A doesn't shy away from the reasons for divorce. Her husband is a northerner, tall and handsome, with a big personality. When in love, A feels good, feels safe, creates romance and is healthy. He is satisfied with himself and his parents. Unexpectedly, after getting married, many small problems came out. A big man, who doesn't like bathing very much, is lazy, never cleans his house, throws dirty socks and trousers, has a bad temper, throws things when he doesn't agree, and even once slapped his child because of a quarrel. It is also because of this slap that A's heart was completely killed.

A attributed the end of his marriage to his personality. Love, which is what I pursued when I was young, is getting old. If you really get married, it still depends on your personality. The generated eyebrows seem like a lifetime thing, and my personality can't be changed. I really want to run in, collide and struggle for a lifetime like the older generation. It's not necessary to break up while young. Having a car, a house and a job, living freely and comfortably is better than being wronged at home every day.

Of course, we think the most important thing is that A has good personality, good maintenance and online value. Even with children, there are many suitors around him. Now, she takes beautiful photos of herself playing with her children in her own space every day. Compared with the yellow-faced woman who washes and cooks at home every day after marriage, she feels like she has lived a new life.

B is a friend of a friend of mine. I've heard of her. When B was young, the family found her a very rich business family. The man is a little older than him, treats her well and pampers her like a child. But b was still young at that time and had no feelings for his uncle at all. He was married for two years, separated for one year, and had no children. B divorced until death, and finally divorced. Then I found this, a little fresh meat three years younger than her. Small fresh meat chased her closely, bought whatever she wanted, and accompanied her to do whatever she wanted. After chasing for more than a year, they got married. After marriage, B gave birth to a son, so men are more motivated to do things. I heard that they are engaged in foreign trade and run around all the year round. Business is one after another, and there is no shortage of money. B moved several times, and finally lived in a villa, driving a luxury car of 1 more than 10,000 yuan. She doesn't have to do anything every day, so she was brought up as a housewife.

Married for five years, four-year-old child, attending kindergarten. B's husband has also become the company's vice president, spending more time on business trips and less time at home. Although the material conditions are good, B is always alone, and she can't help being lonely. She will come out to the party when she is free. Everyone admires her, saying that she is easy to talk to, material things don't have to be considered, time is free, and children don't have to worry about it. What's your complaint? B is sports, traveling, going out to play every day and going wherever you are busy. Until I saw something I shouldn't have seen in my husband's mobile phone. B divorced, no trouble, no see for half a month, and moved out alone.

For B, the end of marriage may be more of a man's problem, but sometimes when we talk about it, we feel that we can't always blame men. A family needs two people to support each other. When two people are busy at home, I am busy with yours, and I don't need each other, so I can't find a sense of existence. In fact, this marriage has always been invalid. In particular, B's husband often travels, and it is only a matter of time before they are together and leave each other.

Marriage, love and sexual relations.

So, sometimes I also think that love is an illusory thing. We have always loved one kind of people, not one person. We choose to get married because we love this person of this kind. But over time, our faces are getting old, and when we meet another person in this kind of people, we will naturally find new love.

For the body, it is still there when you are young. When people reach middle age, this thing will retreat to the back, which is not a mandatory option, but a plus item.

So, what is the cornerstone for a long-term and stable marriage? I had a long discussion with my friends. I think it should be the same interests. Two people together for a long time, love faded, and more is a kind of affection. To maintain this relationship, it is difficult to rely solely on sex, money and moral constraints. It is better to turn the relationship between husband and wife into friends, partners and partners. Maybe this will make it possible.

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Planning: Haw Chicken

Written by: za chicken

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