There is a saying: you think you are sending a circle of friends, but in fact you are sending a thief message! There are many people who love to send friends. I don't know if they are doing well, but I can see that they like posing very much! People who can make friends with everything should pay due attention, because your mood will be guessed by interested people. Because of your range of activities, you will set traps for people who take advantage. Because of your exposure, you will expose your life and put your family in danger! I'm not talking about alarmism. You can't hurt people, and you can't prevent people!

In the virtual world, there are all kinds of people in the vast circle of friends, and people who make friends undoubtedly expose their lives to the public! People with a strong sense of security will not send their personal information in the circle of friends at will, let alone show off or complain about their experiences, because it is virtual in itself, not real! In real life, true friends are hard to find, so in the virtual world, it is better not to show your sincerity casually.

This sentence in the title is poor! People who don't make friends in everything can't judge whether people are living well or not. In the world, people have different personalities. Some people are introverted, some are extroverted, and some are comprehensive.

Different personalities can determine a person's lifestyle. Introverts are more profound and do not easily show and express their emotions. This kind of person has a strong heart and a lone wolf; Extroverts are temperamental people, and you can't hide anything in life. This type of person is lively and cheerful by nature, outspoken and good at sharing bits and pieces of his life with others. People with comprehensive personality have strong adaptability, which includes the advantages and disadvantages of introversion and extroversion. Be good at thinking when doing things; Good at reading words and feelings. The biggest shortcoming of a person who can have a comprehensive personality is that he is full of doubts and hesitations about people and things.

Therefore, people who are not good at making friends are related to Otawa's personality and lifestyle. It has nothing to do with quality of life. Of course, on the other hand, in today's internet flood, I admire people who are not good at making friends.

Because I have all kinds of friends around me. Some like to send friends, and they can't wait to send them when they are free every day; Some people don't make friends in everything, and the WeChat group created is a decoration. Finally, one day, a friend who loves to send a circle of friends told me in a panic that his payment account was stolen and the money in the card was gone. Fortunately, my friend's stolen card has a few days' salary. But the old irons who are not good at making friends can go to a quiet heart in their daily life, unlike those who love to make friends.

This leads to the conclusion that "people who don't make friends in everything are all people with bad lives". This statement is wrong. I don't agree with this statement, and finally object!

Do my friends agree with me? Welcome to discuss with us at the bottom of the comment section. )

Theme!

You are full! What does it matter to you that others can't be friends? Without a circle of friends, how can you know that others will have a bad time? Don't entrepreneurs who don't use WeChat live better than you? You must be a person who has nothing to do and thinks all day. Please don't be a boring person!

It doesn't matter whether you can send a circle of friends or not. It's hard not to make friends when one's hobbies are different. Look at the circle of friends who sell products, either wedding birthday information or chatting, which has nothing to do with a better life. The real bet is not in the circle. A circle of friends is a rose thrown casually. The greater the benefits, the higher the secrets, and the fewer people know. Therefore, living well is in the circle of contacts, not in the circle of friends. Long Yin is often a deep pool, while there are fish floating in Shui Pi.

Do you want to send a circle of friends, see your own hobbies. Some people are quiet, others are active, with different personalities and lifestyles. Good days are created, not friends. Thousands of flowers and trees are different, and people's lives are different.

The person who said this sentence is likely to be the bottom of society, at most the middle. It is not good to send a circle of friends. I don't mean to discriminate. I'm from the bottom of society. I just describe it objectively.

I saw a point in the book style: the invisible top and the invisible bottom, the state of life is similar.

The invisible top floor is the invisible rich or powerful family in China, which you probably don't know. They are invisible to the public, and ordinary people are not qualified to see them. They have amazing resources, do not need too much effort, and are afraid of being restricted, so they keep a low profile. Relatively speaking, they are secret and free.

Those who are famous on the wealth list, Ma Yun and Ma, can hardly be counted as the top or middle class. They appear in the public eye, and their words and deeds are monitored by the public, which is relatively visible and not free.

Forget the middle class, the anxious majority.

Stop talking at the bottom, busy majority.

Let's talk about the invisible bottom first. Really is the kind of person who struggles on the line of life and death at any time. Although it may be small in number, it certainly exists. They were not seen. They may be scavengers or residents deep in the mountains. They just need to think about this meal and not starve to death. Maybe their smartphones have never been used, seen or worked hard. They are also relatively free and mysterious.

So who do you think has time to show in a circle of friends every day?

There is no mobile phone on the invisible ground floor, and it will not be sent.

The bottom workers work every day and can't wait to show off when they get the year-end bonus. Eating out and watching a movie, do you feel that you are a petty bourgeoisie and have entered the upper class?

The middle class is busy with education anxiety, medical anxiety and growth anxiety. They have little time to make friends, and most of them are prepared to work hard silently, and then give you all a surprise, so that you have more room to work hard again. . .

On the top floor, I haven't seen their circle of friends and have no right to speak.

Invisible top floor, I'm sorry I'm not qualified to see [covering my face]

People who make no friends at all are terrible.

People who don't always make friends have the following characteristics.

1, self-confident, people who don't send friends, they know how heavy they are, and they are confident because they don't have to express themselves through friends and brush their sense of existence.

2, people who are independent and don't make friends, they won't follow the trend, they won't see people around them making friends, they will slip away. They have the right to decide their own lives independently.

3, security, people who don't send friends, they don't need to vent by sending friends, because they are not worried, they have a sense of security and live a more practical life.

4. People who are alone and don't make friends like to be alone. Many people think that being alone is bad and lonely. Actually, it is not. For those who like to be alone, being alone is a happy thing, because when you are alone, you are with yourself. Only people who can get along with themselves will like a person and feel happy when they are alone.

5, real, people who don't send friends, they live more realistically, they like real experiences, instead of wasting time in empty friends.

6, happy, people who don't make friends, they live happier, they are not often affected by some negative energy of their friends, they like to do positive things, such as reading, sports, watching movies and so on.

Be a person who doesn't make friends, then your life will definitely be in by going up one flight of stairs. We shouldn't be a person who goes with the flow. We can't just follow what everyone is doing. If you want to be an independent person, do what suits you and what you really like, then your life will be happier.

I don't agree that people who don't make any friends are people with bad lives? On the contrary, people who don't make friends with everything are mostly people who have a good life!

I started to contact WeChat about 20 12, and I drove with my boss before. It seems that the proprietress gave me a smart phone because she was charging the phone bill or doing business. She had too many mobile phones, so she said, Xiao Li, what mobile phone do you use?

So I am like a primary school student who keeps a diary. Get up for breakfast every day and make friends. After lunch at noon and dinner at night, I will send a circle of friends. Go to the gym with the boss or his wife, make friends, play golf with the boss, and make friends with the boss. These remarks are your own life.

After seeing my boss home one night, I parked my car and went out to get drunk alone. I want to get drunk inexplicably, but I don't want to go there to get my ex back, because I still have nothing as before. If I am really like me in my circle of friends, I will definitely get her back, feeling that her life is hard and inexplicably uncomfortable. It turns out that everything in her circle of friends is for others to see, and suddenly I feel sorry for her, so do I!

That night, I ate hot pot and drank a case of beer alone. I don't remember how I got home. I didn't get up until the next afternoon I opened dozens of missed calls from my boss and his wife. Wechat is full of concern from the boss and proprietress, asking me what's going on and why no one answers the phone.

I took a shower, changed my clothes, went out to drive, and called my boss and proprietress halfway to say I was sorry. I got drunk last night because I knew my ex-girlfriend was having a hard time and drank too much. Then ask the boss where he is and return the car to them.

The boss immediately said: What's the matter? Xiao Li, do you want to quit? Return the car?

I'll reply immediately: yesterday disappeared inexplicably, delaying your trip. You're not going to fire me, are you?

The boss smiled and said, I always watch what you do. I can't fire you because of my feelings, and I haven't been delayed. If you feel embarrassed, give me 50 yuan. It cost almost 50 yuan to take a taxi today.

After listening, I froze for a few seconds and said with tears, thank you, boss. I'll pick you up right away.

I drove downstairs to the company and saw my boss standing downstairs on the phone. I drove there, just as the boss finished the phone call and opened the door. The boss patted me twice on the shoulder: Xiao Li, it's okay. I was young and had an ex. It took me five years to get out. Man, don't always look back, stand up and move on. Many times, if you miss it, it will really be a lifetime thing.

I muttered beside me: I've been drunk for almost five years, and I just figured it out yesterday. Living well is the best reward for your predecessor and yourself. I'm going to start my own new life, boss. I found it won't happen next time!

The boss smiled and said, are you sure you're out? Go home. Your sister-in-law called me all day today and asked me what happened to you. The three of us are eating at home today, and your sister-in-law is afraid that I will fire you.

I looked back at my boss, tears could not help but flow down: OK, I know, thank you for your concern!

I still remember that day, when the sun was setting and the warm sunshine came in, the boss leaned against the vice seat to open the window and close his eyes, with tears in his eyes, humming:

At the family dinner that day, the proprietress asked me the story of my ex-girlfriend. I told her everything after drinking too much. At that time, her mother thought I had no money and hit Yuanyang. She didn't turn her back on me. The proprietress drank too much and hugged me and said, "That's because her mother and she have no vision. I think you are a good boy. You work hard and seldom come back. Everything is fine except youth. This is the original problem. It's okay. I introduce you to a girl who is not too poor and loves rich people. Do you want it? "

I was drunk that night, lying on the bed in the living room of the boss's villa, unable to sleep. I remembered what I had done over the years, and suddenly I had nothing. I want to work hard, not deceive myself. I am an ordinary person. I listened to my fate and tried my best. Everything is meant to be.

It took an hour to delete my circle of friends that night, and I felt funny while deleting it. This is me, a ridiculous person, a clown. After deleting it, I sent a circle of friends and went to bed.

Send the boss to the company the next day, and then send the proprietress to have her hair done. My wife and my mother said that I drank too much yesterday, so you should sleep in the car first and eat at a local restaurant at noon.

When the proprietress was doing her hair, she drove to a local restaurant, and when she entered the box, she saw the two of us. I quickly said, sister, what's the situation? Didn't see your girlfriends at noon today?

Not long after the proprietress ordered the food, the waiter came in with a young woman about 165, wearing trousers, high heels, white shirt, black-rimmed glasses, high nose, big eyes, oval face and long black hair. As soon as the woman came in, she hugged the proprietress and said, Cousin, I have been working in the school here for two months, and you haven't asked me out to dinner. Why did you think of inviting me to dinner today?

The proprietress nodded at me and said, this is my driver Xiao Li, who is very nice. Didn't your mother want me to find you a boyfriend? I think he is good, and your brother-in-law also recognizes him. Try to get to know him? If you don't feel it, make more friends. Anyway, you are old!

Hello, your sister's driver Li Qiu, 28 years old. She is a local, her parents are alive, and she has a sister. She has no car or house, and she has nothing but a sense of responsibility and responsibility.

Poof, Li Qiuju burst into tears: First blind date?

Well, a little nervous!

I forgot what I had for lunch that day. I only remember that she kept laughing, asking and laughing. I'm embarrassed to have lunch.

After dinner, the proprietress asked me to send her to the boudoir to play mahjong. When she left, she said, Xiao Li, it's a holiday today and I won't pick up your brother-in-law at night. You and my sister have fun, young man. Want sunshine, want vitality!

In this way, I met her. A woman who loves to laugh and make trouble came into my world. She chats with me after work every day, asks me to go out to the movies, teaches me to play computer games, takes me to karaoke, takes me to the theater and volunteers. .......

Gradually, every day is happy. After picking up the boss and the proprietress, we sit in the car every day and wait for her to chat after class or after school. When she is free after work in the afternoon, we will pick her up or play with her. Soon we will determine the relationship between men and women. Naturally, she is pregnant and really doesn't want anything. She married me, and her cousin and brother-in-law, that is, my boss and proprietress, gave us a small set.

Later, I still drove for my cousin, but they would give me a raise from time to time and let me study management and entertain partners alone. Later, my cousin hired a driver and I joined the small management of the company. My wife also gave birth to a little son.

The child behind him grew up slowly with his wife. In addition to making phone calls, answering phones, occasionally checking information and photographing the daily life of his wife and son, friends rarely send them two or three times a year.

It's these two types of people who don't agree not to make friends:

First, when have you ever seen your leader send a circle of friends, basking in this and that, lamenting his origin, feeling this and that. Make trouble.

Second, mature people, who will send friends. People in the circle of friends are very complicated. Besides, mature people don't want others to spy on their joys and sorrows. Secular desires don't show off wealth and bask in this and that. You should know that people nowadays are laughing at the poor and jealous of your wealth, so why bother?

People who are still in the circle of friends are nothing more than WeChat business, direct selling, selling houses, selling clothes and selling insurance. Anyway, they all want to make money.

Besides these people, do you make friends? It's so childish.

If you want to record your life with a circle of friends, you can see it in three days.

You are absolutely right. I never send friends. It's really just so-so Many friends bought air tickets and aired them first. I don't want others to know where I have been except my lover.

Although some people say: "People who don't make friends in everything are all unlucky people", I still don't quite agree with this sentence.

Because all people who make friends have the same starting point, they all want to express their inner thoughts and let their friends know what they have done. Everyone who doesn't make friends has different starting points.

Social networks are playing an increasingly important role in modern people's daily life. From making phone calls and sending text messages in the communication era to the emergence of social products such as QQ and WeChat in the network era, it is more and more convenient for people's social life, further narrowing the distance between people, and truly realizing the opportunity to see the ends of the earth.

In life, the function of WeChat's circle of friends has entered the daily life of most people. Although most people browse the WeChat circle of friends every day, not all of them do, and these people are not unlucky people, just because of their own personality.

In life, some people like to make friends, while others naturally don't. People who like to make friends are willing to share what they find interesting with their friends to enrich their circle of friends.

However, some people may be introverted and smile at what they like, but they will not share it with their friends.

Introverted, unwilling to meet more people in life, unwilling to talk more, disliked social networks, rarely spoke in WeChat groups, and hardly made friends.

The circle of friends now is already quite a public place. Introverts don't like to communicate with others, and they don't like to express themselves in words, let alone words. Naturally, they don't see their friends off.

Some people have a relatively light life and work, and belong to people who have leisure and fun. They send dozens of friends every day and keep sharing their work, life and thoughts with them.

On the other hand, some people, who are tired by the office every day in their life and work, often get up early and come back late all night. People who are busy from morning till night seldom have time to make friends.

I believe that most people have had this kind of busy experience. When they are too tired to pick up their mobile phones, who remembers what circle of friends to send?

Some people don't want to expose too much privacy, and they always have a strong defensive mentality. They are afraid that others will know their personal information through their circle of friends and don't want to be disturbed.

Others are worried about revealing too much personal information in the circle of friends. Nowadays, online fraud is everywhere. Some lawless elements will enter your circle of friends, steal useful information, and eventually cause property losses to themselves or their relatives and friends.

Some people who don't make friends are low-key people. This kind of person is very low-key and doesn't like to show off. Even if they are rich, they don't like publicity. In the circle of friends, such people never bask in the steering wheel, never bask in food, never bask in beautiful scenery, and may occasionally bask in the sun.

These people don't like to show off too much in their circle of friends. For example, some successful people or people with certain professional status are very low-key. This kind of person is hidden and very defensive. Ordinary people can't easily see personal information and personal whereabouts, and they don't want others to see their circle of friends.

They spend their time on more precious things and seldom spend time brushing friends. Low-key people neither hate nor like friends. They just feel that there is nothing to show in the circle of friends. Life is like this, and they don't need to satisfy their vanity through the circle of friends.

This kind of person is a person with low self-esteem and strong self-esteem. When he saw other people's circle of friends, he felt that others were basking in the sun, and he could not bask in anything. He simply hides in his own world and doesn't let others find out.

Although, it seems that he has no circle of friends and is a person who is divorced from society. A person who has nothing to do with fashion, new trends and openness has no idea of the current pace of life and is always a beat behind others.

Some people naturally despise friends.

In their view, many people will take a picture of their friends before eating to show off. In order to prove how rich they are, some people send valuables such as gold, silver and jewelry to friends to show off. Some people do WeChat business and send all kinds of small advertisements directly to WeChat friends circle, which is as indelible as psoriasis.

In the eyes of this kind of people, WeChat's circle of friends has long been smouldering, all for their own interests, and they have already felt very disgusted with the circle of friends. I was disturbed by many people intentionally or unintentionally and suffered greatly. I don't want to have any thoughts in my circle of friends, just don't want to disturb other people's lives.

Although these people don't make friends for different reasons, their lives are not necessarily bad. On the contrary, they may have a good life and enjoy it, but they just don't want others to know and influence them.

Who else do friends know who doesn't make friends? Of course, don't say that there are people who don't have smart phones. They haven't seen the circle of friends and won't send it.