Making the elderly happy can never be achieved by just buying things. They are generally unwilling to ask us what to do for fear of disturbing us. We should be good at seeing what they need from some details.
1, the elderly in rural areas are generally older grandparents, and their legs and feet are generally inconvenient. It's almost Spring Festival. We young people undertake some housework, help them clean the house, change sheets and quilts, and take them to take a bath and have a haircut. It may be hard for them to do it themselves, so we young people will do something within our power, even if it is to cook a meal and wash the dishes once.
2. The needs of grandparents can't be solved by money alone. What they need is that we care about them, talk to them, listen to their voices, talk about trivial things in life and work, accompany them for a walk, drink tea, watch TV, do aerobics, and take care of ourselves.
3. Care about your physical condition and plan to have a physical examination once a year. Elderly people with chronic diseases at home can give them classified drugs, prepare some emergency drugs, and mark the usage and dosage.
The happiest thing for the elderly is to see the family reunion, so young people from other places will come back to have dinner with their partners or children.
They want us to take care of ourselves, so we should protect ourselves, work hard and live a good life.
Come on, I hope everyone can make the elderly happy and have a good year!
Everything in 2023 is a new beginning, a new goal and a new hope.
In 2023, we may make such a wish for ourselves: I wish myself happiness every day! But not everyone can get what they want, such as people with hearing loss, especially the elderly. With the continuous growth of aging, hearing loss of the elderly has become the most concerned topic in society.
As the saying goes, "old children", old people will be angry, cheat and lose their temper like children. There are three reasons:
First, when people get old, their personality, temper and habits will change. Old people will become more cautious after they realize the decline of physical function and thinking ability. Due to the increase of age, cognitive ability and hearing loss, the elderly feel that they are not in control as before, resulting in anxiety and insecurity, becoming picky, introverted and difficult to get along with; In cultural life and intellectual activities, the elderly are no longer as active as they were when they were young.
Second, if the elderly can't be taken care of by their children, they will often be emotionally unstable, just like babies will cry if they don't eat milk. Old people are angry, usually because their needs are not met.
Third, some old people get angry because of illness. For example, elderly people with cognitive impairment and depression are often suspicious and eccentric.
In the face of the angry old man, the younger generation should take a caring and tolerant attitude, don't rush to defend or get angry, analyze the problem and have a clear aim.
In caring for the elderly, the younger generation should do what they can, not only to meet the material needs of the elderly, but also to give them more encouragement and care in spirit. For example, give the elderly with hearing loss a suitable hearing aid, so that they can participate in communication and get spiritual support and help.
In the new year, I hope more elderly people will get spiritual comfort and have a happy old age!