Studying is very tiring, so you decide to skip this course;

I am very tired from work. I either go to the toilet or drink water every day.

Losing weight is very tiring, so you stick to it for a day and then plan to give up. ...

However, if you choose a "comfortable" life in vain, are you really happy?

When you skip class, some people choose to continue their studies, find an ideal job after graduation, and their career is getting better and better.

Fishing at work, others choose to work hard, and soon you will be promoted and raised by a big step;

When you give up losing weight, a truly self-disciplined woman will keep exercising and keep her body and mind in the best condition. ...

If you do it all over again, will you choose to indulge yourself again, or be self-disciplined and live a different life?

In this world, there are no perfect women, only self-disciplined women. What you see is exquisite, all of which are the efforts of others behind the scenes.

Sooner or later, you will understand that in this life, the most advanced gesture of women is actually only two words: self-discipline.

02.

In the TV series My First Half Life, Tang Jing is my favorite woman.

She is in her thirties. She lives seriously and doesn't like to think. All her energy is concentrated on her work, so that she can have a place in men's territory.

Tang Jing is an independent female representative with strong working ability, and always has a strong sense of urgency in her work. She can arrange for herself to meet more than 20 people a week. If she doesn't get promoted, who will?

A woman should keep her independence, and whether she is married or not, she can't make herself too dependent on others. Her advice to Luo Zijun is so practical.

Even after the breakup, Tang Jing was not immersed in sadness. She still pulled herself together and tried to make herself more refined. No matter when, she will always be the confident and powerful Tang Jing.

Work is very tiring, but Tang Jing won't stop exercising. She has a good figure, which is not born, but is maintained by acquired self-discipline.

In the play, it is often seen that Tang Jing is either at work or on the way to fitness. Such a self-disciplined woman is liked by everyone who watches.

Compared with Tang Jing, Luo Zijun's life is obviously much more indulgent. She got herself into the mire of marriage, didn't work, didn't think, thought she was happy, but lost her marriage and husband, and she was nothing.

03.

Only a self-disciplined person can keep his life in order and not be helpless when he is in trouble.

Tang Jing is a strong woman with a busy job, but her desk and home are always very clean and concise.

It can be seen from all aspects that she is an extremely self-disciplined woman. Even though she is busy at work, don't forget to live a good life.

Self-discipline is also a habit. If you want to be a self-disciplined woman, you must start with small things and change yourself bit by bit.

For example, set yourself an alarm clock tomorrow, get up at seven in the morning and read a book. Reading can change your temperament, and through accumulated study, you will definitely have a qualitative change.

Self-discipline means that you will stick to it no matter how difficult or troublesome it is.

Exercise can change one's posture. Fat people know that they can lose weight through exercise, but they always fish for three days and dry the net for two days, so they can't stick to losing weight. Shut up and take your legs, and you will naturally lose weight.

There is a reason why a person is fat. Today, you can reward yourself for losing a catty and a cup of milk tea, and you can stay indoors if it is too cold tomorrow.

But in fact, every time you sweat, you will take away the fat in your body. If you want to be a slim woman, you must keep self-discipline.

The significance of self-discipline lies in urging you to restrain yourself, restrain and change unrestrained indulgence, formulate your own principles of doing things with strong willpower and perseverance, and establish a stable and regular rhythm and order. Only in this way can a person be truly free.

This is a very impressive sentence in the book How Self-disciplined you are and how free you are.

Only by self-discipline can a woman dominate her life to some extent.

04.

The gap between people is not necessarily talent, but self-discipline. No matter how poor a woman is, she can change herself through self-discipline, fearing that she will not work hard even if she knows she is poor.

Tang Jing's success didn't come suddenly. She can examine her work tasks carefully. Be very careful when arranging work for subordinates.

She is meticulous in her work, never makes mistakes, and always finds accurate solutions to problems. Her omnipotence actually started from ignorance.

She keeps herself in a state of learning and will never let herself stand still.

A self-disciplined woman is the top woman, and no one can resist all kinds of temptations and persist in living day after day.

Although everyone knows that persistent study will make you successful, few people keep their study habits.

Women are most likely to fall in love. Many women change themselves after falling in love and give up their previous lives.

But I don't know, in fact, a man fell in love with you from the beginning, and you don't need to change. The original appearance is his favorite appearance. If you give up everything for him, it will disgust him.

05.

Therefore, women should keep their own lives even if they are in love, and never indulge themselves in love.

Always keep a little sense, always live with self-discipline, and you can feel the extreme of love.

I used to go shopping with my girlfriends, so I will continue to be with them. Don't give up my social circle just because of men.

Sticking to your boyfriend all day, sometimes your change is a burden for men.

For example, you gave up your beauty time and your study time for him, but in the end, you lost your attraction in his eyes.

Because. At first, he was attracted by your lively and lovely appearance. In the end, you changed for him and lost your original taste.

Tang Jing didn't change her life, even though she fell in love with Gao Fushuai He Han. She is still an efficient Tang Jing at work, and will not become a gentle little woman because of love.

She has her own arrangements, that is, work at work and exercise at the time of fitness. She is the queen of her life. Even if He Han wants to be near her, she will have to wait to arrange time for him.

Self-discipline may be painful, but the result is really fragrant.

As long as you stick to it, you will find yourself getting better every day, and quantitative changes will produce qualitative changes. Exquisite women are not born. You can live a high-level life by working hard on self-discipline.