In fact, most of the reasons why couples quarrel are because they can't get each other's approval and understanding. The husband thinks that it is easy for his wife to do housework at home and take care of the children, while the wife thinks that her husband is free to work outside. In fact, it is not easy for two people, but everyone has no empathy. If the husband is asked to do housework and take care of the children, he may be overwhelmed. If the wife is asked to go out to work, she may not be able to bear the boss's scolding and heavy work.
I know that in marriage, both husband and wife sometimes feel wronged. When we enter the besieged city of marriage, in the trivial matters of daily necessities, two people bear different responsibilities, play different roles, have different burdens of life and have different personal feelings about life. All strong feelings can no longer offset the grievances in marriage.
Marriage needs the efforts of both parties. I understand and understand my husband's difficulties, but what I can't accept is that he doesn't agree with my efforts. He doesn't think I have as much as he does, and even thinks that my contribution is taken for granted.
Whose marriage is not wronged, if it is wronged, I am afraid that everyone's marriage is wronged. In real marriage and ordinary life, no one can swallow all kinds of grievances again and again and continue to support each other and accommodate each other.
In my opinion, it is not a grievance to take care of children, do laundry and cook, and it is a kind of enjoyment to accompany children and watch their daily growth. I just want him to hand me a glass of water and tell me when I am tied up with housework that marrying you is my greatest blessing in this life. And I will wait for him to come back from work and wait for him to come in and say "thank you".
Long time no see. Now that we have decided to be together, it is better to encourage each other, support each other and spend the rest of our lives together than to live a life of blaming each other.