Love is in a hurry when graduation is just around the corner.
This is a pre-advertised large-scale breakup scene, and the tears of campus couples can drown the whole university town.
Is there any way to maintain this relationship after graduation?
Thousands of readers have given their own answers, and we have compiled a guide to prevent incomplete graduation.
I graduated last year, and in order to stay in the same city, we took the postgraduate entrance examination together. I am the only child in my family. My parents want me to go home after college. At that time, I said to my parents, "Give me a chance. If I fail, I will go home. "
The boyfriend put down his malicious words. "Even if one person fails the exam, we will break up." . We studied hard for six months, and no one left the dormitory except taking a shower. Take-out food is delivered directly to the dormitory every day. I gained 20 Jin, and finally I was admitted to the same university as him.
Now, we are married.
@ Zipei
In order not to break up, I secretly went to his city for an internship when I was in senior three.
Living in a rented house built by the village in the city, 300 yuan a month. A * * * two-story building, residents are hot pot restaurant, KTV employees. Sometimes through the crack of the door, middle-aged aunts will come back late to wash clothes and mop the floor, and men will lie on the sofa. The tenants on the first floor all have tattoos. They like to eat watermelon in bed and help me open the locked door. There is only one bed, an old TV and a concrete floor in my room.
It always rained and thundered at midnight that summer. I was lying in the house, always scared. After so many years, I can't forget that lonely and thunderous night.
But until the end, he never came to see me once.
@ Green Moore
After my girlfriend failed in the postgraduate entrance examination, I pushed her to my own company.
Ayu
When I first graduated, I obviously felt that my girlfriend was very cold to me. There are fewer active phone calls, and the responses to phone calls and text messages are becoming more and more concise.
One day I went to Xuanwu Lake to participate in a charity run and found that she was learning roller skating from a handsome guy. I said, when did you start to learn roller skating? She didn't surprise me when she saw me, but ignored me. "What brings you here? This is particularly interesting ... I won't tell you first, I went to practice. " And then staggered away.
I was depressed. I bought a pair of classic us88 in the skateboard shop the next day and taught myself secretly in the square not far from her practice point.
I often fall down, scaring the passing fitness aunt and grandmother into exclaiming, "Young man, slow down!" "I am moved and resentful in my heart. Strangers love me more than my girlfriend.
After a lot of effort, I was able to fall, and finally I skated just right, and I also mastered some flat flowers. When I was ready to show my talents, teach my girlfriend who had not yet started to learn and save a relationship, she said that she was not interested in roller skating.
@ White Feng Bin
After graduation, our long-distance relationship changed from 2000 kilometers to 10000 kilometers, from no time difference to 13 hours, and then back to 2000 kilometers, and so we struggled and argued countless times.
Later, he got married. He hurried home for a few days, got a permit and left, waiting for another 2000 kilometers. what can I do? Hold on.
I have always believed that he is the man I will marry in the future.
@ yulia
My girlfriend and I are children of ordinary families, so it is impossible for us to have enough time to find a job or even get married with the support of our family like some friends.
When I first arrived in Beijing, I slept in a small rented room of my former company colleagues for two weeks. Two men slept in a room of 9㎡ 1.5m bed. I remember my friend said that I wouldn't share a bed with a man even if I rented a room for 30 yuan. But I can't even afford to sleep in a 30-yuan group rental house.
Finally, I found a suitable house and got my first month's salary. When life finally improved, my girlfriend dared not come to Beijing. Beijing is too big for her. I remember that night, she suddenly told me that when she wanted us to keep the best, she was not sure what would happen in life. I collapsed that night, crying for friends, colleagues and bosses, and I didn't know what to do.
The next day, I booked the earliest plane without telling my girlfriend. I appeared in front of her with flowers and rings. She still cried and kept hitting me. I told her that I would definitely let you come to Beijing next month. I gritted my teeth and got a credit card. I paid more than 10 thousand for a house of 2300 a month. I must work hard during that time, and I must never be fired during my internship.
The company stipulates to work five days a week. I basically work six days a week, from 8 am to 8 pm 1 1. I got a little bonus and bought a new three-piece suit.
I cleaned the room, put on a new quilt, and finally I can proudly tell her through video, you know, this is the first home in my life that really belongs to me, our home.
Not long after she came to Beijing, my job was stable and my salary increased slightly. Finally, the two of them can live in Beijing. Then I bought a set of kitchen utensils, went home early from work, and cooked at home on Saturday and Sunday.
I don't remember what I suffered before, but I feel very happy now.
@ Golsky
My junior year was with my husband. I graduated last year and got a certificate six months later.
In order to make a positive result with him, I praised him in front of my parents for almost a year. So is he. Both parents had a good impression before they met us, which was very effective.
niuniu
The boyfriend I met in junior high school was still in a long-distance relationship in college, but at that time, in order to be together for life, I got a marriage certificate in my sophomore summer vacation (201August 13). At that time, both sides had just reached the age of obtaining the license!
I asked my dad's opinion at that time, and asked him if his peers were still studying hard, but he would feel embarrassed if I got a marriage certificate in a hurry. Unexpectedly, he said, "Now the university can get married, and the best of both worlds."
Taro
She and I are from different places, and there is still one year before graduation. Her family is not very good. She has two younger brothers. Usually, I only have time to see her in winter and summer vacations, and I sit for more than 20 hours in a hard seat. When I saw her, I felt everything was worth it. I live on 1000 yuan a month. In order to meet her every semester, I scrimp and save every month and only eat in the canteen.
I learned from her sister the other day that her father was rescued in the hospital because of an accident. I gave her 3,000 yuan saved for one semester. I just want to express my love for her with practical actions.
@Lac operon
The only preparation after graduation is to stop being so clingy and lazy as before.
I came to Beijing after the exam, found a job within a week and worked in the same company for two years. I'm busy, I work hard, and I'm growing fast. I paid a down payment and bought a house. I got my driver's license not long ago, although I am still working overtime.
stubborn
When I graduated last year, I stayed with my boyfriend who was one year younger than me for three months. I like him very much and want to have more opportunities to get along with him, so I didn't go back to my hometown, but chose to stay in Beijing and rented a single room of 3 thousand yuan near the school.
Because I am going to study abroad, I can't work nine to five. I have no income, and my parents help me pay rent and living. He will study in Europe after half a year, and I will go to Australia. So this year is also a year to lay the foundation for our feelings, otherwise it is very likely that we will not be able to live in a foreign country.
But I really like him and my parents support him, so I think it's worth it.
@ Wang Cai
International students, two high school classmates, just got their certificates. I poked out all the condoms to circle her.
Gee, fart
When I graduated, there were breakups everywhere. Four people in my boyfriend's dormitory took two, and after drinking, we bet that we can definitely take two. At the graduation dinner, my boyfriend left early and asked me to meet him at the old place. There were too many school dinners and I was busy for a long time. He had already left when I arrived. Call him again, but he didn't answer.
Finally, I had to call his roommate and realized that he was a little insecure and worried about breaking up. At ten o'clock that night, I put on my big hat and ran to his dormitory without any rules. He was in the upper bunk, and I stood on tiptoe to apologize to him. He blushed and finally said, "I'm naked." Why don't you go back yourself? "
We moved in together after graduation.
@ Li Chenxi
When sleeping in the same bed with him, I asked if I would break up. He said no, he would come to my city after graduation to protect me in the crowded subway in the morning and in the crowded bus after work. He will buy me my favorite snacks, take me to the comic exhibition and accompany me for a lifetime. Sure enough, boys will do anything to get you into bed.
On the day of his graduation defense, I specially took the train all night and went to his school to cheer for him. As a result, someone prepared a bouquet for him.
I do not love you anymore.
In order not to break up, we are now rehearsing the life of long-distance love. Things don't help, they rarely eat and meet together, and they maintain their feelings by chatting on their mobile phones. Not bad. I promised to get married after two years of graduation. This is also responsible for love and marriage.
@ Doudou
I chose to repeat the grade and wait for her for another year.
@ Lin Yao
I broke up early, and she asked me to choose between her and League of Legends. In order not to break up, I made a plan not to fall in love before graduation.
@ Zhang Taiyang
During my college years, my girlfriend and I discussed it hundreds of times. I think the first level that couples have to go through is called three views, at least in some basic things and interests, so I decided to finish the quarrel first in these four years.
With the last dignity of this era, I really object to the sentence "My girlfriend is right". Just fight, not quarrel. Use your small straight thinking to distinguish everything she says. Even if you make the other person cry, you should make it clear.
In college, the problems we face are nothing more than study and life, and it is very easy to be together. However, after graduation, there should not be too many challenges in the three views. Only when our feelings have a more solid foundation can we face this complicated world together.
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You may have found that this is a guide that can't change anything.
In these stories, no matter which way you use, you can't completely stop breaking up. Just as we can't predict the coming of love, no one can decide the way to end it.
We often say that the reason for breaking up is false, but it is true. Then the anti-breakup guide can be fake, but the heart that wants to go on is real.
Of course, breaking up is not a big setback. It's good to have a happy four years.
If someone told you that there is a 99% chance of breaking up after graduation, would you bravely choose to start and seize this 1% hope?